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DarsLangly

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Pornography and erotica related to cuckold and hotwife themes often involves, or is even centered on, highly racialized depictions of the people presented. The most common version of this is the hypermasculine black man, but one can spot other versions of the same dynamic. These depictions vary enormously in tone and apparent intent, and I imagine some portion of the performers and consumers are ethnic minorities who are willing, even enthusiastic to fetishize their own racial identity. But clearly a large part of it is simply racist, presenting the character of the ethnic minority as an 'other', in a way that is degrading, stereotyping and objectifying. Much of this seems very intentional in its racism. We are all on our own recognizance to figure out where we sit on this spectrum between possibly healthy depiction or fetishization of racial identity and rank racism. Personally, I see very little of this that doesn't come across as the latter, and so I pretty much steer away from images, videos, stories or discussions that focus on race in a way I think is unethical. I encourage you to ask yourself these questions. Below is a link to a story about race and porn industry workers; I encourage you read it as a way of developing some understanding and empathy about the issue.

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I agree. I've been stuck in a maze for a very long time now: I acknowledge this is racist*. I have, over the last couple and a half decades, tried to stop finding it erotic. I have failed, repeatedly. I find, like most people, i cannot exist without a sexuality. And my sexuality pulls me back again and again to a fascination with something I know to be a manifestation of one of mankind's darkest tendencies. I know that it prevents personal growth I would otherwise be capable of. I know that - to take one example - many of the people posting or enjoying images around absurd concepts like 'white genocide' are not, as i once thought, merely taking a silly idea to psychedelic extremes. They're proper serious. To them it's not porn, it's propaganda.

I want to lead a healthier, happier, less racist sex life. But I don't know if I can.













*not 'systemic poverty' or 'police *********' racist, but it contributes to the sum of world evil
Sweman

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I totally agree and i find the racial issues disturbing. And on i dont understand why the view that the bull always is a black man can be So wide spread. Maby its because im not from america. I neither share that fantasy or the racial values that it represents and that has come to light under Trumps presidency.

Thank you for bringing up the issue.
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Sweman:
i dont understand why the view that the bull always is a black man can be So wide spread. Maby its because im not from america. I neither share that fantasy or the racial values that it represents and that has come to light under Trumps presidency.

I think there are *very* few couples where the bull is always black - and i mean of the already very few couples practicing cuckoldry, a tiny proportion of those are actually doing the sorts of things white guys (like me) fantasise about. Where does it come from? A lot of places:

Thing 1: society presents black masculinity as threatening to you, your property and your girl (patriarchy loves to blue the distinction between those two). This has been going on since at least the release of the technically innovative/socially regressive epic 'Birth Of A Nation', which is sometimes credited as a leading cause of the K KK revival in the 20th century. To be clear, this trope of the aggressive, hypermasculine, oversexed black male is promoted by racists and fetishists (not that there isn't a crossover) regardless of whether its true in order to justify thier own behaviour - killing people and jerking off, respectively. That is to say: true aspects are exaggerated, new aspects fictionalised and aspects 'unhelpful' to the demi-myth are ignored. For example...

Thing 2: Some parts of the myth are a bit true. Black people generally have higher testosterone levels (10-15% higher, according to some studies) - though the classic view that T = boys and E = girls is, in endocrinological terms, fucking bullshit. Black men The hyperlink is visible to registered members only! (e.g. they tend to win them). Black men have (according to some studies) slightly bigger dicks - the mean difference being about half an inch, which is actually pretty significant when you remember the average dick is only about 5", but hardly indicative of the wild size differences fetishised within the cuckold community (by, to cite one example, me). One interesting phenomena is that this size difference is repeatedly scientifically established and then debunked, due to various competing agendas. For example, a scientist called Richard Lynn is perpetually trying to prove various negative stereotypes about black people (like black men making bad dads) and uses penis size as a proxy for this (The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!

This is really where the trickiness comes from: racial differences exist, but a small, determined group of white supremacists consistently uses them to produce junk science, meaning they tend to get ignored by the wider scientific community. This results in worse outcomes for minority ethnic groups. For example, raised testosterone levels amongst black men likely contributes to the increased incidence of hypertension and heart disease, but comparatively little research gets done because nobody wants to do a study on racial difference, lest it later get cited by a racist trying to prove some bullshit.

Thing 3: We live in a racist society, which makes it easier to 'other' people of non-white backgrounds. When we self-insert within porn, for example, we are much less likely to do so with the protagonist if the protagonist doesn't share our race. When i say 'our' im talking about the hegemonic racial group; black and minority ethnic people have less trouble empathisisng outside of their racial context because they meet a lot more people outside their racial context. It is a way of very simply and visually labelling a character within a text as 'other'.

Final little anecdotal titbit: as I was developing my fetish, i went through a period of fantasising that American men (regardless of race) had bigger dicks. As nobody shared this silly fantasy with me, i ended up being exposed to and eventually adopting the racialised version i have now. But i think it goes to show: if the myth of racial sexual supremacy didn't exist, cucks would invent it (as i tried to!).


Final, final couple of findings members of this community will find interesting: Women do prefer big dicks! they like them to be about 6.3" - a whole INCH above average. Also, there are about 1.6m caucasian/african-american 'multi racial' people in America who, upon completing the Census, ticked both 'black' and 'white'. I knew the evidence for 'white extinction' was weak but this is about 0.5% of the population - and some of those will be individuls with black moms/white dads (an equally prevalent phenomena which, as fetishists, we ignore)
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