After marriage, need advice

Hi, my wife and I have been together for 7 1/2 years, we got married a little over a year ago. Before we got married we were into the "sharing" lifestyle and had loads of fun so to speak. Since we've been married, this has not happened yet. She says she will "when she feels ready for it", now I know marriage has it's own mystique to women but have any others had to deal with this? I've always been patient about the who, when and where, so I'm not pushing this very hard. Should I push harder? or let her decide this? I would just like a little input from others who have been in the same boat and the different situations that arose.

I know the feeling! I and my wife have been married for three years, been dating for 2.

While we were dating we discuss all our fantasies, and had a wonderful sex life. We had a pretty open relationship when it came to sex. I don't believe in cheating, especially when you are married; defeats the purpose. You should be able to share all of your fantasies with you partner!

Any way after we got married things changed. Don't get me wrong, I still love my wife, (that why I am still with her and I haven't cheated), but our sex life has went to hell! We are fairly young couple 26/27, but after we got married everything really change.

Every time I try to discuss this with her she gets up set at me, and says that I don't love her. Although after getting her really takes we did have some fun with my best friend (which was hot!!!), but nothing after that.

So I gave up, now I rather jack off then to have the same boring sex over and over again!

Wish I could tell you that it gets better in time but, it hasn't for me.

By the way y wife is Japanese and I am black.

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