Our journey to cuckolding

It has been 18 months since my wife suggested we purchase a CB6000. She was traveling for business and I was missing her and we thought it might be a turn on.

Well it was. I wore it on and off for months. I dealt with discomfort and had to take it off for periods to recover but eventually worked up to a week or ten days at a time

During this time I was reading the forum here and I started wishing that I could convince K to cuckold me. I read other folks tales about the road to achieve this and I decided to try

The first task to do was to drop the bomb.... to tell K I'd like to see her with another man. This first step is necessary but also the riskiest. I had to man up and do it so I did, during pillow talk. K listened and asked a few questions and then we didn't discuss it for a while.

This is similar to what I had read here in other posts so I got excited. However she went quiet and said little about it for a long time. Recently we touched on the subject in a few conversations that were NOT pillow talk; discussions over a glass of wine or while we were driving in the car.

These discussions seemed to center on my motivations. Did I want to be with other women? Why would a loving husband want this for his wife.

I explained my bedroom anxiety over performance issues. See K is ten years younger than I and in recent years I've been less than a stallion in the bedroom. During times where we do make love I am slow to get hard and too quick to finish. I was devasted about not satisfying her and so our sex occurred less and less often.
I explained the CB6000 releases me from performance anxiety because with it I cannot perform. Freedom in a cage. Lol


Then last weekend I was out of town and she told me she had logged on to AM and was chatting up some guys. I was amazed that she took that giant step and I have encouraged her in every way I can think of to pursue this completely

So here I sit today, she has a date tonight and I'll be home cleaning. I'll write more and let you all know how it turns out. We don't expect tonight to be THE night, but you never know.

I just need to find a way to convince K that I am for real, that I love her and this is a positive thing for both of us, no ulterior motives, no hidden agenda, just a horny desire to see her satisfied as a women with me sharing in the experience both before and after the fun .

Truer words for sure! Please keep us updated.

Good luck!

Enjoy the Angst!
Droopy and Miss

I just wanted to check in. K's date started at 5 pm and now it is 10 and she's not home. We discussed this evenings plan by phone while she was on her way there and we revisited our plan. She wasn't sure she wanted to go through with it but as we discussed it we agreed that she should meet him and if she wanted to come home to just end the date early.

I'm going to head to bed now in the hope that there might be a cream pie in my future later this evening. As shankly put it, Angst is probably the right word. I'll post more tomorrow!

Chestercuck
When she comes home be happy to see her and show ZERO jealousy. Embrace her and tell her you hope she had an awesome time on her date! Tell her her being out with another man kept you horny all night and that it gave you as much pleasure as having sex with her yourself. Ask for the juicy details and then THANK HER when she tells you. Finally tell her you are proud of her and that you think this will be good for your marriage. It worked for me dude!
Faggot Pussy

Chestercuck:

I know the feeling of the anticipation we feel when the wife is out and might be coming home with a creampie to wake you with. I look forward to hearing how her first date went.

Thanks for sharing your story.....
Cuck who loves a creampie.

I wanted to update you all on last night. K came home a little before 11. I had gone to bed but didn't actually fall asleep. I had convinced myself that she must have given it up in her nearly six hour date. I came downstairs to meet her when she got home fully expecting to find her smiling with a cream pie! But it didn't happen last night. We talked about her date which makes my cage very tight. She told me she spent an hour or so in the car with him, kissing and talking. She did tell me she had her hand on his cock (through his pants) and her eyes lit up when she told me how big she thought it felt. As a reward for supporting her on this date she took my cage off and allowed me to wank on her boobs. This has been one of my favorite ways to cum for the last couple of years and last night was wild. While I was doing this I asked her to make me eat my cum because I want to but always lose interest as soon as I cum... I want to train myself to do this in anticipation of a cream pie. She did encourage a little but let me off after only eating a small amount. I need her help on this because I am caged and can't cum without her

Anyway my orgasm occurred just as she mentioned how she longed for his big cock. When we were cuddling afterwards I asked if she had another date planned and she said yes, next Friday night. (One week from today).

K asked me if I wanted her to end this now before it goes all the way. She said she doesn't want to but could at this point in the new relationship. I thought about it for a second but said please don't. I am way too stimulated by all of this to shut it down now. I explained that at a munimum we should stay on course for this guy and make an assessment about whether to continue IF this new relationship ends.

So in conclusion last night was overly exciting for me. I cleaned a lot of the house. I watched some TV but I felt emotions and urges that I didn't know existed. I love my wife more now than ever and will do anything for her I get off on her pleasure and really enjoy seeing just how happy she is! She's smiling all the time now. I had to lock up this morning right away to keep from winking just thinking about her. I am loving nh this lifestyle so far. We'll see where next Friday takes us.

It's a pity things didn't work out so you were cleaning when she eventually came home also! The cuckold angst you're feeling is a normal reaction, that strange mixture of insane jealousy and so turned on it's hard to describe.
You're already hooked on this life style, the fact that even after a little taste of what it has to offer you, you can't get enough of it tells me that. Encourage her, enjoy her fucking other men, clean her, and reassure her this is what you want, then sit back and enjoy the ride of your life! Keep us posted with developments.

Yep! Been there, done that. Anxiousness, jealousy, insecurity, but overwhelming arousal.



Wise words.
Peter C

I am hooked. For a second I imagined what it would be like if we called it off and I felt empty inside. I want it to happen for both of us.

I have concluded that this is a win win win scenario. I am now getting the type of sex I crave (J/O, butt play etc) plus a constant stream of the stirred emotions that come with cuckoldry. K will have a steady stream of pampering from me along with the sex from her boyfriend. And her boyfriend will get all the sex she can give him once they start.

They have a date next Friday and K tells me that night is not planned to be THE night, but who knows? In an effort to facilitate their coupling, I am planning to go away the weekend after next and leave them the house. I think that should help break the ice.

I recall my angst from the first date. I can't imagine what a whole weekend might feel like. I am very excited !

If you're not already, you really, really need to be in chastity. Only then will you truly experience what genuine cuckold angst feels like, being locked and knowing she's getting fucked half blind and you're unable to do a thing about it.

I am caged and she has the key. I would have to break it to get out. But I won't.

I'm pleased to hear she controls you in that way, plus you display a good and meek attitude for a cuck.

Thank you. I try very hard but the harder I try the more empowered she becomes. This Is certainly an
amazing journey!

I'm loving how this is unfolding. I remember taking my wife out for a meal for her 35th birthday and us spending most of the evening discussing the implications of her planned date the following evening with a 23 year-old guy, a regular customer at the shop she worked in. Our only ground rules were that she wouldn't s1eep with anyone I knew (that went by the board eventually!), she'd always use condoms (that went too!) and that if either of us were ever unhappy with the arrangement, then it stopped there and then.

A couple of days after that young guy succeeded in getting my wife into bed, insecurity kicked in and I rashly asked her to end it, which she did. We had a few difficult days, made worse by him not contacting her, which made her feel dirty and used and annoyed with herself for having been such an easy lay. He did get in touch eventually, hoping for another fuck, but she turned him down flat. I later regretted being so rash and gradually hinted that I'd be happy for her to try it again sometime. It took time - over 9 years, but she did finally take the plunge again and being older and wiser, I handled it all much better next time. And the time after that and the time after that...

We're divorced now (not because of her antics I hasten to add) and I do miss having an unfaithful wife coming home with tales of being chatted up by a new, young lad eager for some mature, married pussy. So enjoy your amazing journey!
Peter C

You can be sure I'll be checking back for updates...thanks for sharing!

K is meeting her BF for coffee later this afternoon. They have a date next Friday but that is s work week away. It's nice they found a little time today. It is strange because we have to make up stories for the rest of the family so that K can meet with her man. K has been smiling all day. She gave me a nice long kiss this morning right after she made her plans. It was the kind of kiss that tests the tube strength of the CB 6000 👍 I'm loving this and I'm loving her more than ever .

Hang on to that thought because it will get hard (no pun intended!) the further this progresses. The true test will be when K actually fucks this guy, quite openly and with your blessing and encouragement, and then comes home to you looking very much like the cat that got the cream!

Time to hone your pie eating skills I think.

Very much so. If my own wife is anything to go by, K will soon be walking around with a spring in her step and a contented smile on her face and only you two will know why!



That's good that they have arranged to meet for coffee. People who see them will assume they're a couple. Well done for giving K an alibi so she can meet her new boyfriend. You're being the perfect husband!
Peter C

K returned from coffee in a great mood. She was smiling and confident and told me that they formulated a plan. Seems they agreed that Next Friday might now be THE night. Their plan includes a little dinner out and a hotel room at a local suite hotel. K was emailng back and forth with him most of this evening and came to bed smiling. She then informed me of their plan. She also has decided that my cage will not come off until after she gets off. I'll provide more details as things develop. I think we're almost there. Five short days to go.

So has K told this guy that you know she's seeing him or are you going to be the poor, unsuspecting husband?

The latter scenario was always my preference, but on at least 2 occasions my wife told the guy that we had "an arrangement" and that I was fine with her seeing other men. She also let two or three of her female friends in on the secret. I spoke to a couple of them about it too and they were quite jealous that Debbie had such a considerate, understanding husband. One admitted to having affairs, but said her husband would k1ll her if he found out so Debbie was a lucky girl having me give her permission to enjoy a bit of extra cock from time to time.
Peter C

K has told this gentleman that she has permission and encouragement from me. This makes it easier to make arrangements because of the flexibility it provides her. I do not believe she has told any of her friends yet. I think I am fine with that as long as it doesn't become public knowledge. Of course once the secret is out it gets repeated and repeated again so it is probably best to keep this all under wraps for now. Of course I blog here but there is safety in anonymity. I enjoy blogging because it encourages me to focus my thoughts and feelings and I get to read the feedback which provides support and encouragement. One final note on this blog, I ask K to read it so she can have more onsite on what is going on inside of me.

That's cool. It may even help K appreciate that this lifestyle may be unconventional, but by no means unusual. I read somewhere once that the most common male fantasy was your wife having sex with another man, though I doubt many would actually admit that. Some of us are just in such strong, trusting relationships that we are happy for our wives to enjoy that bit of freedom.

I thoroughly enjoy your blog. Always well written and similar to my own experiences, though I was never caged. Happy to assist with support and encouragement.
Peter C

I second that.

Last night was incredible. K decided I needed relief but the plan was that the cage stays on and the big toy could be used. We started with me putting in a butt plug and giving her oral. She really got going on this and so did I. The whole time I was down there she talked about her expectations for Friday night. She is really hoping he has a huge cock! I've never pleasured a woman before that was openly thinking about / moaning about / discussing ~ another man. It was hot as could be and she really was aroused. I asked / suggested several times if I could take off the cage and penetrate her but each time I was denied. At one point she mentioned that she was saving it for Friday night, and it was not for me tonight. We kept it up for a while, then, before she got off she stopped me and told me it was time for the big toy. I removed the plug and used the toy. I wanted to cum so bad but the cage did its job. After about 15 minutes I was ready to give up but K had mercy. She unlocked me and removed the cage and let me wank to completion. She positioned herself so that I came on her pussy but for this privilege, she insisted that I clean her. She said this would be good practice for me for her upcoming date next Friday. Of course I agreed before I came and wow did I unload, I made a big mess. I did as I was told and licked a little then tried to be done. K told me to get all of it and wouldn't relent. I did as I was told and enjoyed it. I pretended it wasn't mine and finished it all. When I was done we both noticed my breath was very cummy.

I slept like a baby last night. This morning K told me her new friend is available to stay out all night Friday night. So now she is deciding if her date will be an evening or an overnight. I would prefer the evening date and suggested that, however she wants to make it good for her friend. I'll let you know what she decides but I think I know the answer already. Thanks for listening (reading)

Wow! K is really into this now. I love the way she is teasing you and denying you, and then only allowing you to jerk off over her pussy before you licking it all up. She really has you by the balls, and she know's how compliant you already are. She's moving into her position as a domme so easily, love it! Keep us posted.

Great thread,

Would be nice if you were allowed to pick out the outfit for K to wear on her date. That would be exciting .

Take it as it comes. They may or may not go all the way yet. Or he could get cold feet and back out.

It happens sometimes.

xoxoxo

Christine

Good morning everyone. Nothing juicy to report today. K and i were discussing Friday night and she told me she'll be bringing a bag because it doesn't look right to check in without a bag. That is s valid point and if you think it through, it all but guarantees that she will be spending the night . Walking out of a hotel, with suitcase in tow is more obvious than checking in without one. I think Friday night is going to be a long and exciting one for me !

I'll keep you posted.