Genuine Bull seeking long term relationship with a cuckold couple

So, where to start.......

I am a genuine, professional, normal guy in my late forties based centrally. I'm 6ft, broad shouldered and look after myself. That's all well and fine you may say but, I have for a considerable period of time had meetings with cuck couples who've been into the lifestyle in varying degrees, varying from purely voyeuristic to clean up and fluffing, all of which have been great but........

I'd now like to meet a couple with whom I can build an ongoing three way relationship with, within mutually agreeable limits, that really explores the joy that such a trusted relationship can bring.

I am a subscriber to the view that this is so much more than just physical, that it is a lifestyle choice and that ones mind is as much an erogenous zone as ones body and that only when both are addressed can true release be achieved. It is so good to delve into the imagination and emasculation of the sissy cuck, with his wife that he's no longer capable of fulfilling........just providing the elements for her to share pleasure with her new bull who gives her what she needs.

I do also revel in the opportunity to let imagination run amok, obviously within agreed limits, and ensure that Sissy is trained within her new role, that of preparation, service, submissiveness and denial whilst enjoying unadulterated, carnal and hedonistic pleasure with his hot wife that he's no longer capable of satisfying.

I'd be very happy to exchange mail, chat or meet to discuss and would be delighted to hear from you should you be interested in exploring this further

If you are interested do let me know, forwarding contact details and thoughts, and I'll be happy to provide contact details as required by return and we can arrange to discuss.

I look forward to hearing from you

Good luck....from my experience here most cucks are just living in fantasy (which is fine) most others on here are then in relationships. I've kinds lost hope in finding a suitable couple here that fit with me. I agree that there is much more to it than just a simple fuck..... But the majority of posts are captions by cucks for cucks (which is again fine) , but I think there would be huge advantage to this site if there was a little more for bulls. That is down to us to post more though. Kenny is good and a regular poster but for a long term relationship I think you will need to be lucky.... But I do wish you all the best in finding a couple...... Just wish I could find couple too.

britguy, spot-on analysis of the situation. I've been doing this for years (literally) and it takes quite a lot of hard work to get to the point where the cuckold relationship really works, and that's not counting all the many false starts and fucking time wasters that live here!
Once you've found a couple that are really into the life style, as opposed to playing, then you cultivate them carefully and hang on to them. I was lucky, inasmuch as my prime slut was already a friend before we started fucking. It only needed the circumstances to be right and the rest was history, as they say.
You have my very best in your quest for the right couple, they do exist, just need looking for, carefully!
bovril know's all about the perils of looking for the right material too!
Let me know how you get on - a pm if needs be.

I do agree with you both however with the caveat that there are always exceptions that prove the rule.

I've posted in hope of finding that elusive, genuine cuckold couple who both really want to enjoy the immersive complexity that cuckoldry brings.......those bitter sweet moments for the cuckold watch his wife's new lover kiss her for the first time full in the knowledge that it will lead to so much more for all - pleasure for the new lovers and denial, ***********, servitude for the cuckold who, in spite of his position cannot but help his feelings of utter arousal at seeing his wife taken and pleasured by the new and most important man in her life. Who knows that soon his wife will have her debauched desires sated and that the next time he sees her she will be dishevelled, tired, dripping wet and reeking of sex.......yet never more beautiful nor he ever more inclined to be bent to their every whim.

Yes perhaps it's a rare couple I seek but time will tell and I look forward to genuine responses and contact.

where are you based

The most important man in her life should always be the husband not the bull !

Yes Britguy I agree. I really hope you find the couple you seek. Cuckolding and cuckoldry is complex indeed.
For the most part it is done in purely a sexual way. The wife having other lovers where her husband remains passive.

But for the cuckolding to be truly triangular in its relationship. Then all three parties must get something out of the relationship.
The bull ( I hate that fuckin word ) must feel empowered in satisfying the lady. The lady herself must not only get sexual gratification from her lover. But must also get pleasure from denying her husband. The cuck in return loses his masculinity but feels blessed because of it.
That's the Stevensmiles romantic version anyway.

It would certainly be the scenario I would wish to live in. Wether as the lover or the cuck. I feel the emotional bond would be so much more satisfying if this were the case.

So Endeth this first lesson
stevensmiles

Good points raised indeed but I'm inclined to agree with stevensmiles - it is a triangular relationship and each must derive benefit and each is the most important for a specific aspect with the two males revolving around the cuckoldress - physically the alpha male (as opposed to bull) is most important in terms of satisfying those desires which the cuckold cannot sate however, if not for the devotion and willingness to subvert his own desires, this triangular relationship would falter and merely be an affair. And therein lies the rub, it is about a relationship, and a very special one at that hence my desire to find a special couple with whom to enjoy.

I remain hopeful that the special couple I seek will contact me with a view to exploring the cuckold relation, and not just the mere physicality, to its full

After all, if it was just sex would we all be posting on here???

Spot on Britguy.
This sex lark is far too overated.

The cuckold fetish is complex indeed.
I have known a swinging couple who attend parties where the hubby is merely a watcher. They insist is a cuckold relationship and who am I to argue. If it suits them then so be it. But of course this arrangement is surely just a physical one. The lady attaching no bond to any of the men she has sex with and of course....as it is a swingers party. Then probably none of the men know they are participating in her idea of what cuckolding is.

I really hope your search finds a couple worthy of your intentions. But of course that in itself may bring all kinds of problems.
On another forum I frequent. I read the sad tale of the couple who searched for an alpha male to make their cuckold dream come true.
In a year when they posted regularly and kept everyone afloat of their success at finding this man. It ended where a once happy marriage came to a close simply because the wife and her lover did not feel the need to have a cuck/husband anymore.
Sad but true.
Beware what you wish for........is'nt that the saying.
stevensmiles

I tend to believe that those outcomes are the result of an already failing marriage. Many couples with less than solid relationships often try to solve their problems by turning to an alternative lifestyle. However, stirring other people into the mix only exacerbates the underlying problem, and ultimately provides the mechanism for one spouse or the other to escape the situation.

Marriages that are on solid footing, where both spouses see the addition of a 3rd person as an enhancement, can actually become stronger with the right Alpha male(s) in the mix. BTW, we both don't care for the term 'Bull" either. As an Alpha male myself, I would find it insulting if a couple compared me to a farm an1mal...

As far as this site functioning as a matchmaker, it's highly unlikely from what I've seen. Even on those rare occasions when a couple and Alpha male seem compatible, they're seldom living in reasonable proximity to one another. AFF, Alt.com, and such places are probably better choices to locate a good match (even then it's tough!). Perhaps Mr. BC would consider creating and dedication a section toward such ads...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Hi Stevensmiles and SheDatesHeWaits

So true both of you as the replies received vary from dreamer to time waster - indeed I am beginning to despair of finding that cuckold couple who're so much more than just swingers and who wish to enjoy the psychological as well as physical, the anticipation and denial, the jealousy and arousal and so much more that this can bring!

If you do have any suggestions as to where to search I'd be grateful but regardless it has been rewarding to make contact with other devotees of such an erotic and complex relationship

There seems to be an abundance of dating sites. Perhaps we should consider producing one.
stevensmiles

It's like looking for the proverbial needle in the haystack, but they do exist. Often times in the least likely place, persevere, you'll find what you're after, eventually!

I think both our faith in this site may be misplaced!

You would really hope to find a genuine couple on here who are equally into the scene and who'd like to at least discuss what could be on offer and enjoyed, yet struggling for a reply..........

I think you are going to find, the majority of posters on here (in any forum) are men.

I frequent a site called UK-mistresses, yet hardly and mistresses, pro or otherwise, post on it.
It's all men, submissive men. One or two mistresses pop in from time to time but that's about it.

I think as a resource, to find like minded fellow men and women using those site, would be difficult.
I'm not saying impossible, just ****** hard.

As has been said. Persevere and you never know. You might just be shopping in Tescos one day. You see some sad looking bloke pushing a trolley behind a good looking woman and hey presto. You pass some comment to her about the boil in the bag rice she has just thrown into the trolley and she smiles sweetly........so does her husband
stevensmiles

Which reminds me. Bread. I need a tiger loaf.
stevensmiles

I just thought I'd drop in and see whether there is any interest in my post however it seems that Stevensmiles is absolutely correct........unless you can prove him wrong!

Hello

Hi, I would love to see what you have to say. We live in California and we have been talking about her having a boyfriend. She has been to England and wants to go back so if things work out a meeting is always a possibility.

Where are you based as we would like to know more