Rocker:
If both are in agreement, then fine. It's when she makes the demands without the consultation of her partner that's a problem.
Yes. When my wife Debbie accepted that I was serious about allowing her to go with other men we agreed two ground rules. Firstly I didn't want her doing it with anyone I knew so I couldn't put a face to the name and secondly, that she'd use condoms. She'd been sterilised after her 4th chi1d so pregnancy wasn't an issue, but I didn't want her bringing home any sexually transmitted infections.
Although she stuck to this with her first extra-marital encounter - well, what I thought was her first at the time - it quickly became apparent that it was a case of her pussy, her rules. The use of condoms ceased first with a 28 year old security guard - Debbie was 44 - pumping my wife full of cum two afternoons running, but then a former work colleague of mine unexpectedly sent her a friend request on Facebook. Debbie confessed that he'd tried his luck by asking her out years before and although she'd been tempted to take him up on his offer, she'd been a good girl back then and turned down his advances.
Things were different now she'd cuckolded me of course and soon they were messaging and texting one another all day, every day. I could see where this was heading and I think Debbie was pleasantly surprised and quite relieved when I suggested that she should go and see him. After two or three false starts with him cancelling meeting up and me wondering if nothing was going to happen, she unexpectedly went to his house one Sunday afternoon whilst I was out.
She texted me later to pick her up from the end of his street, now minus her panties and his cum trickling down her bare inner thighs. Later at home once the kids were as1eep I was treated to her account of what had happened and the sight of her red, puffy pussy, still gaping open and still oozing Mick's cum. We played a little game whereby I pretended didn't even know she'd been out, let alone where, who with or what they'd been doing. I had to act dumb and made two or three wrong guesses before she prompted that I knew him and didn't like him very much. After two more wrong guesses - one of whom I later found out had already fucked her without me knowing - I asked if it was Mick. "Yep!", she said with a big smile and I eagerly lapped up what he'd left inside my wife before I entered her. She been fucked hard and her pussy felt more open and wetter than usual.
I was aware that she'd been to see him again a couple of months later, but it wasn't until after me and Debbie had split up and divorced that I added Mick as a friend on my own Facebook and eventually plucked up the courage to talk to him about Debbie. he was a bit cagey at first, but once I'd revealed that my wife had had a free pass and that I knew that they'd fucked and was okay about it, he warmed to the subject and was only too happy to reveal all. How they'd fucked on and off for 2-3 years until he'd moved away, usually at her request and how he'd even taken her away on holiday when I thought she was with someone else entirely! Disappointingly he told me Debbie wasn't as good in bed as he'd both hoped and expected and that her younger sister Kim who he also dated was better.
Debbie had I assume decided that she got more pleasure doing things behind my back thus not having to tell me all about it when she got home. One or two she told me about, a couple of others she didn't, including one of her best mate's step-dad. Her friend later told me how Debbie would go and visit once a month, but had soon started staying overnight at the step-dad's flat. He apparently was more complimentary about my wife's prowess between the sheets, telling his step-dau8hter that Debbie gave great blow-jobs and was a lovely shag.
I just don't get the secrecy as I'd have had no qualms about her having sex with any of these guys, but we gradually drifted apart. We didn't have sex during our last year together - well, she was getting serviced regularly elsewhere of course - but it was still a shock when she moved in with a guy two doors away. I'm sure it gave the neighbours much amusement to see me in one house and my wife shacked up with him, with me even suffering the indignity of her seeing me walk by and then holding a conversation with me from their bedroom window. They've moved across town now but are still together. I still miss having such a naughty wife, hence why I still frequent this site and I don't regret suggesting she should go out for extra cock. I think she'd have done it anyway, but I'd definitely do it all again. No regrets. I loved knowing my wife was being fucked.
Peter C