Need some advice

After 12 years of being out of the lifestyle, my wife and I have decided to start doing it again. However this time, in addition to times together, she has also asked if she can do things on her own without me present, unlike before. She wants to keep the spontaneity of everything intact. I have suggested that she could take some video or pictures to which she seemed like she wouldn't wsnt to feel under some obligation of some production or something with. She really doesn't want to have to do that. Also there are times where she says she might not want to tell the man that she's married just to have a fling with. She feels like some men can't take the cuckold lifestyle and some are down for it. If she's really into the guy she wants him regardless. She did concede with saying she would take a few photos and offer me a very detailed story. I'm just wondering, is this a bad path to go down? I would appreciate any advice from anyone who does this frequently and still has a long-term successful marriage doing it. I would rather be involved but I want her to be free to act on her impulses.

Her playing solo can be very exciting for both of you. It takes trust on your part, so don't be insecure if you really want to get back into cuck play.

It would be great if she comes home with a cum filled pussy to plant on your face as she tells you about her adventure! One more thought...... it sounds like you'll never know what to expect when you come home from work. She may be laying there waiting to feed you a nice cuckold dinner of creampie.

Keep us posted of how this develops.
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I think cuckold4one summed it up pretty well, you need lots of trust, between both of you. Without trust it all falls apart, but with it your life can be so fucking good! I agree also with you getting to enjoy her big, wet, well used pussy when it just gets planted down right on your face. Eat and enjoy, as she tells you all.

Each relationship is unique. With one exception what works for you two works for you two. The exception IMHO is keeping secrets from each other as to when she is out on a date.

Good Luck and enjoy.

Thanks for your advice guys. I almost messed it all up today and called everything off. But we are back on track now. I have come to understand and make peace in myself and fully trust. She is planning on bringing someone home for me to watch Saturday night. It's been so long since I have watched the love of my life with another man. Not to mention, ate and fucked her cummy pussy after. I am super excited to say the least. And some lucky stranger is sure going to hit the bareback jackpot Saturday.

My wife and I tried the cuckold lifestyle once, but we stopped due to my insecurity. Gradually the idea appealed to me again, though my wife was less sure. However, her "never again!", later became a "maybe", then a "do you think you'll handle it better this time?"

The advent of the internet and social media, coupled to us both being older and wiser, led to her starting to see other men again after a break of over 9 years. This time was much better, but you do definitely need to be in a strong, trusting marriage. Such was my security now that I even agreed to my wife seeing a guy I knew and used to work with, which I wouldn't have been able to handle before.
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Looking forward to your update on last night.
Cuck who loves a creampie.

Unfortunately it didn't happen Saturday after all. We went to the local bars and for the life of us couldn't find anyone that really got the libido going. However, we resorted to looking online and I found a guy in great shape who is extremely well endowed. She seems very interested to get busy with him. We'll see. The good news is that it's going to happen regardless of when. And it won't be just once either. We're are committed to lots of very good times to come.

Rome wasn't built in a day so go slow and wait for that special someone who the both of you are comfortable with. I agree with your wife that it may be easier for her to go out on her own to find a fuck and then after they hook up a couple times bring him home for your viewing pleasure.

loving_cuckold77

i122 is right, go nice and slow. Let things play out and unfold at it's own time. The playing w/out you. I used to send my wife to go fuck other guys and then come back home to me. But we have a trust and understanding. Really dependant on your personal relationship with her. What's your gut telling you?

We are meeting a man tomorrow night to see if there is chemistry. I am starting to have second thoughts to be honest.

loving_cuckold77
Trust is the most important part IMHO.

My wife and I have played in lots of roles for over 10yrs. In conversation she says she'll never leave because with me, she gets to have her cake (hubby, fami1y, k1ds, home, security etc) and eat it too (2x bf, dirty nights in hotel rooms, going out clubbing to score, cougaring and so on).

We don't have secrets from eachother about the sex and we dont argue about it. I love knowing she's out getting laid and slutting it up being allowed to be whoever she wants. She shows me the marks and doesnt wash because she knows I love to smell and taste the guy on her.

Thats just something she does for me.

loving_cuckold77, go through with it. You'll never forgive yourself if you don't. Let her know though how horny you'll be when she gets home and tell her in advance you want to hear every detail, taste him if she goes bareback and pics/ vid would be even better (if thats your thing)

Good luck. Be cool. Deal with it the morning after.

I agree, if you decide not to go with it, you'll always have that "what if.....?" question hanging over your head forever more. This whole thing works on trust, it's important for both sides to agree to limits, etc, beforehand.

Well it happened. We met a guy she found online and took him home. He was very nice. He worked out and was very muscular. Much to our delight he had a very big penis. She was really suprised she vould take it all so well as she has always had apprehension about big ones in the past. Also she has never really liked giving or receiving head really but she asked him to go down on her. She came twice hard. Then he fucked my wife as I watched. She moaned so beautifully and made some very primal sounds I have never heard. She came so much her cream was covering him as he he stroked. When he finally emptied inside her, i got to immediately eat his cum out of her. She actually told me to in front of him to "clesn it up." Her pussy was all gaped open big and wide, a truly beautiful sight to behold. Then I got fuck her. She was so stretched and loose I could no longer feel the walls of her vagina. I could only feel his cum that I couldn't eat all out before. I stroked to push it further and further in her fertile pussy. It didn't take long or me to cum. When I pulled out though, cum poured out of her like a running faucet. It was a wonderful experience for both of us. She absolutely loved it. She woke up actually saying she wanted more. So she has been busy since and made another appt for tonight with a different guy and even another different guy for this Saturday. Since she is all of a sudden completely different after so many years of detesting my remaining interest in this lifestyle and she is so into it, I still struggle thinking if it is right to continue on or if I should be worried. Yet she has vowed to never leave me but to engage in this lifestyle from now as much as possible. I just don't ever want to lose her ir our beautiful family. Will stay positive though and say good times ahead. I have a big cock hungry hotwife. I am the richest man in the world.

That is a great follow up, very sexual and exciting with a lot of insight. I would just keep communication a top priority and always keep an open channel of dialogue and you both with grow closer together and enjoy. 😘

That is a great follow up, very sexual and exciting with a lot of insight. I would just keep communication a top priority and always keep an open channel of dialogue and you both with grow closer together and enjoy. 😘

Well, the box has been opened. Enjoy, you won't be able to stop her. But why would you want her to stop.
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Congratulation Congratulations Congratulations your hard work finally paid off. Enjoy your new road to kinky happiness and keep us informed of your future adventures...oh and please post pic's too

This forum is far more supportive and respectful than I remember it being years ago. Thanks for all the encouragement everyone. I really do appreciate it.

The best result you could ever wish for. It's a whole new chapter opening for you to enjoy, and you will enjoy it. See what you trusting her and giving her her head has done for you? Winner all round! Keep us in the picture with her development as a Hotwife.

On our way to meet another guy tonight. Big athletic dude with a massive dick. Creampie time again!

This should be good! Make sure you report back!

Love the way she has opened up to being a slutty little wife. I bet you just loved it when she told you to clean up as her lover was standing there!
Cuck who loves a creampie.

The bottom line is this; if she loves you as a person and your relationship is strong, it is very unlikely she'll ever leave you. If she DOES leave you it won't be because some guys fucked her blind. It will be because there is a fundamental problem with your marriage.

In the meantime, she is TRUSTING you not to freak out while she enjoys all this strange cock. Let her get her fill and get it out of her system. After all, these men don't want your wife. They want her warm, wet holes: mouth, pussy, maybe ass. She is little more than a CUNT to them; a fuck puppet, a cum dumpster. This is just about sex for her and for them. RELAX, dude!

I gave my wife into the hands of many men, FREELY and most willingly. They used her, satisfied their manly needs on top or her, inside her, and all over her. Every guy to a man was BIGGER, THICKER, LONGER, YOUNGER, and had much more STAMINA than I ever had. Bottom line? My wife never left me. Why? (No, I'm not rich.) It's because she LOVES who I am as a human being. She didn't marry me because of my cock (obviously!)

Relax and have faith in your relationship is my humble advice to you, sir.
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