geecrizzWe had been married for 7 years when she had a 6 month affair. She moved out during that time. We reconciled after a year apart and have been back together for almost four years... had another *****, bought a house, etc.
I didn't see the magnums until about four months into our reunion. I already knew about the affair but had not inquired or heard anything about his size until then. Of course, my mind had gone there but I had never asked.
When I found the unopened Magnums I snapped a picture and sent to my wife with a "shocked face" emoji and she responded "Sorry!" Later that night we had our first conversation about it and she acknowledged that this guys was 8 or 9 inches, and thick.
Gradually I learned that she had loved his big dick, it had been exciting for her (I am 5 in.), she had told girlfriends he was hung, etc. The *********** of others knowing was way too much at first, but obviously now it's a turn on. It's definitely also emasculating to know and see this guy on social media and know that he lives in my neighborhood where I could run into him easily.
When she's in the right sexy mood, she'll tell me little things playfully to set me off, like the comments I mentioned above. Sometimes after sex I will use an 8-inch vibrator on her, and she'll tell me little stories from the affair. Definitely not for everyone, but it works for us!
Some other little comments that come to mind:
-she barely had to move when she was on top, the size alone was enough to get off
- she once referred to how he would give a slow gentle orgasm first, then the next one would be the "shock and awe"
- his cock could would touch the back of her throat when giving oral
- he would sometimes walk around their apartment naked after taking a shower- was so hung that she would inevitably fall to her knees and start blowing him
- he liked to pull her hair when fucking her from behind
- he fucked her on the hood of our (still) family car
As far as the question about if she knew I was into cuckolding. She knew I had been curious about it years ago, but it was just a passing conversation. I hadn't thought about cuckolding for years until this affair.