i lost my wife to her dating site sex buddy

story found in the sun news paper 3/9/12


I WANTED my wife to relax with a stranger, then I changed my mind –



I have lost my wife to her dating site sex buddy

I WANTED my wife to relax with a stranger, then I changed my mind – but she went through with it anyway and it’s all gone horribly wrong.
Things had got a bit dull in the bedroom department. A friend at football said that if things were getting a bit stale, I should suggest my wife try it with another guy and then tell me all about it. He said it worked wonders for him and his girlfriend.

My wife asked me about spicing things up a bit and I asked if she’d ever consider relaxing with somebody else. She seemed up for it so I put an ad on a dating site the next day.

We got lots of responses but that’s where I got cold feet. I didn’t want her to do it but she seemed so excited. She chose a guy of 35 who was similar looking to me.

She bought new lingerie. She scrubs up well and I felt so jealous that she was getting dressed up for him and not for me. She went out to meet him and I spent the evening pacing the floor.

She came home and gave me chapter and verse about having a take with him and then going back to his place where they had done the deed. She described everything while peeling off my clothes and we had the best sex ever.

I thought it would be a one-off but she said he was so good, she didn’t want to stop. The trouble was while she went out more and more, our sex life got less and less. She said he was her sex buddy.

I’ve packed a bag and left her. I can’t take it any more. I just want my wife back.
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I guess it's time like these when you realise the fantasy is best kept just that....... A fantasy.

I know a couple who had what seemed to be the perfect set up. Happily married and they were into the swinging scene. Sex was just a nice thing to do with other people. Until of course she met a guy at a swingers party and they fell for each other. My pal begged his wife to stay with him and said she could see her lover whenever she liked. But it was not to be.

The same can be said about this poor chap. The thought he had about his wife having sex with someone else was very erotic. When it came to the actual event he could not handle it. I wonder how many wannabe cucks would feel the same. Reality is a different game to any virtual world I know of
stevensmiles

I think most wanna be cucks are shooting for the brass ring, that is a wife who fucks around but understands the inportance of keeping her marriage intact. I think before you go down the road, you should have already been contemplating the realities of what could possibly happen in the REAL world for some time and feel comfortable with all possible outcomes. The guy who wrote the letter sounds like he did this on a whim somewhat and hadn't really confronted his feelings ahead of time. This lifestyle is playing with fire no doubt but that is a huge part of what makes it exciting for many I believe.

Well put my friend. I agree completely with what you say. Turning fantasy into reality completely changes the prospective.
The story certainly opens the door for debate.
Did this guys wife leave him because she may have been thinking to herself,
"oh we'll, he can't think much of our marriage anyway if he wants me to fuck someone else"

Or was it just a complete fluke. She liked thd idea of having sex outside of her marriage and just by chance happened to fall for the guy she met. In that case thd probabilities of her leaving her husband were greater anyway.

I feel for the hubby though as he seems to be genuinely hurting by what's happened.
stevensmiles

I'm a genuine cuckold and that is why the fantasy and the reality is so different. Many wannabes will talk of getting a regular guy weekly etc when in truth all that happens is your wife/gf falls emotionally for the bull. We have had a number of meets but not weekly, more bi monthly and sometimes monthly and not ever with the same guy. It works well for us but we would never up it too weekly or never push to see the same guy over and over. The realisty is guys men like the sex aspect, most women ( and girls Im talking only from my experience with the women ive known) want something more than just sex.
happily married couple...lucy has a boyfriend called leon...it works well

I agree totally with steve, we were meeting a black guy for the fouth time, the first at our home as all the rest had been hotel meets. It was a very hot meet as he stayed over and slept downstairs on the sofa.
They started fucking at around 9pm until 1pm when we stopped, she seemed to be cumming every half hour and he must have cum about 3 times, the sex was really erotic and dirty, more so than ever before.

In the morning she got me some coffee then went to take him some as well as we heard him wake up. I laid in bed while I heard them fucking downstairs, that was the first time she had fucked without me being there. I am not sure if it was the fact that we had become familiar with the guy (who we both liked permisterally) but something changed with this meet. I could tell she was having feelings for him when we dropped him off at the station.
We talked about it and we both realised that it was the case, she said she didn't want anything to change with us so we laid off the secret life for a while. We hooked up with him again about 3 months later for a hotel meet but he put his foot in it and he got her back up which kinda sorted things out. It taught me a lesmister that even if you think your a strong couple, the unexpected can happen.
fred

You should have let him spend the night with her in your bed. You should have been on the sofa...