Do you enjoy people knowing your a cuck

What do y'all do to "send" the message that you are a cuckold?
I kind of enjoy the looks or people wondering. I make sure when were shopping that we stroll thru the lingerie section and I check things in the panty section. I'll pick me out something in large/xlarge and put in buggy. I always make sure I am at the cashier when she rings them up. My wife wears small/medium. I told her that I want to start wearing pink shirts when we are together. Just something to let others know that I'm "whipped".
How about y'all?

Very nice question, Quiet sure some cucks love to be cuckolded in the open, would liketo hear about them!

My wife was previously married but he was too much a ladies man with a very large d*ck. Her ex-husband is currently her lover and he continues to f*ck other women as well as my wife. My Wife can't get enough of his d*ck
and see's him every weekend. Our mailbox labels read her name and her ex husband last name first then ours.

So every time our neighbors check their mail they see the 1st label then the second one, mine being my last name. They really know especially when he picks her up every Sat. morning and my wife comes home Sun. morning.

We have had a steady BBC Bull for a little over five years now. When they want to be alone, the two of them go to his place. I drive my wife there and pick her up. When they want me to serve them, they come here. The Bull parks in our driveway. If they want to go out, they occupy the back seat and I drive. They hold hands or act even more affectionate going to and from the car.

All of this is clearly viable to our neighbors. My wife also wears the cuckold anklet with a black spade charm.

When the three of us are together in public, I am obviously the beta-male and do everything I can to show I am in there service.

My Wife says the next step for me is the Jack of Spades tattoo. I am all for it.
bd-owned

I wish my wife had a lover that we could go out as a group. I think it would be really nice to walk with them while they are holding hands and kissing in public. She is out of town now and has my encouragement to take on a lover. I actually told her to find someone and be his date for the week. I bought her some revealing tops for her trip and packed condoms in her purse for her. She deserves a real cock and is long overdue.

No one knows.

tightslider "No one knows."
What a pity!

I was a "cuck" during university (except for the fact of course we were not married) but I was fairly openly cucked at that time, long before I had ever heard the word cuckold. My gf of two years was quite sexually open/liberal and was upfront about her desire to try multiple partners during her university days. I did stay faithful to her however. While she was in no way trying to deliberately humiliate me, the fact that many other students were well aware that she was available for sex with other guys (and some, including one friend of mine did take advantage of this) was nevertheless often a source of great embarrassment to me at the time.

That being said, looking back on it every since it has always been a great turn on.
~sissy~

Let me just add to my above story though...keep in mind for anyone who may be considering "outing" themselves...YOU would like to think that people finding out will be the biggest humiliati0n in the world; that everyone will laugh at you when they find out. The reality is, some people might be a little amused by it, but mostly they are wrapped up enough in their own lives that they don't really care.

In my case, however, just because they didn't care - nobody particularly singled me out or got in my face to humiliate me about it - doesn't mean it won't change their opinion of you. I certainly did lose a lot of people's respect for living in this arrangement as an obviously un willing (at the time) but accepting cuck. Even a couple of my friends didn't really want much to do with me the more this all became known (and one in particular who actually slept with her himself).

So you probably won't get the public humiliati0n that you may want, but there is a good chance you will lose status in other people's eyes. If you genuinely don't care about that, then by all means roll the dice. Because even though I say mostly people don't care, you will get the odd comment made to you, the odd wink and knowing glance...and if you'd get off on that, go for it. Just understand that there may very well be a significant price to pay for it.
~sissy~

A nice wrap up, but I don't think cucks lose status, it's just made visible. They know, they're not alphas.
it might be painful

When I was in college I dated a smoking hot girl. Before i ever heard the world cuckold - she told me she was going on a cruise for spring break with a doctor. She kept guaranteeing it was just as "friends". I remember the looks my friends gave me after she got back and we kept dating. Some asked me how stupid I was for believing that she went on a cruise with a doctor 10 years older than her, shared a room and didn't have sex with him. B I was so embarrassed but didn't want to/couldn't dump her

GeorgeV - that is a very interesting thought. I was the same person all along, the experience just revealed who I really was. I did NOT like being a cuck at first. The first night I realized she was cheating was seven months into our relationship; I later learned she had in fact been cheating the whole time. I did not find out until one night at the pub when, being absolutely loaded, she flat out told me she was going home with another man. She stood there for a split second, which upon reflection I honestly believe was her waiting to see if I would "lay down the law" and tell her no way was she going to leave with him.

You are right - I am definitely not an alpha and that was made clear in this situation. The man who took her home most definitely was. He sized me up in the bar that night, correctly assumed that I would pose no threat, and then proceeded to take my girlfriend from me.

And I did nothing. I was literally left speechless. Again, I did NOT like this when it happened. But in the weeks that followed she simply told me that she was not going to "waste" her university years being faithful to one man, that this was the time in your life for sexual experimentation and variety. She said I should ***** with other women too but I think we both knew I wouldn't. She said she valued our relationship, as did I very much, but she wasn't going to be faithful to me so if I wanted the relationship to continue I would just have to learn to live with her *****ing with other guys.

That's exactly what I did. Took months for me to start enjoying it, but eventually I did.

Honestly, I would have probably broken up with her except for the fact that, while I did not yet like being a cuckold, I did like crossdressing and had begged her to let me wear her thongs. She happily did and I knew I wasn't likely to get another really hot girlfriend who would let me wear her panties.

In the almost year and a half that followed that first night in the pub, I spent many evenings home or at the student pub, wearing my girlfriend's panties, knowing she was out getting nailed by another guy. That's about the time I started to enjoy the humiliati0n of being a cuck.
~sissy~

No offence dinky but you would have to have been unbelievably gullible to have bought that. I wonder if perhaps, on a subconscious level, you knew what would happen and simply accepted her explanation to have "plausible deniability" - i.e. so you wouldn't have to openly accept being a cuck. Did you enjoy knowing she had taken the trip? Did it make things better in your sex life when she got back knowing she had probably been with the Dr.?
~sissy~

As a final postscript to my story - (if anyone cares) when that first girlfriend moved away (transferred to another university) two years later, and I was back "on the market" - I started dating another girl who had been a friend to both of us. About three weeks into that relationship she told me quite matter of factly "I have a date on Wednesday night." and that she "assumed I would be OK with that." While we never discussed my former relationship, she knew very well that my ex openly cheated on me and just assumed I would be ok with it too, which I was. As a matter of fact, since she had a roommate who always seemed to be home, she even occasionally used my apartment for dates with other men.

She wasn't anywhere near as much fun though, in any such way. She was actually more of the angry feminist type who thought that "returning sexual agency to womyn" was a form of reparations for centuries of oppression, etc. While the first gf took a sort of pride in being a hot slut, the second one felt she was on some sort of mission to avenge past wrongs...it was a little bit off putting to be completely honest.

But it did mean I continued to be cuckolded by woman #2 for another six months.
~sissy~

I didn't say I believed he, more like refused to accept the truth. When she was back - we never talked about it. It used to break my heart and I was extremely jealous thinking that wealthier, older man had been using that perfect pussy

Well dinky it still sounds overall like a happy story...in the end, that girl set you on the path that made you the cuck you are today. You should be glad!

I'm certainly happy that it happened to me; and I did tell that girl so years later too.
~sissy~

No one knows about us. Unfortunately, my wife has taken a long hiatus from the cuck lifestyle, so there's really nothing to reveal to people right now. If my wife decides to get back into the cuck/hotwife lifestyle again like she said she might, she will spread her legs to other men again. GOD I miss those days!! I really, REALLY want that back again! But I will wait patiently until that day- IF she decides to. SHE is the boss of me and I don't have anything between my legs that she wants. I have no leverage.
Faggot Pussy

My wife and I split up for a week and I went to a hotel. When we got back together, I had asked her if she slept with other men. My Wife said YES and our bed while the K*ds were in their bedroom... As she rode me, she started to slap my face for not taking care of the house. All the neighbors saw her in heels and with different men in our house.

When I came back home all my friends/neighbors just smiled.

Hope you now take care of the house c_2. You don't want your neighbours to talk about how run-down your house looks, do you?

To all c's, pick up the houshold chores and establish an easy life for your hotwifes. That will give her time to take care of herself.

Things are simple. Just do it.
it might be painful

Oh, I already happily do most of the housework. I actually enjoy it, believe it or not.

xoxoxo

Christine (a sissy cuckold)

Ah yes. In my earlier posts I mentioned how nobody particularly singled me out to humiliate me to my face over my gf's constant and open infidelity (though I may have enjoyed it) but I certainly did get to know those knowing smiles and exchanged glances. The closest anyone came to bringing it up was one night at a party I attended myself where someone asked "where is Jasmine tonight?" in fact she was at work and I replied that, which was the truth. But immediately following that question I did catch two other friends exchange a "knowing glance" with a very slight smile that I'm fairly certain belied a shared amusement at my cuckolding.

On the other hand, being 23 and not particularly confident that very well may have been entirely in my own head.

However, as has been written about for centuries, people do seem to take some pleasure in the horns that a cuckold wears, whether or not he is even aware of them himself.

While I did feel very embarrassed by all of this at the time, it was a genuine sense of humiliati0n without any personal enjoyment. If I could have re-lived these events a second time, I think now I would have enjoyed my humiliati0n and the notoriety amongst my peers as a cuckold.

Now I actually quite like the idea of being a cuckolded laughingstock, I just wasn't ready for it at the time. But these events are what made me who I am today. And having lived through it to some degree even if it wasn't in my face, I know now that I would be prepared for it. I guess like so many other things, just as the song says, you just don't know what you've got until it's gone.
~sissy~

I can relate! I know all about missed opportunities.

I had a very brief affair with a married black woman. She was rather pro-miscuou-s and spread her legs to many men. She confessed to me that she had been fucked by AT LEAST 100 men. The real number was likely much higher. This excited me, of course. We had a conversation and I had the stupid audacity to call her "my" girlfriend. My true cuck nature had not yet bloomed fully. She answered by fucking her husband who has, she told me, an 11inch cock! Having already had my below average cocklett, she quickly claimed that she didn't care about cock size. Still, she ALSO told me she "needed" what he had the night before.

Her girlfriends all knew she was cuckolding me. I would have liked for more people to know.
Faggot Pussy

Tell us about your experimentation

My wife told her syster about the first guy she went with (Mike), she had too as I am very close to my syster-in-law and she'd seen the two of them together the first time my wife met him on her own at a bar and later confronted her about it, threatening to tell me

My wife of course was able to tell her that I knew, and that the three of us were playing together, which was true half-the-time I suppose. I later had a very brief conversation with her sis, she was very concerned and worried about me and wanted to corroborate my wife's account.

I don't really know why I didn't just do that, but actually played the victim a little, saying it was just something my wife was working through and it was nothing serious. I guess I liked her feeling sorry for me, she held my hand for ages afterwards and has exchange long knowing looks with me since. Our hugs and kisses of greeting/goodbye have also been a little bit longer and harder too

I think next time her sis brings the subject up, you'll have to tell her the truth, oldrope
it might be painful

i can't think of a time that many of my "friends", work mates and even my ******, didn't know i was a cuckold. The neighbors saw her lovers arrive and use the garage, while i parked on the street. She had her black lover over for dinner, and more, while my ****** was visiting for a week. My ****** asked if he was having sex with her, and i answered honestly. She recalled that the best lover she ever had, was black.

The open *********** fueled my masochistic need.

Omg yes. I love the reactions we get from other people when they find out. Nobody knows about us where we live, but we are very open when we go out of town. Like, if we go out to eat, she will ask our waitress
"hey, I'm not from here, where is a good place to hook up with hot guys ? "
It always gets a laugh. Then they tell her she is lucky to have guy like me. Last time she did that, our waitress left with a big smile. Two minutes later, a guy from the kitchen came out to our table and gave his number to my wife right in front of me. She openly flirted with him while our waitress and her friends watched.
Other times i have been the one who approached guys, and told them that my wife wants to meet them for sex later. Either way, its always a huge rush for me.

My wife wears the key to my cage around her neck. Some people will ask and she will tell them. Surprising how many people don't know what a cock age is when she tells them.

Couple20.
You are right about that. I love it when my wife is telling someone about cuckolding, chastity, or being a sissy. The best part is when they look at me in disbelief, and I have to tell them it's all true. I still blush every time.

Alisha Hill.
We go to swingers parties as well and she will have the key on, and the swingers act like it's a big surprise when they ask about the key. They get the "oh really!!" look. You would think being they are swingers they would be a little more "open minded"