Is she joking

Need advice as my wife often jokes about trading me in for a younger model. Not sure if she is joking and don't want to tell her about me wanting to see her getting used by other men as I am not sure how she would take it. Any advice on what to say to find out if she is joking or not. Thanks in advance.

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Perhaps next time she mentions trading you in for a younger model, suggest that she could have both if she wants and see how she reacts. If she shows interest in your idea you can let her know that you'd be happy for her to date younger men if she wants to, as long as she keeps you informed. You might not get to watch her having sex with other men - I never did - but she might be willing to do it and come home afterwards and tell you all about it.

Something that helped me sway my wife towards some extra-marital sex was us using a realistic-looking dildo in the bedroom. I told my wife how good it was watching another cock going in and out of her pussy and how naughty she was doing it right there in front of her husband. She loved that!
Peter C

Thanks Peter C. I will try your suggestions and see what happens. Fingers crossed she shows interest.

If you know of any main stream films that cover the subject of cuckold that I could watch with her I would be greatful.

Thank again for your help.

lea

You're very welcome and let us know how you get on. Perhaps when she mentions going for a younger model, ask if she has anyone in mind. Keep it jokey, perhaps laugh as you call her a "dirty bitch", but let her see you aren't against the idea.

These things can take time though. Don't go on about it all the time or every time you have sex, but bring it up occasionally. Women can be suspicious that you're looking for an excuse to get a younger model yourself and that if you're willing to let them get it elsewhere, then you don't love them anymore. My wife had been a bit of a slag in her younger days, but had been faithful to me for 12 years before she took the plunge. That was after at least 2 years of talking about it, me encouraging it and trying to gently persuade her. It happened eventually. A warning though : we split up and divorced 13 years later, but I don't blame the cuckolding.
Peter C

Yeah the same happened to me with my 2nd wife. Be careful what you wish for and make sure you know everything that is going on

I'd suggest a 3 some as a first step

Bunnyscuck

Yes, communication is all important, as of course is being in an already strong, trusting relationship. Debbie was my 2nd wife too and I thought I did know everything that was going on. It's only since we split up in 2012 and divorced two years later that I've found out more than she told me, partly from a couple of her friends that I get on well with, but more especially by be-friending two guys - ex-work colleagues of mine - on Facebook. One I knew had fucked Debbie a couple of times, but it turned out they'd been at it on and off for 2-3 years, even going away on holiday together once, when I thought she was a totally different guy, whilst the other one I knew she'd been friendly with eventually confessed to having had sex with her just the once at his house one afternoon.

One of her female friends, who I thought she was visiting at weekends occasionally in a nearby town, informed me that Debbie only stayed at hers the first couple of times. After that she was spending the night in the bed of her mate's step-dad at his place. When she said to Debbie, "What about Pete?", my wife replied, "What he don't know won't hurt him." The strange thing is that I'd have had no problem with it had she told me anyway!

Whether she started to have feelings for one or more of these guys or whether she found the sex more enjoyable not having to come home and tell me about it I guess I'll never know. Our last year together we just drifted apart and we never had sex at all - not with each other anyway. I don't regret us doing it though and I'd do it again tomorrow if I could coax my new young lady - a much shyer and inexperienced little thing compared to my ex-wife - down that path and there are one or two encouraging signs there now.

We never went down the threesome road, though Debbie did say when we talked about it once that it would have to be another guy and preferably away from home, perhaps a young waiter or barman whilst we were away on holiday. It never happened though and I never got to watch her with another guy. That wasn't something I ever felt the need to see. Knowing she was getting laid elsewhere was enough of a turn-on for me.
Peter C

I understand Lea's situation. Been on this site for a few years, always hoping I would find a way of getting my wife to enjoy sex with a nice, well endowed male. She is now mid-60's so it is unlikely that it will now ever happen. Such a massive disappointment..

Wife is genuinely still very attractive. Slim, fit, elegant and sexy. Bit of a tummy maybe, but nice boobs with sensitive nipples.

She is very well aware of my urge for her to have sex with another (suitable) male. The fantasy turns her on but she has never agreed to turn fantasy into reality. She would never agree to a pre-arranged meeting via a site like this, or a sex club, etc,. But I am convinced if she met the right guy in the right circumstances things would happen. She would enjoy the experience with a good looking guy who was interested in giving her good sex. She would be responsive and look forward to further sessions with the right guy.

But I can think of no way of making it happen as it would have to be totally by chance. Maybe if someone she is attracted to began talking to her at the gym. Or a chance conversation with someone when having coffee in town. Anything where I wasn't involved. Once the ice was broken with the right guy she would be very responsive, I am sure.
Steve