My GF is going on her first date today!

Well, she only has to tell him that she's with someone, but you're away a lot, but not the part about you encouraging her to do this. I doubt he'll mind that she already has a steady boyfriend anyway if he thinks he's going to get his leg over - guys never minded my wife having a wedding ring on her finger and 4 kids! They just wanted an easy shag.


Thanks Smooch. I have my doubts that she'd ever do anything, but if she does I can see it being him. It was a surprise to find out she's happily exchanging messages with other men and I've done my best to make her comfortable with this by not being jealous or anything, to the verge of encouraging her in fact. Anything more than what's going on now will be a bonus, maybe just them meeting up and having a snog will be her limit. He would want more of course and be determined to get some fresh white pussy. We'll have to see. He only lives 50 miles away...
Peter C

Her boyfriend lives about 15 miles up the road so they don't have to travel far to see each other.

Because they're so close to each other it makes it more interesting and likely she'll end up riding him at some point.

Smooch
MWPs BBC All Natural

What's an MWP? I don't think it's anything to do with being a member of the Welsh parliament or anything like that.

Smooch
Married White Pussy, and it doesn't make any difference what they are a member of,including their husbands.

I hope she does confess to him that she already has a steady boyfriend, in case he's getting ideas about her being exclusively his. He doesn't need to know about you being happy for her to have a bit on the side, but her having her own flat and you working away a lot will please him, knowing that that increases the likelihood of getting her into bed sooner rather than later.

Personally I always preferred it when my now ex-wife didn't tell the guy she was seeing about "our arrangement". I got quite disappointed if she told them I let her date other men. It turned me on more if they didn't care that she was married and thought she had a "poor unsuspecting husband" sitting at home with the kids whilst they were getting their leg over.

I'm assuming he's not married or something. I just thought it odd that he met her at a garden centre for coffee miles from anywhere and wondered if that was so as not to be seen by people who knew him or his wife. If he's with someone too that of course adds a whole new dynamic to the situation, but might actually be beneficial to your own relationship as it should mean he's not looking for anything serious with your girlfriend, just a shag.
Peter C

Hi Smooch, Tell us what happens next...

I'm sure he will, though we may all have to wait to hear what happens - if anything! - until he gets back from his week away. Good that she has a second date with this new guy whilst Smooch is away. This is my favourite thread on here at the moment!
Peter C

He's recently separated and has just moved into his own place. I think the reason she hasn't told him is because she thinks he'll be offended if he knows about me and might break contact, I've told her that it's probably not the case and he might even find it a turn on.

I'm looking forward to getting away from my break at the naturist place next week and I'm sure she'll have lots to tell me when I get back. At the moment the texts are very flirty but I don't know if she's spoken on the phone to him lately and as far as I know they haven't made plans to meet next week yet.

She doesn't have to mention having your approval to play away, but if she's up-front about having a boyfriend already, he might see it as nice and casual, but still be very interested in seeing her more often. He might even be pleased she's with someone so she won't be expecting too much what with him being recently separated. He won't be ready for anything serious, so could be quite relieved that she won't expect a ring and babies haha!


Not a bad thing. Don't put any pressure on her and just let things take their course. If it going to happen, it will when they are both ready. Enjoy your week away. I think your girlfriend's going to!
Peter C

Love following your journey Smooch

Love following your journey Smooch

Oh God, does your GF clearly realize that you're serious about this, that you actually WANT this to happen ?
Fanatique de l'infidelite feminine

Yes she does. We've talked about it for a long time and I've told her she can do whatever she wants.

Once you do this, you will never be the same...its an amazing experience!

Show your girlfriend these before you go away for the week. Might help her realise that a lot of couples do this.
Peter C

I'm a cuckold/hotwife veteran. I was involved in it for many years so I know the score and how it all works. Very exciting.

She's getting used to being comfortable with talking and flirting with other men.

She out again with him. I'd only been gone a few hours and she's already heading over to near where he lives. I'm hoping he invites her back and gives her a creampie. I'm probably hoping for too much but you never know.

Blimey! She's not hanging about is she? You know the old saying, "Whilst the cat's away, the mice will play" and she's got all week to play.

I take it you're like me, not bothered about watching just happy to get a blow-by-blow account after the event. My now ex-wife only ever played away, never did anything in our bed and never with me present. Didn't bother me, plus she didn't think I'd be able to handle watching being fucked by another man. She did say once though, "If you caught me in bed with someone, you wouldn't even try and stop us would you?" "No", I replied. "I'd leave the pair of you to it." She just smiled.
Peter C

I don't mind either way really. I like threesomes but I'm also happy to hear the account after the event. I hope one day she brings me a fresh creampie to clean up like my ex wife used to.

She's definitely getting in deeper. She's been kissing him again and they've been shopping holding hands and all that. He told her he wanted her in bed and she didn't say no but they didn't get chance this time.

More updates. She's seeing him again on Thursday to talk about stuff and explain the situation to him to see if he still wants to go there once he knows I exist. She's really into him and said to me that she'd like some intimacy with him as soon as possible as he turns her on.

She's also testing the waters to gauge your reaction to things she's telling you. When you say "explain the situation", how much does she intend telling him? That she already has a boyfriend, but he's away a lot so she'd like a bit on the side? If it were me I'd prefer her not to say that I know all about what's going on and am actively encouraging her to take things further, but that's just me. My wife and I never really had the stag and vixen thing going on and I was turned on by guys knowing full well that she was married, but not being put off by that one little bit if there was a chance of some easy pussy.

Of course the unknown quantity in all this is this new guy's feelings about her and how he's planning to play this, especially once he knows she is with someone already. It may cool his ardour or spur him on even more. We found that however much we talked about various scenarios or role-played different situations, my wife and I were often caught out by what the other guy had in mind for her.
Peter C

She's sort of hinted that she's got someone but not said directly. She wants to sit him down and explain properly but not about me being away, she's going to tell him about me and about the fact I'm okay with her seeing someone. She's nervous about telling him in case he thinks it's weird but I get the feeling he's not had a sheltered life and he's heard it before.

Apparently they were having a laiugh and a joke yesterday and it came out that he's 7 inches and quite thick which interested her quite a bit being as I'm just under 6.

As he's recently separated, he might be relieved that she's already with someone as this will let him know she's not going to come on to him too heavy (hopefully). Indeed, he may well be only too happy to help you both out.

He's the same as me then, 7 inches and quite thick. The internet seems to imply that this is "above average", but I've been pleasantly surprised over the years at the number of women - experienced women at that - who have consider mine "big" without any prompting from me fishing for compliments. Sounds like it's really going to happen if she's interested in the size of his cock. You don't mind that he's bigger than you I take it?
Peter C

I don't mind at all. Like they say size isn't everything. I had a friend that I used to play with a few years ago that was 10 inches but he could never last long. My ex wife used to have him too and she used to complain that he only lasted a few minutes before he came inside her.

At this point I suspect he's looking for a friend with benefits to help him get over his ex wife.Thats what I did when I split from my wife, in fact I had four friends with benefits and it helped me a lot.

I think it's about 95% certain they're going to end up having sex sometime in the next two or three weeks.

This is true. I had a work colleague who went after my wife as soon as he clapped on her with me in our works' social club. At the first opportunity of catching her alone he asked her out, but she was a good girl then and said no. Long story short, it took him 20 years to finally get her into bed, but she was disappointed to find out that he was half my size, less than 4 inches. However he was much more f0rceful in bed than me, stocky with lots of tattoos and he undeniably fucked her hard and fucked her well. My wife and him ended up fucking one another on and off for 2-3 years, usually at her instigation, even going away on holiday together whilst i stayed at home with our kids.

I too had a couple of friends with benefits after my split from my wife. It does help I must admit.

Two or three weeks sounds increasingly unlikely. I can see them fucking this week whilst you're still away. Sounds like she's gagging for it!
Peter C

You might be right. I've purposely not given her any in the last three weeks and she is a very horny woman. She probably really is gagging for it at the moment.

You bad man! I think this new guy may provide her with something she needs right now!

How is Lincolnshire anyway? It must be hard being away whilst all this is going on - literally! I've been on Brighton's nudist beach a couple of times and enjoyed the freedom of not having to wear any clothes or trunks. Having women there looking at my penis and comparing it to that of their husband or boyfriend laying next to them was enjoyable too.
Peter C

The weather is all over the place. Everything from torrential rain to blazing hot sun within minutes of each other.

I can't wait to hear what she's been up to next.

I have noticed that all the RAF eurofighter pilots fly very low over here and I think they try to have a look at the naturists on there way back to conningsby lol.