denied orgasm--ruined orgasms---hopefully just the beginning

slowly trying to ease my gf into the cuckold thing --

but she says she doesnt want other people involved -- but she is denying me orgasm now, and had me buy a harness and dildo to 'fuck' her with
its about 8.5 and realistic feeling she loooves it. i picked it out-it happend to be brown and she was cool with that. the first day she had it she couldnt stop actually stroking it..seriously and she came like in 3 mins
when i put it in her

also she is realllly havin a good time denying me orgasm and making me have ruined ones--any one have to have those ?

anyways anyone know of some additional forums or chatrooms
where she can get more feedback on her humiliating of me (maybe like a dom womens group or chatroom)---so she can keep on moving in the right direction?

Ruined orgasm example.

She has you tied up and is talking dirty to you and jerking you off slowly. Just as you are about to come, she stops stroking, and you come in the air, unable to finish coming. Or the extreme, as you start to come, she grabs the base of your cock, pressing hard on your urethra so that none of the semen is allowed to escape. The pressure causes it to back up into your bladder, and you pee it out later.

Other dominant alternative; Milking. Without masturbating you, your dominant woman puts on a rubber glove. You are on your hands and knees with a condom on your cock. With no other stimulation, she sticks her finger up your butt and slowly massages and presses on your prostate until the semen dribbles out of the end of your cock without an orgasm. Usually, they remove the condom and make you take the semen.

Removal of semen without an orgasm.

How dominant and humiliating is that?

But fun, if you are that kind of permister.
I will make you crazy.