New Poll - [CUCKOLD COUPLES] Are you "out" about your lifestyle?

I'm curious - for those of you who planned it to be "out", did you find this lessened the excitement of it all? Or increased it?

I would think keeping it illicit would be far more exciting, but I suppose if you're more into offense, it might be more exciting to out yourselves.

Do you think that's the main difference between those who do NOT want others to know, and those who DO?
Wannabe - see my captions at http://www.cuckoldplace.com/27_74912_1.html

anyone else?
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guess its a conscious choice, we didnt want it out but it came up now my family knows and it caused problems

Our situation was perhaps a little different to others in that we only started this lifestyle after my illness meant I could no longer participate in sex. So several "support" people needed to know what we were doing and they were told. Over the years many more people have worked out how we have kept such a stable relationship despite my regular hospitalizations. It's funny but the doctors have all praised our resourcefulness, they see the positive benefits a "happy, healthy" wife can have in a relationship like ours.

Very interesting jindaboy, thanks for sharing.

Linda38DD - what kind of problems have you faced?
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