weekend away

kennyboy82
We have just been talking for a couple of hours and at the end of it we have decided or shall I say she has admitted how she likes it when she's out meeting other guys and some times she does think I want him but because of me, the house, family etc she doesn't do it.

So I said I'm ok with it if you wanted to so we have agreed to once a month go away for the weekend and explore this further !

It did take a while though I had to tell her about a woman I met through work and how I enjoyed the thrill of it right up to the point where I met her in hotel but couldn't go through with it in the end because of her and the kids....then she opened up and said she feels the same loves the buzz of it but felt guilty coming home...I said what if I knew you were with another guy all weekend then you have no guilt..she said it would no be the same ...I said ok I get that but can we say that you would love to do it ..she said yes once a month..my cock is still hard from 2 hrs ago when she said that!!!

I hope you do finally get to the bottom of this. Now she can see how aroused you are by the prospect of her "pulling" on one of your weekends away, she might feel in a position to be able to confess.

With my wife (now my ex-wife) it took me over 2 years of encouragement, gentle persuasion and bedroom role-play with a dildo as another man before she finally took the plunge. That said, although I know all about her with that young guy and 3 others after, I have since found out there was at least 1 more, the step-fat her of a friend of hers, and possibly another she kept quiet about. I can't quite understand why she didn't tell me about them as she knew I would have been fine with her being fucked by them. Maybe it was just more exciting for her with me not knowing.
Peter C

..She then told me details of the affair she had years ago which was the reason we split up..we have never talked about that ..I said how did you feel having sex with him then coming home and having sex with me and she said it made her feel guilty and question what she was doing...I said but you carried on doing it for 6 months ..she said I know I enjoyed it ..I said you can again but this time I would know you were and you would know how turned on I would be while you were doing it and even watching you do it...she said I couldn't do it if you were in the room ..I said I don't know if I could watch you do it ..she said i suppose if you are doing that you have to do it without the other person knowing that's always been the way and what we are saying is not normal ..I said you just have to change how you view it..it's only ever going to be between us and that makes it speacial and bonds is closer..she agreed and I left it there

Matureblondebmthwife

It's good that she finally told you details about her affair and I'm assuming she was well aware that her talking about it turned you on. My advice is not to keep on about her going with another man again, but just mention it now and again in bed during your love-making. You've well and truly planted the seed, so let her ponder on that now.

It has got you talking about things you've never talked about and it will definitely bring you even closer. I wish you both well.
Peter C