Peter C
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#3 · Edited by: Peter C
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Hi. Everyone here will have had a different approach to becoming a cuckold. You need to know how receptive your wife would be to the idea. This can be difficult as often the wife will think two things. One, doesn't he love me anymore if he's prepared to let other men fuck me? And two, is he just looking for an excuse to be allowed to fuck other women? Your wife may need a lot of reassuring that neither is the case before you can even start to persuade her to go elsewhere for some new cock. Also, bear in mind that if and when she does end up in another man's bed, there's no changing that. She can't be "unfucked".
I never had any cuckold tendencies with my first wife or the woman I lived with after that, but with my second wife Debbie, things were different. I worked shifts, one week early, one week late, and Debbie gradually developed a social life of her own around my shift work. This might have been going to play bingo, play darts around local pubs and club for a ladies team or out dr1nking either out with the girls or at my works' social club. She was quite popular and enjoyed male company as much as female and slowly I started to realise that there was a good chance my wife would be getting chatted up by other men whilst she was out. I also realised that that prospect turned me, a feeling that was enhanced by her coming home sometimes and confessing in bed that some guy had bought her a dr1nk and tried it on, had a hand on her leg or ass or copped a feel of her tits.
Seeing that I was aroused by the idea of my wife being chatted up Debbie did nothing to rein in her activities and one night came home from bingo enthusing about the lead singer of a band that had been on there at the interval. On the phone in front of me she told her mate how young and sexy he was and that chatting to him at the bar her pussy had got wet and tingly. Despite his girlfriend being there, he had clearly realised the effect he was having on this older, married woman and suggested she go clubbing with the band after the show, no doubt hoping to help her out with that twitching pussy of hers.
Awhile later I told Debbie that next time that band were in town she should go and see them again, but this time go clubbing like the guy had suggested. She was pleased to hear my idea, but when I put it to her that she could take things further, even have sex with him, she laughed, saying, "Yeah right!" I insisted to her that I wouldn't mind if she did, adding that I'd love it if she came home told me she'd got laid.
I never really pushed her to do anything, just occasionally mentioning her being "naughty" when she was out, but the introduction of a realistic-looking dildo in the bedroom was a game-changer. I'd tell her how good it was watching another cock going in and out of her pussy and how naughty she was doing it with "him" right there in front of her husband. "Do I know him?" or "Is he really young?" I would whisper in her ear and she'd climax noisily. Once she remarked, "If you were to walk in and catch me having sex, you wouldn't try and stop me would you?" "No, of course not. I'd let you carry on."
That said it was still about 2 years before anything happened - or least that's what I thought at the time. Debbie was working at a 24 hour convenience store by now and had risen to assistant manageress. She told me how a young customer (he was 23, she was nearly 35) has been chatting her up and had asked her out for a dr1nk after work one evening. She already confessed to me that she had a thing about much younger guys, early-mid 20s, so this was lad was perfect. Right place, right time too and having checked with me that I was okay about her going out on a date with him, she agreed to see him after work the day after her birthday. He wasn't bothered that she was 35, nor that she was married with 4 kids and was amused when she told him she'd tell her husband that she'd be late home due to "stock-taking".
She did a 12 hour shift that day, 7am till 7pm, but with a packet of condoms that I'd bought for her in her bag, this eager young lad met her from work and took her to the nearby pub. After a few dr1nks he suggested they go back to his place. He shared a house with his sister but she was out, so my wife happily accepted his offer of "coffee" before she went home. As soon as they were through his front door they were kissing passionately and Debbie's uniform dark green polo shirt was soon on the floor, followed by her white bra. He wasted no time nuzzling her neck and fondling and sucking on my wife's tits, two of her favourite things, so she was now putty in his hands. Her black work trousers and panties were swiftly removed too and Debbie was soon in his bed being vigorously fucked.
Whilst he made her that coffee he'd promised, Debbie quickly rang me to say she'd "been busy", code for "we've had sex already". I was in the supermarket with all the kids at the time and it was very hard to concentrate on my shopping list knowing my wife was in bed with a young lover. They fucked again twice before he let her go home, then we made love as she told me all about her evening.
Other people's experiences will be different, but my best advice to you is to make sure you are in a really strong, trusting relationship before you even consider embarking on cuckolding. You need complete honesty and communication is key. Talk and talk and talk about what you both want out of it, but also bear in mind that whatever the two of you think might happen, there will be another guy - your wife's lover - who will probably be thinking an entirely different way which can muddy the waters and catch you out when you think you've covered every possible scenario. He might fuck off once he's got what he wanted, leaving your wife feeling used when she was hoping for a regular "bit on the side" or he may want more when she doesn't. There can be many pitfalls, but I don't regret us doing it. I'd do it all again.
Peter C
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