Question for the Bulls, wives or girlfriends

No offense to the cuckolds, real or wannabes, but these questions need answered by, and I want a Bull or some of the wives and or girlfriends Thoughts, opinions, and advice. As for the wives and girlfriends, if the cuckold is not present when you are having sex with a lover, then it would be hard for you to answer, sorry!

I am 59 years old and a cuckold, I have done my best to accept my role in life, I have learned to embrace my status as a cuckold, and to the best of my ability I have tried to enhance my cuckolding. I however have some questions that I have longed for to be answered. I have communicated with several of the cuckolds on this site, in fact I have met some in public, yet I have had very little correspondence with the Bulls. At age 59 I have never cum in a woman's mouth. I have never had the pleasure of ass fucking a woman. I have never made a woman cum by penetrative vaginal sex. I am not complaining about not experiencing these acts, as I have accepted my life as a cuckold, and as a true cuckold I know somethings are just not allowed for a small peepee cuckold. As for me I have always been in a loving cuckold relationship not a domineering one.
I have though often thought and carefully considered the follow questions.

When a Bull is with the wife/girlfriend and he knows he is about to experience something with his new lover that the cuckold has never experienced and most likely never will, what are your thoughts at the moment? W/G what are your thoughts knowing your cuckold is sitting a few feet away watching you freely give something to your new lover, the cuckold has always dreamed about with you but never getting to actually do it? Is there an arrogant attitude towards the cuckold? is there a sense of conquering a prized possession? Do you concentrate on the act itself or do you show pride, concern, contempt, or sympathy looking/staring at the cuckold?

While performing the act, do you communicate with the cuckold or do you focus your full attention to your lover and the act you're performing? If you do communicate with the cuckold is it in a loving manner or do you belittle him, by ***********, sarcastic remarks?

As a Bull, are you a complete Dominate? taking control of both the sex life and the personal lives of the cuckold couple? or do you/can you separate the two?

As the Bull or wife/girlfriend do you try to involve the cuckold or is he just a necessary evil in the relationship?

What are your thoughts on taking away the sexual rights of the cuckold? Do you let him know that although he was once the rightful owner of the mouth, pussy, and ass your are now fucking, those rights now belong to you? Again, to you do this in a loving type manner or are you blunt and to the point? (FYI I never considered my wife's nor girlfriend's mouth, pussy, or ass as mine. Those were theirs to use or be used by whomever they chose.)

Do you make it a point to out the cuckold to your friends?

Finally what are some of the requirements/demands you make of a cuckold?

A. Be dressed in slutty feminine attire when in my presence, no body hair whatsoever, other than head. Wear a feminine wig, perfume, and make up, use his mouth as instructed. Wear a chastity device. Wear high heel shoes with a minimum heel of 5". Keep the house clean, and pay for whatever our needs are.

Just to start with....

Pops

As it is your right to demand. May I ask what the efficacy of this approach is (for you personally)? I have heard a no. of explanations: the *********************** of the cuckold increases obedience, for example, along with submissiveness. or is it just because a pretty cuckold = two more pretty holes to fuck?