GB with some restrictions

First of all this is a wonderful and very informative forum. Me and my girlfriend have been lurking around for a while and now we are ready for the first move.

My girlfriend's fantasy is to have a GB but with a few restrictions. We don't want any kissing and my girfriend would not engage with oral sex. She would like to be blindfolded (a must), lie down on a table, and be fucked by 4-5 men. All with condoms. Them pleasing her orally is fine. I would be by her side all the time, kissing and touching her, and when ready asking the next man to enter her. She also would like to make sure that she can stop the action at any time (and for any reason).

We thought about a swinger club, preferably a cuckold night. Is this all realistic ? Are our restrictions reasonable ? The last thing we want is for man to start ***** kissing her or even worse ******* a blowjob. Will they stop if I say so ? How should we go around it ? We obviously want to state our conditions up front.

Any suggestions or comments are appreciated

regards,
Mike and Bea

Hi Bea and Mike
To answer you i wish to know where are you living?
Regards

We are from Canada. We consider Toronto or Montreal clubs.

No one ?
It is hard to believe that all women go all the way in.

The only person I deny oral sex to is my cuckold. All my lovers get their cocks sucked and I have swallowed them all. In might be in stages but once a woman shares herself with another man emotionally, she will go all in physically sooner or later. When she does it is most fascinating to watch.

Linda

It all depends on the group of men who get to fuck her. You should also be aware that the genre of cuckolding is all about the cuckold man giving up his control. Having 4 or 5 men fucking your wife and hoping to control all of them on what they can and not do is a bit of a tall order.

Cuckolds get their kicks from other men having control over their woman, and generally even the bulls telling the cuckold what HE can and cannot do. Which is kind of the reverse of what you are seeking.

Why is it she does not want to suck the men? or is it you that does not want her to suck the men?
In my experience you can probably get them to wear condoms while fucking her pussy, but they will probably want to come in her mouth, face or over her pussy.

Have you had any other cuckold experiences, such as sharing her with other man/men/woman?

Let me know your thoughts on this so that I can further advise you.

Good luck

Pops

Mike and Bea,
What you are describing is very reasonable. My wife also has a strict no kissing rule. Place an ad on your adult site of choice and simply state what you're looking for and you will have it. The other men will help police if anyone gets out of line because they don't want some dumb ass messing up their turn. My wife and I have done the very same thing blind folded and tied to a bed several times and each was better than the last. Take some pictures and keep us posted. GOOD LUCK

linda40
You are absolutely right, it might be another stage. At this point she doesn't want to engage emotionally. Hence the blindfold.

popeye1
Very good points. That's exactly why I'm a bit concerned that it can easily get out of hands.

No, we don't have any prior cuckold experience. And I do realize that even this is not strictly cuckold, given the control we would like to keep.

Just thinking that loosening some of the restrictions may be a safer way to proceed.

janitorbox
Thank you. I guess it is possible. However my understanding is that you hand pick participants, rather than meet them in a club. On a flip side a club seems like a safer environment vs a hotel room with 5 horny guys.

@mikeloredo
Can it be that you both wish to get it out of hands but don't dare to communicate that upfront?
it might be painful

mikeloredo

I would suggest that you try this first with just one new guy to see how it goes, and see if you both like the experience, before diving into a full on gangbang with 4/5 guys. If that goes well then perhaps the new guy has a buddy he can bring with him next time, and so it goes until maybe you have your gangbang. Its rare for a couple to go from a vanilla sex life to a 5 man gang bang and for it all to go well

Who is the driving ***** to go down this path, her or you? Depending on who it is changes the dynamics considerably.

I hope you have both talked this out very well before heading down this path. You both have to know what you want out of this and what you do not. Then find out if this lifestyle is for you both, its not for everyone.

Perhaps you should try posting some pics of her detailing what you both want and see what response you get from the bulls on this site. However, I would warn you that 99.9% of people on here are lurkers and wannabes and you will be lucky to find someone who is genuine, There are one or two still on this site who can guide you and share their own experiences, which may or may not help.

good luck

Pops

GeorgeV
Great comment. There is definitely part of me thinking this way. As for Bea, I wouldn't be surprised if she feels the same.

popeye1
I must say it is primarily Bea's fantasy. But I would be lying to say that it doesn't turn me on big time. The restrictions are also her idea, and I would like to respect them. Starting with a single man may be a wise move but the whole fantasy is about multiple strangers having their way with her. We will certainly consider your thoughts, it will be Bea's choice.
As for posting Bea's picture and stating our rules on the forum here, we may do it in Canadian section.

Gangbang cuckolding without kissing is a non-starter. Passionate without kissing is not passion. Cuckold without passion is sharing