Peter C
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#3 · Edited by: Peter C
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Welcome Smoke_3!
My best advice is take it slow and don't put any pressure on your wife. I used to enjoy catching men eyeing up my wife when she wore short skirts and low-cut tops and somehow this eventually extended to the fantasy of having her dating and having sex with other guys.
With me working shifts - one week early, one week late - Debbie had a social life of her own and enjoyed male company anyway. I often felt that with a few dr1nks inside her she could be persuaded or tempted by other male attention and decided that it that were to happen, then I'd rather know about it.
You will need to be sure you are in a strong, trusting relationship, but I'd recommend starting by role-playing in the bedroom. I introduced a dildo into our love-making and started to tell Debbie how naughty she was fucking this "new guy" right there in front of me, but how horny it was watching "his" cock going in and out of my wife. Fortunately, she loved all that, but it still took over 2 years of role-play, talking and encouragement before she finally took the plunge and accepted the offer of a date from a young customer at the shop she worked in. She had confessed to fancying younger guys and with this lad being 12 years younger than her (she was 35), it was a case of right place, right time as far as he was concerned.
There were a couple of false starts before him, but he was lucky enough to get Debbie into bed quite easily and I enjoyed her coming home and telling me about her date and how he'd eagerly fucked her married pussy 3 times. Later though, the cuckold angst turned to insecurity and we put a stop to further activities for 9 years, until we both felt older, wiser and more able to cope with those feelings of jealousy and anxiety that come with the arousal and excitement of it all. Debbie then embarked on further extra-marital fun, aided by now by the rise of the internet, social media and dating sites, but eventually we grew apart and divorced in 2012.
I still enjoy visiting this site though to reminise about those heady days. I had never hankered after my first wife cuckolding me and although I fantasise about it now regarding my current girlfriend, the strength of the relationship between me and Debbie just lead itself to cuckolding. But be careful what you wish for. Once your wife has been with another man, the deed is done and can't be reversed. You also have to bear in mind that by bringing in a third party to the relationship you have to consider his feelings and possible intentions, which often have no similarity to what the two of you may already have discussed and planned for. You also may encounter suspicion from your wife, as to why you'd even consider letting another man fuck her. She may think you don't love her anymore or it's a sneaky way of getting away with having an affair yourself. All things you need to discuss and put her mind at rest about.
Good luck though. I wish you well. Keep us all informed yeah?
Peter C
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