Serious Question, help???

Ok, I am 21 years old and really into this whole thing, straight addicted. It is really affecting my life. How do all of you people go on leading happy lives? I am trying to figure out if I should try to change this whole thing or just continue with it and live it out. WHat do you people do, how do you stay with girl friends and ect ect. Tell me about how you make this fantasy work with your lives????

I think that most of us learn to understand that our fantasies are just a part of who we are, not the deviant thing that society tries to tell us our thoughts are.

After a while, we just learn that the desire to be cuckolded, or just generally dominated, is an integral part of our permisterality, no different from enjoying the taste of cheese or Adam Sandler movies.

That's when things get individual. There's a lot of different ways that you can live your kinky life.

You can keep your kinks fantasies, sharing them or not sharing them with your girlfriends, enjoying them during together time or alone when you're spanking out a quickie.

You can channel those fantasies into an artistic endeavor, like so many of us do with captions and erotic stories.

You will find that many women are more than willing to indulge your fantasies, and may even grow to enjoy them themselves, if they have been given a chance to love you before hand. A lot of women see no problem in men having kinks and enjoying those kinks in the bedroom.

There are a few people who actually manage to live a cuckold, or dominant, lifestyle fulltime, though I'm pretty sure that they are the rarity.
Like it or not, most women are still uncertain of their natural power over men and *** to defy their upbringing to enjoy that power.

So, basically, you accept yourself as you are, live your life, have some girlfriends, find a few who will indulge your desires, and maybe find a keeper who enjoys your desires.

And believe me, you cannot change who you are, no more than any of the rest of us could. You'll just find, in time, that you don't have to, that you're pretty freaking content with who you are.

-The Sissy, Maddie Fay.
You can check out all of my captions at MaddieFay.com

Try to live your fantasies.
If you hide them, you'll regret that.
And nopbody ever stops having them.

This said, be advised that the search is hard.
Women are not very interested in unusual sex, 90% of them are absolutely boring in bed.

Go for the other 10% and be patient.

It's purely discretionary, you've got to decide for yourself whether it's something you actually want or something that you just have fun fantasizing about. For me, I'm 25 years old, very into the fantasy, but the only people I've ever discussed it with are a couple discrete friends. I think it'd probably be enjoyable in the context of the right relationship, but not long term. I've been with the same woman for two and a half years and have no desire at all to have that kind of lifestyle with her (and she wouldn't be into it anyway).

Remember, it's up to you. No one else can tell you what's going to be right for you and what's going to make you pleased with your sex life. You've got to use your best judgment and hope for the best.

Indeed. Except that as opposed to enjoying cuckolding, enjoying Adam Sandler movies should be classified as a severe permisterality disorder.

Now, now. "Bedtime Stories" was kinda cute.
You can check out all of my captions at MaddieFay.com