Places in the UK?

Many thanks for the positive replies, its good to know we are not alone in what, and more importantly how we want things to progress.

Just a little bump if anyone around the UK can suggest nice classy places we might visit in the hope of meeting nice Gentlemen who understand the situation.
SJB

Hi, if you are ever up in the North West, then consider visiting Southport. A nice selection of bars restaurants and hotels in a lovely part of the world. I am sure you and your good lady would have a very pleasant stay.
ste

Many thanks about Southport, will keep that in mind as we do visit Liverpool.
SJB

We are in Cardiff next weekend (6/7th Feb).
At the Rugby on the Friday but free, later in evening or all day Saturday.
Staying in City Centre.
Any suggestions of nice bars we might try?
SJB

Cardiff is a great place at any time. But in the evening, after the rugby..... The bars will be humming.
stevensmiles

Cardiff was fun, especially as we won lol
SJB

We are planning to be in London weekend of 14th, staying in a place near Kew Gardens.

Also got visits to Bristol and Leeds organised.

If anyone has any suggestions of nice places to eat or ***** where she might get in or please let us know.
SJB

Lots of places around the Kew area. Richmond just down the road. Take your pick.

Take a walk along the river from Kew Bridge towards Hammersmith. You might bump into Ant and Dec in one of the pubs there
stevensmiles

Am sure I will be taking that walk on International weekend.

Be back out looking for potential venues again this spring and summer.

Will definitely be around Kew and Richmond next weekend
SJB

Hi All
We are visiting Leeds again in May, got a one off night in Crawley on 2nd then away till June

Keep any ideas on venues coming
SJB

Got anymore little trips planned?

Just organised a long weekend in Torquay.
Any places to try down in the English Riviera?
17th to 21st June
SJB

Torquay was good, she had a little dance and a kiss wit some guy from London, we going back down mid July.
Think its the holiday mode as the place had a good vibe.
SJB

We are in Torquay 16-19th July
SJB

May i suggest swinger clubs , i am sure you can get all you wish for there ......

bikerboi
If you read the whole thread you will see that we are not swingers.
My wife would never dream of going to such a venue.
What we like is the flirting, the casual chance something might happen, she wants to be seduced not just lie back and give it up for England.
A swingers club is just not for us, we expect nothing so if anything does happen, however minor its a bonus.
SJB

That is what makes yours and your wife's lifestyle so lovely.
It's as real as you can get.

I'm hugely jealous man
stevensmiles

Just off for a long weekend in Jersey, CI.
No set expectations but like always we have an open agenda. Be nice to bump into a nice confident guy who knows how to flirt and seduce a lady.
SJB

Manchester, staying at Hilton on Deansgate Friday and Saturday 9th/10th.
SJB

We have not been out recently but got a weekend in Sheffield organised (work and pleasure).
Anyone suggest any places in Sheffield 11th- 13th December.

Staying in City Centre
SJB

We have had a lot of fun on weekend breaks in Brighton in the summer. There are many pubs/clubs near the seafront and the lanes, but our new favourite is the Dirty Blonde. How could we resist that name? Very close to our usual hotel, the Old Ship, too.
There are many stag and hen parties at the weekends, business events during the week, holiday crowds - all providing a target rich environment. Our games have evolved over the years, and in this situation we always pick on a group of men as we find it easier to back out if the vibe is wrong. My wife always gets plenty of attention, while I have learned to feign just the right amount of ********* befuddlement to encourage the flirting, 'accidental' touching, dancing/grinding.
Sometimes that is as far as it goes, which is still great, as we have a fantastic time back in our room, going over the events and all the things I didn't see or hear. Occasionally it can get wild, depending on everybody's mood, the *****, how safe we both feel. We've had a chuckle thinking about the expectations of a group of men wondering if the Dirty Blonde lives up to its name, and leaving Brighton thinking "It does what it says on the tin"...

Dave
Many thanks this is just the sort of information we are looking for and will definitely put that one on our list for when next near Brighton. What you do sounds similar to ourselves and its not all about some random guy offering to "give your wife one".

When we are out we try and get into a conversation with a group and I am lucky as my wife knows more about sport than the average man so can discuss Rugby, Cricket or Football with most.

Do keep us updated on any other venues you might find, especially if you ever travel North for your weekends?

s/m
SJB

Will do, but we don't do this a lot these days. We live in the south midlands, and have a regular family commitment in Brighton, so try to combine it with a fun weekend when we can. Most of our naughty clubbing activities are on holidays abroad, and business trips to European cities, the US and South Africa.
If you do go to Brighton, I would recommend Pride weekend - there is a great atmosphere, people are more accepting of different behaviour/less judgemental. This year I was I was 'adopted' by a hen party who were watching what was going on and wanted to rescue me. I decided to tell them the score, and they thought it was hilarious. A couple of them got it right away, and they started reporting back to me with a running commentary on my wife's progress, and when it was safe for me to look.
I can see sport knowledge would be useful, ha ha, but unfortunately neither of us are interested enough. She can hold a conversation on cars though, so that appeals to the average group. We also steer clear if there is a female with them already, that usually prevents any flirting to start with.
We're in our fifties now, and have learned what works for us from many mistakes, nothing too major though. The first hints of our lifestyle came from a confusing incident on her sixteenth birthday, and in May we will have been together forty years. Rambling off topic now, which is why I don't post much.

Dave
I have sent you a PM.
SJB

We are going to be in Brighton over weekend, short notice visit but doing some Christmas shopping.
SJB

Sheffield this weekend (11th-113th) any suggestions of places to try in City Centre.
Have A Christmas event on the Friday, shopping at Meadowhall on the Saturday and hopefully some flirting in the Evening lol
SJB

We are in Leeds 30th Feb for weekend which we have found very good.

Anyone got any suggestions on Blackpool. Booked the Hilton as know decent hotels are difficult to find in area.
Looking for some decent bars for a few days away in March.
SJB

Short notice.
Any ideas what Southend is like?

We have just booked the Park Inn for two nights.
SJB

Will cross Southend off our list, it was just not for us.

Looking at Leeds 30th Feb weekend and then Blackpool 11th till 13th March

Looking at nice places to go where she might get chatted to by men who understand the situation but know the score.
SJB