Not even in the game - No Threat

Not even in the game - No Threat

Dominant Women and sissy hubbies, a question and some thoughts.
When was it that you realized and under what circumstances did you finally realize that sissy was just a sissy and no longer in the game as sissy's concept of flase maleness became laughable and firmly not an issue, for the wife, GF, the sissy and others? When did it become clear, sissy wasn't ever considered to be a man? When did it hit home like a punch to the stomach?
I remember quite a few times while dating and back when i was married that my lack of maleness was boldly displayed and i firmly realized i wasn't considered a male in any way by the ladies present, here are some examples:
Sitting with a group of women in a bar, including my then wife, who is now an out of the closet lesbian, btw, and hearing from one of her friends, "oh don't worry about talking about anything in front of him, I think of him as just one of the girls, you should too." My wife laughed.

It was also mentioned at another time, my sex organ was my tongue and fingers.

i asked her if she enjoyed her big time last night, referring to her going out. She had come in takes and we had some sort of sex. She misunderstood, and angrily responded, " what do you mean big, your not big, never think of yourself that way, I've seen and been with big men, you are small."

Another time, a discussion of males peeing all over and leaving the seat up. She says, "Oh everyone here pees sitting down, this is a woman's house, panty wear people pee sitting down."

Another woman i knew, "it's OK for me to pee in front of you, I wouldn't do that with a man, but with you it's different, I think of you as one of the girls."

Once while out with a lady friend, we were going out to lunch and to do some sissy shopping. Before leaving, she had my try on one of her dresses. She had been telling me the most feminine item she owned was a full slip, as she felt there was no male equivalent to a slip. Some moments from that day included the following: she says, "Oh honey, don't forget your purse, you are going to need it." While buying a black slip she picked out for me, as I was about to pay for it, she says, "If this fits you well, we'll come back and get you some others. Later she had me try on the slip, and a skirt and jacket, and had me turn around and stay still and quiet, I think she was masturbating. During that same visit, she had to pee, so she went into the bathroom and left the door open and continued her conversation with me, as if i was just another female, totally unthreatening to her or any woman, just like women who pee together.

When women begin to properly treat a sissy cuck as a sissy cuck, or like another woman, it is clear that a sissy is just a sissy and fully considered non-male, a non-threat, someone without a threatening penis, someone whom feminine conversations can take place, guys and how well endowed they are or aren't cal be discussed, feminine health and sex issues and fashion can be discussed, etc., making it clear to the women and the sissy, that she's just a sissy girl and everyone knows it, and that's just how things are.
I hope this makes sense and starts a discussion.