Where is everybody

But isn't that the same for any sexual preference?

Is a man homosexual because he has thoughts of homosexual activity? or is it when he gives a blow job? or is he homosexual when he wears an ear ring in his right ear, or a pink shirt?

Is a wife unfaithful when she has only thoughts of sex outside a marriage?

The problem is that some want to f orce people into a "one box fits all" category, they feel uncomfortable living in the grey, where as in every walk of life I know there are shades of black and white.

Just as one persons marriage is different to another in a million different ways, they are still married. And so it can be with cucks, one is a h umiliation cuck, another is a cross-dresser, while another is a voyeur...and so it goes one. We should not get hung up on having everyone fit into a single box that makes us feel better.

IMHO

pops

stevensmiles
Are you planning a website?
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Nice to see some intelligent discussion on cuckolding.
We qre original members and have been *grand fath ered* in as well as we have free access.

I get so sick and tired of every topic degrading into discussions that focus only on the cuck. Being a sissy or just an outright flaming homosexual. It seems the Wife in so many posts is completely optional. Instead of the primary focus of the relationship.
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Defining a fetish doesn't define the people who enjoy it. Everyone tends to mix and match fetishes. It's just good to recognize each element.

Humil1ation, crossdressing and FemDom are separate fetishes. They have nothing to do with cuck. A married couple can enjoy them and remain monogamous.

However, you CAN combine any of those fetishes with the cuck fetish. When does it become cuck play? When your wife does another guy. Then it becomes cuckolding... and that reflects the traditional definition of "cuckold".

You don't have a "crossdressing cuckold". You won't find a definition for that. You have crossdressing fetish + cuck fetish, combined.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

That's one example of why I've been trying to remind folks of the definition of cuckold. There are posters out there who think cuck is guys blowing guys.

It's become a confusing mish-mash of personal preferences from A to Z, all under the "cuck" umbrella. Many having nothing to do with a wife at all...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

. No my friend. I'm afraid I lead much to busy a life doing pretty much nothing nowadays. I wouldn't be able to find the time to fabricate such a thing as a web-site.
Nice idea though.

Once again I am very much taken with the quality of the posts on this particular thread. There is such a lot of non-discussion that goes on elsewhere on this site. It is so good to see.
stevensmiles

Well I guess we'll just have to disagree on some of these points. I don't, and wont, subscribe to a simple definition of cuckolding, life and the human condition is just not that simple my friend. There can be, and indeed are, cucks that are dominant, and also that are sub or indeed into h umiliation, they see it as an integral part of the cuck fetish. I know because I've met them and had many long discussions with them and their wives.

One cannot simply say the dictionary says that you and your preferences do not exist, or that you are not a cuck because.... They and we are what they perceive themselves to be. Remember, language follows the state of being, not the other way around. The cat existed before the word "cat" became the commonly accepted word for that creature, not the other way around.

I contend that language has not yet caught up with this rapidly developing sexual fetish. As we as a species evolve, so does our sexual development and expansion...the language will follow and will encompass the changes and evolutions. A cuckold in Victorian times was indeed a man who's wife had extramarital relationships, while the husband was oblivious while his friends and colleagues were aware and laughed at him behind his back. I contest that this is not what is widely seen as a cuck today, far from it.

It is mankind that defines the status of man and not language. Language is defined by mankind and it is how mankind expresses itself and documents itself for posterity, it does not define what or who mankind is.

Still I do respect your position, I just don't agree with some of it. You are clearly a cerebral man and you add to the color and discussion of this site, which is highly commendable.

Dr. Pops

popeye1 It's a fun discussion, even if it does end up agreeing to disagree.

Our biggest difference seems to stem from our views of language in general. I feel that words have meaning for a reason, and we should adhere to those definitions. You have a more lenient approach, and believe that the definitions should evolve as society evolves.

My concern is that once definitions become subject to personal interpretation then there is no standard meaning. Dictionaries become useless. If everyone has a different idea of what a 'cat' is, then the word 'cat' becomes meaningless in the dictionary.

To me, if it doesn't involve a wife having sex with another man in SOME variation, then it's just not cuckolding.

If other fetishes are stirred in then it becomes "cuck + another fetish" IMO. I see a "cuck + foot fetish" whereas you see a Foot Cuckold. It's all good!
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

A foot cuckold.
I've never in my life ever heard of that before.

Imagine trying to get that into s CB6000.

Oh........ I see. Now I get it.
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steviebull

I don't visit here nearly as much as I used to although my wife is still cucking me regularly. Most of the headings are now filled with caption-makers using pics of beautiful women unrelated to the lifestyle. This does little for us as we are into sharing real experiences and situations only. Wife now finds this place non-relevant to what we do.

But most of the site is dedicated to fantasy and that's no bad thing. It's simply a matter of fact.
For folk to post that there are no real people on here anymore or that the lifestyle is not represented properly enough is easily rectified. Real people should start posting more, thus ensuring the sites credibility.
The solution is in the hands of those who say they don't come here anymore
stevensmiles

Another problem may be that the content has become too extreme. The majority of real couples in the Hotwife-cuckold lifestyle use it to spice up things in the bedroom. It's something they do occasionally when they can fit it into their daily routine.

But there are very few threads here that actually deal with real-life situations. Horny men tend to fantasize to the extreme. Real couples and wives are going to have little interest in gay sex, men wearing lingerie, interracial pregnancy, pee drin/king, orgasm denial or cuckold castration. My wife is a real Hotwife, and she has no interest in this site.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

We mostly use fetlife now as this site is becoming so frustrating for cuckolding relationships to be shared with people of the same circumstances. We used to read the site together but know just me checking some of the caps that I get some ideas from.
Finding Bulls/lovers is a complete waste of time here!! Just men who want pics!! Im not sure what I can add to this post but I genuinely get sad as this site was a horny little gem
Droopy and Miss

Ah, a man that recognises that 'real' wives etc don't all look like prime porn actresses , some carry a little too much weight, or have wrinkles etc, but then real women are like that. It doesn't make them less attractive, just different, but just as fuckable!

So when do you figure we will all get banned for lamenting the decline of what was once such a great site?
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shankly

We joined Fetlife when it too was in its infancy. It was more Real in the beginning than it is now.
Seems mostly just people liking pics etc.
It too is diluted with wankers, fakes and role players.
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shaved Hopefully that's not the outcome. If anything maybe the powers to be will read the comments and make some constructive changes to restore the site to what it once was...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Best thread on here. Sad to see the demise of the site. But it has little to offer me at the moment..... But I still live in hope and when I get that a new message in my inbox I hope it is a not a fake and someone who realises that there are some genuine folk here. And there is some genuine folk, just check out the contribution to this thread. The fakes and wankers will
Never read this length of thread without a pic in it

**************** agree.
By far the best thread on this forum for a long time and it is what can restore the message board to its once greatness.

Not that I was around when it was great.


Once again the ridiculous censorship of this software defies belief.

I was trying to write. "Abso(bl00dy)utely
stevensmiles

This has been an interesting topic
black bull

It has been interesting. However I doubt it will lead to change. Some have speculated that Mr. BG is a different owner than the site originator. I have no way of knowing, but the current management seems to have a philosophy of letting things sort themselves out without interference. So CP may continue evolving into more of a FemDom site with prevalent Bi/Gay content, and a decline in true cuck content...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

For what it's worth, I have encountered Mr. BG on another image site, where he has a profile devoted to cuckolding and many of my own pics are in his favorites area. He sent me a message asking where I had been on this forum. This occurred two years ago I believe, and right now I have no recollection as to what I told him or even if I responded. I'll have to look into that.

Hosemaven55 Any idea if it's still the "original" Mr. BG (site originator) or if it's under new ownership...?
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

It seemed to be the same individual as he was familiar with my old posts here, but I noted today that he has not signed on to the other site in over seven months now.

Hotwives live the experience. She has a man fulfilling her sexual needs and a husband for her to sh1t all over. She rules the roost.

Cuckolds live the other extreme. Fantasy is the main means for realizing their desires. A cuckold that accepts and settles for his wife's extramarital sex quickly understands that he is effectively emasculated in the eyes of all women who learn of it. Cuckolds fantasize about being castrated. They entertain pleasant thoughts of orgasm denial and even permanent chastity. The CB provides comfortable protection for his inadequate sex abilities. Lingerie enhances their feelings of impotence in very exciting ways. IR pregnancy is another exhilarating potential aspect by outing his lack of masculinity. Cocksucking is a cuckold's joy! Sucking off the wife's lover and eating their creampie tops the list of cuck subm1ssion excitements.

The cuck gets no pussy or any sex from his wife. She reserves her cunt and attentions for other men only. Many cuckolds don't have much else to do sexually but insert toys in his ass and dream of his wife satisfying other men. Some guys really take the dive. Read Ruined Husbands and Sissy and Chastity forums to see how so many cucks deal with being cuckolded. There are many different types of cuckolds but the basic theme is the same: Wife fucks or sucks the cum from another man. Cuckold kisses her cummy lips or eats her cummy cunt. Cuck gets no sex from the wife. There are plenty of outrageous cuckold posts on this site. Then again, any good cuckoldress can totally empty her hubby's scrotum with just one dirty cheat! A cuckold's panties can never be too tight once his wife blows his balls off by unloading her lover's superior cock deep into her cunt! Many posts here reflect this fact.

Cuckolding might be the ultimate masochistic experience that a man can have! That is OK. I'll just gladly fuck another man's woman and send her home with plenty of energy to feed his masochist desires for quite awhile! Everybody gets a piece of the pie!
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Heloo Everyone,

We have had a break for abput 9 yrs and now after ******** lookign for a decent bull and fun, but whats happened to all th decent sites,,, we met our first bulls on cuckolds.co.uk but that now seems full of wasters

Any help woudl eb appreciated

Lisa and jay
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lisajay xxxx

couldn't agree more with the sentiments raised above ... not only has it become a shadow of the fun site that i remember from a few years back but, there is some real poisonous content on here and a lot of people trolling for a certain reaction ... leaving my stuff for the time being but, have already found a "friendlier" better moderated platform to play on ... sad really

pm me with the address please.

scotland

My situation EXACTLY!
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