Cuckolding/cheating just as a fantasy?

Hello all,

Is anybody here like me and just into cuckolding and cheating as a fantasy and wouldn't want it for real?

I'm currently single (last relationship ended about a year or so ago) and have only shared my fantasies about this kind of thing with two past girlfriends. I didn't share it with my last couple as I didn't feel like they would take kindly to it.

One ex really got it, as a fantasy, and regularly tease and play about it. I loved that and would definitely love that in a future relationship.

But I wouldn't want it for real. I think if I love someone, sharing the fantasy with someone that gets it would be hot but the stuff that would come with doing it for real would not be.

I've no idea how many women out there would enjoy fantasies like mine - maybe my ex is the only one (I hope not). No idea how many women like this kind of thing full stop, really.

For the time being, I've taken to making some of my warped cuckold themed fantasies into stories that I've posted on here and I've recently created a blog where I'm adding more.

Am I unique? Is wanting to make the fantasy a reality most people's ultimate desire? Do any women read these cuckold stories and think that it's a hot fantasy?

I suspect most people interested in this lifestyle are like you; only wanting the fantasy rather than the reality

I've been actively involved in the cuckold scene for over 25 years now, and I've found that the vast majority of mainly husbands are fantasists, when it comes down to it they don't have the nerve to either put the idea to their wives or even go through with it if they know she's happy to fuck around. They're time wasters by and large. Now and then a diamond escapes, the real deal, and the rewards are fantastic. I'm still fucking one of the first wives I got together with, and her husband's been in chastity for coming up to four years now. We're all more than happy with the arrangement and have no plans to stop it. The success rate for us Bulls is fairly low, too much hard work with little return. That's life I guess, but I have no plans to stop.

Most are fantasists. That is fine though. All I would say is to be open with real bulls at the start... exactly as you have done. What pisses me off is when a fantasist wastes my time kidding on they are real, having said that they are easy to spot. Good on you for being open.

Gordicron
It IS a hot fantasy. My wife and I took the next step and made fantasy real. There were ups and downs. Neither of us regretted finding out what it was like.
Faggot Pussy

Absolutely spot-on and succinctly put. My wife and I discussed and roleplayed with the fantasy for over 2 years and eventually felt comfortable enough to make it a reality. It wasn't without its difficulties, mainly down to my own insecurity, but I have never regretted encouraging my wife to go out and get some extra cock elsewhere.

It did her good too. Our sex-life improved (hers more so obviously!) and she became more self-confident and contented. There was clearly nothing better for my wife's ego than finding out she was still attractive to men and able to pull young guys easily even though she was in her 30s and 40s and married with kids.
Peter C

I'm the same Gordicron. You describe my situation exactly too.

Peter C
I totally agree. My wife was so much more fun when she had another man on the side to fuck. The first time you discover she is fucking someone else can be difficult but if you can work out the jealousy and insecurities life sharing your wife can be fun and rewarding. So yes it can be a fun fantasy or a really fun reality if both handle the situation properly.

True.

One thing is absolutely certain: When the wife is getting her sex elsewhere; hubby can easily tell! The more good she's being taken care of by her lover, the more bitchiness she will bring home for her husband. Many a cuckold finds "bitch" to quickly become the normal side of his wife's behavior once she establishes herself.
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