corevalue
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OK. My experience is this:
The first couple of weeks you are locked you are super-horny - you will think of nothing but sex, sex, sex, and then the knowledge that you can't have your usual wank to relieve yourself cuts in. Very, very frustrating....
Fortunately, you will adjust to it. By about the end of the first month, you will give up having sexy daydreams and ambitions (on other women, for example). However, if your partner decides to stimulate you (by teasing) you wil experience desire like YOU HAVE NEVER FELT BEFORE. You will beg her not to tease. You will learn to bring her to incredible orgasm orally, and not be aroused yourself; for the first time, you will concentrate on pleasing her. A bonus is that I have a kind of internal orgasm as she comes, but no ejaculation (can't, CB3000); and the whole act of giving oral becomes DEEPLY satisfying to me. Just as good as a real orgasm, but without the fireworks.
Sleeping thorugh the night is something you get used to, you need to go to the toilet and empty your bladder if you start having an erection. That too, tapers off a bit.
The longest I have been in chastity was four months. At the end, I was masturbated by my partner (she is an expert); four seconds in I was begging to cum; and finished in about fifteen seconds, in tears, I might add - you will not believe how EMOTIONAL that is. You have desire, love, trepidation, frustration, and through it all, the knowledge that there's months ahead of you until the next time.
I guess that prolonged abstinence allows the muscles that you use to hold back to weaken. For me, it is not possible to hold back for more than a few seconds, for some weeks after a long period of chastity. My wife finds this very amusing, and has decided on a regime of 1-2 months in chastity, followed by 30 seconds to drop a load into her "milking bowl" as she calls it. If i can't cum in 30 seconds, tough, I get locked back up. So far, that's only happened once over the last couple of years (hence the four months...).
I've been told that now I'm used to it, she might reduce the milkings, maybe even give me one last handjob and be finished with it. That excites me enormously, and I wind up crying out of frustration, and begging her not to tease me so.
In a way, she's completely ruined me. I am smaller (now 4.5", was 6") and I know that if another woman was to touch me, I'd ejaculate immediately, not that there's much chance of sexual contact, in a CB3000! I even try to avoid contact with other women, in case I have a spontaneous ejaculation. This happened once, when another woman flirted with me. Fortunately, my wife never found out!
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corevalue
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Well, we can't have it all. My wife only cucked me once (and very well, apparently, I got feedback that she was one hot piece!) some years ago. She was utterly ashamed at what she had done, as the other guy almost left his wife to run away with her, which was not what she wanted. All she was after was a bit of uncomplicated fun!
The best I get now is when she flirts gently with other guys. That really puts the butterflies in your stomach after a few weeks of the CB.
A full month! You will enjoy your Xmas like no other, believe me. A tip: if you're going to be locked up again afterwards, beg her to be quick with the handjob, let her "ruin" your orgasm and immediately go down and satisfy her orally. That way you'll settle down again better afterwards. Good luck!
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