I thought this was a cuckold site ..just had to say goodbye

Before i left this site i had to let some people know cause i know they enjoyed my caps. However i realize that this isnt a cuckold site. and thats why i came here. I guess im just tired of getting on here and seeing topics called powerd faggot, cross dressing, cocks getting cut off, cuckold,..you know what im talking about. Topics that have nothing to do with cuckoldry. And i know some people will say just skip past those topics. However the problem is i have to read through the topics to find one i may like. And when i see some of the topics names, im completely turned off and think to myself, what the hell is going on here. Am i innocent because of my fetish of wanting to see wives with other guys? no, and i dont claim to be innocent. However if i wanted to see cross dressing, gays, cuckold, and guys getting there cocks cut off. I would go to other sites that had those things. I didnt think i'd be seeing it at "cuckoldplace.com." So sorry for taking up your time in reading this. I wish i could stay around to see how pissed some of you get..lol. But Im out of here.

I'm truly sorry that it got to the point where you felt like you had to leave. I know that sometimes nowadays I, much like you, am also very shocked and appalled by some of the topics that come up on this board (including many of the ones you mentioned). It does seem, though, that unlike you, I have been able to ignore or not click on these threads... or, on the rare occasions that I have, I still managed to find some inner strength to stop myself from flying into a tizzy and moralizing about my permisteral rejection of other peoples' kinks as though my own sphere of perversion was the only one that is permissible.

One thing that helped me was my steadfast commitment to not being an insufferable self-centered twat who would presume that others would even care if I were so shaken and incapable of dealing with change. I'm sure you can imagine that the whole "penning a heavily-moralizing and high-handed screed designed to chastise the community" part that you tacked on wouldn't have even occurred to me, even if I had thought of leaving. Well-played!

I certainly will miss your (one set of) captions, though. If I recall correctly, they were fairly competent, if uninspiring, but that they were also a bit of a superfluous rehashing of some pretty well-worn themes.

I hope you find a new community that suits your standards!
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I quite agree with most of "oneheart" said and I think the response from "boss" to someone who has already left is that of a fatuous bully from a safe distance. There is one dimension of cuckoldry that is generally ignored in this site and that it is the psychological/emotional side of it. Sissies, slaves, subs, bottom-bi s and masochists are well represented here but, like "oneheart" says, where are the addicted voyeurs of their beloved woman being seduced and used in ways she enjoys? I am there to watch and enjoy the view and to make sure she is safe and that she is never powerd to do anything she does not want or like.

Interesting to see that even someone who wants *his wife to fuck other men* can be judgemental, despite cuckolding itself being strongly frowned upon by society at large.

Who is he to say what constitutes cuckolding and what doesn't? Couples often mix crossdressing, powerd feminization, gay sex, B&D, S&M, chastity, etc. in with cuckolding. What, they're not doing it correctly? I didn't realize we had appointed a Perversion Cop.

There's a saying in the chastity community that cuckolding follows chastity like night follows day. Cuckolding can be a very profound power exchange, which for some couples clearly puts it in the dominance/presentation realm of behaviors.

So there we have it--a cuckold-fetish bluenose. Remarkable!

Sa Tyr: There are plenty of threads here that cover the aspects of cuckolding you enjoy. The point is that oneheart appears to believe that there should be only certain ways to be cuckolded, and that (apparently) s/he should be allowed to determine which of those are "good" ways and which are "bad", and that the "bad" ones shouldn't be on this site. Good god, just go to the next topic.

There's a scene from "Blazing Saddles" that applies to oneheart's post.

In that scene, the black workers and white citizens of the town have just defeated the evil railroad baron, and the blacks want to be allowed to live in the town. The mayor says no, but then even the white citizens boo him, so he says oh, alright, *everyone* is allowed--"But we don't want the Irish!".

And if you want to see what happens when some grand poobah is in charge of determining who gets to live in town... I was banned from eunuch.org. Now, eunuch.org is a site all about castration and penectomy, so you'd think they would like my captions, what with the penectomy and all. But they didn't like my *username*. They said it is offensive.

Which is pretty funny, because my Wife calls me "silly faggot". It's engraved in lowercase cursive into the dogtag I wear on my Iron Maiden chastity device. It's what Her lover calls me. It's what Their girlfriend calls me. It's my name, dammit. But apparently the word "faggot" is offensive to men who want their testicles and/or penises removed.

People are so sensitive that they wind up balkanizing the world into little cliques. And that's the start of discrimination, racism, bigotry, homophobia, etc.

Just live with others. If you don't like what they do, but what they do doesn't hurt anyone, ignore it.

There are certainly aome threads that absolutely amaze me, castration being one that I never thought had a chance of taking off, but has. I simple avoid those sites. As one who has posted a very large selection of caps, I do a lot of cuckold caps, but after doing hundreds of them I also like to throw in a lot of tease caps and I like to make some fun stuff. I know by now that I am very moderate and there are a few, and I mean a few, that seem very extreme to me. So I don't look at them. I will say though as one who has been here a very long time. The extreme ones are grwoing in number.

I forgot to mention but the permister who pointed out that there different ways to cuckold someone reminded me about what seems to happen to every group I have ever seen where female domination is mentioned. Eventual;ly hardliners take over and state that domination (or cuckolding) has to include so and so. There are people who believ it must mean males swallowing sperm (no turn on for me) or it must be to a black man, or whatever. The only thing that must be in these relationships is what the couple agree on and that the womans needs come first. If she wants to toally deny the husband or allow him to have sex also, whether she yses power or the power of words. If she is allowed other men, or in a dominant relationship, if she calls the shots and they are happy, then it is a cuckold or dominate relationship, depending on which you are going for.

Hardliners who take over and say cuckolding has to include XYZ are guilty of the same mistake as oneheart. There is no "right" way to do cuckolding. If a couple likes it soft and gentle, fine. If they like to include female domination, fine. If they like to make the cuck suck the lover's cock, fine. If they like to make the cuck dance on one foot while juggling and singing that misterg from "Man With Two Brains", fine. The point is that there is a wide spectrum of what works for people, and no one way is best. I wouldn't presume to tell the people who like light play that they're doing it wrong and their threads offend me, and all I'm asking is that they extend me the same courtesy.

In other words, martin100, I'm agreeing with you.

Why are you the arbiters of what constitutes "true Cuck material"?

A less-judgemental statement would be: "to find the kind of Cuck material that appeals to us".

It's a buffet. If you don't like jello salad, don't eat it. But don't criticize people who like jello salad, and don't tell the proprietor of the buffet that they shouldn't offer jello salad. Otherwise, someone who is lactose-intolerant will get all the dairy products removed, various religions will get the shellfish and pork removed, some vegan will get the rest of the meat removed, and etc. until there's nothing left but shaved ice, empty bowls, and a lot of hungry diners.

Some people really like jello salad.

Blowjobs used to be illegal in this country because some bluenose decided that wasn't the "right" way to have sex. Dildoes were only recently legalized in Texas. There's always someone who is pretty sure they know how other people should fuck.

I expect now someone will start in with "I'm no censor, it's just that <fill in the blank> is over the top."

That's obfubrownieed English for "I'm a censor".

brenda: What "track" exactly would that be? Is there an Approved Form Of Cuckolding you would like to make be the official way in which cuckolding is to be performed by all practitioners? Is there a formal review process for approving the Approved Form Of Cuckolding, perhaps with a public-feedback period? Who is the Official Approver of this sanctioned approach to cuckolding?

faggot89 hold on you capitalized Iron Maiden so like that band makes chastity devices? oh and I'm no censor, it's just that...
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Named after the medieval *** device, not the band (the band was also named after the medieval *** device).

By far the finest, most-comfortable chastity device I've ever had the privilege of wearing, and the vendor is great to work with. Mine has a customization to retain a Prince Albert piercing, and at some point the vendor will probably release a product with that built in. With the PA retainer, it is completely secure. My Wife/Keyholder/Cuckoldress keeps me locked up in it most of the time.

But chastity might not be an Approved Form Of Cuckolding, so I'd better be careful about talking about it!

SheDatesHeWaits: So, it's limited to a man with an unfaithful wife, period? Then let's make sure we nail this down properly. Does the man get to see the wife commit adultery? That's not in the definition--that's voyeurism. But if he's prohibited from watching and wants to watch, that's female domination. Kind of tricky to get that part worked out, so let's move on. Does the husband get to fuck his wife or not? If so, that's group sex. Is that allowed? Or is it not group sex because the fucking occurs at a different time/location than when the wife commits adultery? Or does he not get to fuck his wife, which is female domination again? What are the wife's motivations for relaxing with another man (or men)? If it's because her husband is inadequate in bed, that's small-penis humilation, or some related fetish. Is that allowed? If not, what is her motivation? Is she just so horny one man isn't enough? That's nymphomania. Is that allowed? Are there particular sex acts she performs when she's being unfaithful? For example, can she give her lover a handjob, or a footjob, or a titty fuck, or a blowjob, or buttsex? Are those really under the standard definition of infidelity? (The dictionary I looked it up in makes a distinction between acts that can lead to pregnancy and those that don't.) Also, if footjobs are allowed, aren't we drifting dangerously into foot fetish and away from cuckolding? Does the cuckolded husband go down on the wife after her infidelity? That's creampie fetish. And it verges on gay sex. Speaking of which, would the wife commit her infidelities in such a way that the husband is a participant? If so, how much does he participate? Would he touch his wife's lover in any way? Seems kind of gay. But if he doesn't touch him, is there some kind of intricate ballet of body parts that avoids the touching? That seems kind of rude, actually, the husband going so much out of his way to avoid contact with the lover--I mean, is the lover diseased or something? And what should the wife wear? We have to be careful she doesn't wear anything fetishy, because that would blur the lines. I'm starting to get kind of tired trying to keep all this straight, but it sounds like basically the wife can have vanilla sex with a man not her husband provided she does it lovingly and the husband doesn't have to touch anything if present or is not present and she washes carefully after sex before her husband touches her.

cuckold |ˈkəkəld; -ōld|
noun archaic
the husband of an adulteress, often regarded as an object of derision.
verb [ trans. ]
(of a man) make (another man) a cuckold by having a sexual relationship with his wife.
 (of a man's wife) make (her husband) a cuckold.
DERIVATIVES
cuckoldry |-drē| noun
ORIGIN late Old English , from Old French cucuault, from cucu ‘cuckoo’ (from the cuckoo's habit of laying its egg in another bird's nest). The equivalent words in French and other languages applied to both the bird and the adulterer; cuckold has never been applied to the bird in English.


It has on this site as well as many others though consensus been established that a submissive aspect of varying degrease can/is part of cuckolding if you really truly think it cant be you should go back into your egg. let me put it this way If you cant keep your wife happy in bed your self then one of you is either to horny for one man or not enough man for one woman. so either your a slut or a failure.

I will concede that many of my post my have contriduted to oneheart leaving and that is sad as he at one point had thrown
his (?) hat in and created content for every one to enjoy. weather you enjoyed it or not he did put an effort into giving back to this forum more then just divisive words. I have no plans of stopping or changing what I post as the positive feed back and numbers of page views indicate that far more people enjoy my content then don't.

again I don't agrea with oneheart but am sad we are losing some one that offered up something other then an argument.
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In my captions, which have been vilified for extreme content and accused of being off-topic, every single one directly involves cuckolding. There isn't a faithful Wife in any of them, and I bet 95% of them directly state in the text that the Wife is having, or soon intends to have, sex with someone other than Her husband. Yes, the cuck also is missing a penis, is being beaten, is sucking cocks, etc., but it's always in the context of a marriage, and with an *extremely* unfaithful Wife. I even manage to work love in there occasionally. So how are they not on topic?

Perhaps this could be addressed with custom filters? If this site supported those, then users who don't want to see certain groups could add them to their filters and be done with it.

if only our computers had an interface that would let us direct a pointer around are screens that let us pick what pages we opened and did not open... Oh yea. ok really i am done now
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What a load. Take your ball and go.

I have to say I really think this is an interesting topic to discuss, I liked oneheart he even did some caps of my girl for me, but part of me is glad he left so we can have this discussion, lol. but no really I hated to see him go. But as interesting as this is, one thing I always liked about this site is I got along with everyone and had some great email exchanges and conversations, I think we all have one thing in common cuckolding we all see it differently and all like different things, But I hate to see an interesting topic like this turn into a fight you will never convince someone of what you believe to be right because in someones mind if they like something its right end of story, so we have to try and make our point as gentle as possible and be considerate of others feelings, so I hope we can all continue to discuss this topic and not get to upset with each other. happy cuckolding, lol.
NickCuck.

For the record, I had no problem with oneheart and liked his (her?) posts, and am also sorry to see him/her go. The initial post to this thread was a complete surprise to me, and disheartening.

i guess i'll put in my two cents. if there's one thing i've observed on the web, it's the vast amount of diversity in any subject under the sun. i've participated in many groups on the web, mostly having to do with femdom. (MSN, Yahoo, the old Lycos groups) Most start out with one particular theme, but as more and more become members, they all soon degrade into mini groups of everyones particular variation of the main theme. just take a look at how many sub sections are on this site! i, for one, pick and chose that which interests me, but i have no problem with what gets anyone else off. on occasion i might browse a particular topic that doesn't interst me just to see what it's about, perhaps learning something and gaining some insight into that particular fetish. i also didn't have a problem with oneheart. i thought he did some nice caps. considering what turns my wife and i on, i would never criticize anyone else for what rocks their boat, or their interpratation of a certain fetish. to the rest of the world, we're probably all considered freaks, so lets stick together and enjoy our fetish. priss

Nicely put!

It is reamisterable to expect a cuckold site feature cuckold caps. The devil is in the details of keeping it that way. You can not keep it that way by taking your toy soldiers and going home. There is much sickening material that has mostly been brought in in the last year or so, but it might not be sick material to those doing the caps. Lets just agree to only look at the stuff we like and let the other guy look at what he or she likes.The only one with the authority to bump some one of the site is Mr. Big Cuckold himself, it is his site after all. So hopefully we can put this conversation to rest.

cool band in the early days
im not really into captions and am also quite bored with the 'ever lasting what is and what is not debate'.
i just wanted to say that kimlanes' comment is funny and take the opportunity to compliment on her fine body and most certainly her mind.


is it any wonder she is so popular???....congrats

oh.... i stand by the boss's reply.....choice

condolences to the departed oneheart....he just could not bare it no longer..oh well.

Yeah,,,I know, but it's not supposed to be that way,,,next time you go to a titty bar (if you can find one), that mixes male strippers catoring to a gay crowd, with the truckers, construction workers and bikers that came in to see the ladies, ask them how business is, if it's good it's because it's changed into a leather bar. We put labels on food for a reamister, we don't buy our food in a gas station for a reamister, I'm all for freedom, but there has to be a modicum of order, otherwise fuck it,,,there wasn't a sign specifically saying no homicides allowed on this block, so I shot him in the fuckin head,,,what??? Is there something wrong with that? Oh,,,now you want rules?