Am I a cuckold?

Hi,

I'm not sure where I belong to- whenever I think of seeing my girl fucking with other men, I imagine how she does it. That makes me hungry for more and horny. Now, I don't know if it's normal, of I'm a cuckold or what else.

Need a little guidance.

To make it clear: I'm not into humiliating me but rather that she lives out her sexual desire. Just like an usual couple that wants to live its love life out.

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annacoth
You can be a cuckold and not be humiliated. Some cucks just enjoy watching their wife getting fucked, some will fuck her after she has been fucked while others will not.

Then you have the cucks who's wives control everything he can do. She decides if he will ever be allowed inside her pussy, while decided which men she will fuck. She may even make her husband stay locked in a cage at home while she gets wined, dined and then fucked madly at her lovers place. She may even stay all night so that her lover can enjoy a good fuck before he goes to work. Then she will return home to allow her husband to clean her wet, cumfilled pussy before she takes a shower and heads to bed for a nap.

Some cucks are well endowed and still want other men fucking their wives. Other cucks have small little dicks, and probably most fit this category. They know they could never pleasure their wife the way a real endowed man can. So they step aside to allow real men the honor of fucking their wives.

Basically, if you enjoy watching other men fucking your wife, you are a prime candidate to become a true cuck one day. It begins slow, but changes slowly by degrees.

However, the more you watch other men fuck your wife, the more you will find yourself giving up more and more control as you slide into the full life of a cuckolded husband.

You begin by thinking of other men fucking your wife. Soon you begin dreaming of it, because it's always on your mind. You will struggle about how to tell your wife, but one day you will.

She'll say no, but you keep bugging her until one day she say's maybe, then Ok someday, then the day comes. It happens when your best friend is visiting and you are all ********, and while you thought about him fucking your wife for a long time, you may have second thoughts, but the ******* is stronger than your skittishness. Before you know it, your friend is ravishing your wife and then you are both fucking her. It is over too fast, and you want it to happen again. So it does, and soon you and your friend share your wife on a regular basis.

Then one day you bring home another friend or worker mate. maybe you meet a guy at the bar. After a few months your wife starts telling you which men she wants, and you comply. One day you realize you are watching a lot more than joining in, as you realize you actually enjoy sitting back jerking off as her chosen lover fucks her by himself. Then one day you may even tell her you want her to dress up, and go find a guy to bring home for you to watch her. You may even tell her to bring two guys home.

Eventually, you will want her to get fucked when you are at work, and maybe call you while she is getting fucked. Maybe do facetime on your phone. Then one day you will find you desire watching her get fucked more than you enjoy fucking her yourself, because you get so turned on knowing another man fucks her more than you do.

One day, you will come home from work and there will be a note on the Fridge, that she is out with her bull, and go ahead and make your own dinner. She will bring home a prize for you. You will anticipate every minute, and every hour what she is doing, who, or how many men is fucking her, and you are so horny thinking about it you jack off a few times. By now you are used to watching your wife get dressed up for a hot date. You may even buy her some sexy cloths you want her to wear.

Next thing you know you are going to bed alone a lot as your wife spends more time out and stays out later. Some times she comes home with a guy for you to watch, sometimes she goes to his place to fuck. Sometimes she spends the whole night and when she comes home she wakes you up with a kiss. She then straddles your head and lowers her pussy down on your face, and you enjoy the warm wet thick juices oozing from her pussy. You may wonder how you got to where you are, but the thought will dissipate as you clean up whats left of her lovers sperm in her pussy.

She may buy you a cage, or one of her lovers gave it to her to put on you. So you may be locked, and unable to get hard or jack off, so when she returns from her lovers home, and wakes you up, you cannot get hard even though you have the feeling to want to. Then she lowers her pussy on your face for you to clean her lovers sperm from her pussy. Then she also unlocks your age, allowing your shrunken dick to get hard. She then lifts off your face and lowers her pussy onto your stiff little dick, and the moment it touches her pussy lips you begin to cum. You feel ashamed, but she smiles as she looks into your ayes. She say's to you in a soothing voice. "It's OK dear, you can't help it. That's why I have real men as lovers who can do it."

You then lay back as she gets into the shower. Thinking back to the day you asked if you were a cuckold. You chuckle as you start to fall asleep, knowing that you truly are one now, and you like it.
My wife never looks so beautiful as she does when another man is fucking a piece of her pussy I could only dream of reaching.

Wow. That was a great description. I'd lie if I said it hadn't turned me on. Thanks for the thoroughly description. I would say, some parts are connected with low testosterone. But the point that I get turned just with the idea, is a real deal. I think I must make the topic palatably to her and make her become slutty as well.

Do you know where else I can find more informations about cuckolding introduction, how their lifestyle is? On cuckoldmarriage.info it sounded interesting. Where else can I find lustful and interesting introductory informations?

Actually I'm not even bad equipped. Above 6" cock. But it still turns me on if my girl was seduced by a big guy who pushed her with his huge bbc even though she wasn't in the mood, but got erected through it.
I never felt any jealousy if she talks with other guys.


Isn't it difficult to hold the woman, if she fucks with other guys? She could think, why to choose me if she can have everything from lovers as well. It's less that holds her to stay to me. It's said that cuckolds connect with their wife the emotional part, their wealth. Just not sexual.

As a veteran cuckold whose wife cucked him on day one of our honeymoon, and continued for all the following years, you do not have to try to seek "justification" for your desires to be cucked. If you both agree that it is what you both want, and you are doing it for the pleasure of both of you, just go for it. And part of the pleasure lies it letting your cuckold/hot wife evolve. As the old expression goes, getting there is half the fun. I wish both of you ALL THE BEST!
A man has not lived until he watches another man fuck his wife!

I have read this article The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!
Now I think, while I would like seeing her getting banged, that I'm rather into swinging than into cuckolding cause I'm interested in an adulterous woman.
I see it this way:

Cuckolding is if a man is sexual under control and is not allowed to have sex with other woman.
The cuckold has an adulterous wife and the only thing he can do is to accept his situation.

MyWifesCuckboy

Very possibly the best description of a cuck I've read in a long while - obviously deeply rooted in personal experience. I think annacoth falls more into the camp of a would-be cuckold than a swinger. Give it time and he will be a cuck.

I read the article annacoth posted as a link. The line: "By 'persuading' her she is DOING IT FOR YOU and you still have the DOMINANT POSITION. Real cuckolding is when you have no CHOICE." says it all.

This wasn't a choice for us. It is a lifestyle that has evolved over 37 years.

The evolution of a cuckold relationship up to wearing a cage described by MyWifesCuckboy is spot-on. We started with my wife commenting about how turned on she was by a co-worker and my seemingly flippant remark that she should go for it. We both realized at that moment it was exactly what we both needed her to do. The cage came five years later when my wife decided I was paying too much 'attention' to my needs to the neglect of hers.

Right now she is downstairs trying on outfits she plans to take with her for a long weekend in the city with her lover from Oxford. The angst and its associated pleasure doesn't go away.

Be prepared for a long ride.
bd-owned

It's very difficult to decide for the right keyword. I think I wanna become a wifesharer. That's usually part of swinging.

kennyboy82
Thanks, coming from you I am honored.

I am also happy you liked the info annacoth

I may have not become the extreme cuckold, but I know the path I took to get where i am, and I know the urges I have that would take me to the next step.

Unfortunately before I ever took the next step my wife had a major medical setback. So it seems that my days of being cuckolded by her are over.

I still have videos and pictures to look back on to enjoy.

I am contemplating writing stories about our exploits and sharing them. I wrote some that I could expound upon, but I lose the desire when no one cares. It difficult to get the gumption to write something and continue when I know from past experience that no one will read my posts or I get so few comments.
My wife never looks so beautiful as she does when another man is fucking a piece of her pussy I could only dream of reaching.

Cuckold here for 11 years. Love it and have advanced to the point where wife expects me to suck her friends. She always tells them upfront that I'm a cocksucker so we're all on the same page.

Before being cucked I never had sucked a man's cock.

Bama, that's lovely! It's great that you enjoy servicing her friends. I wish that were the situation here. My GF says that the idea of it doesn't do anything for her.

xoxoxo

Christine

My wife loves to watch me suck cock. I'm addicted to it now.

Does being a cuckold mean, if you don't fuck your wife, that you are at least allowed to touch and to kiss her? Or only emotional?
If I came to a "Never-inside" stage, I could live with it, but I would likely kiss and touch her.

I would love to know how you got started.

That's only useful, if he gets harder and if he's more engaged and hornier to fuck the woman. I think, the bull needs to be greedy, horny and very aggressive. Not necessarily handsome.
Else it's bisexual.

Basic definition of a cuckold is a man who is aware of and tolerates his wife being fucked by other men. That said it is a spectrum that can range from awareness and toleration through encouraging the wife's fucking of numerous men to domination and *********** of the husband by the wife and her lover(s) or in modern cuckold terminology bull(s). I've fucked quite a few wives with their husband's knowledge and co-operation. The majority of those husbands "deferred" to me while I was fucking their wives though many of them were clearly sloppy seconds enthusiasts and keen to follow me into their wives. Maybe a handful were into mild *********** of those only two wanted to be tied and ****** to watch and clean me up afterwards (not really my scene but I guessed that I owed them their fun). Some of the experiences you read of on cuckold forums strikes me as being at the very extreme end of the spectrum where it begins to move into BDSM territory.

At the same time as cuckolding so many husbands for many years I had a sub partner whom I presented to a few other carefully chosen men for use and in one man's case for her to dominate (although submissive to alpha males, would have loved to have been used by a black bull, she had a dominant streak towards sub men). Did that make me a cuckold? Since I controlled access to her I think not but others may disagree. So you see the world of cuckoldry can be complex. Wherever you and your GF are on the spectrum enjoy it, there are so many men in vanilla relationships who will be envious of your options

where are you on this "visual scale" on your cuckold journey?

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wifeuserscot

I can't fault anything you said in your comment, it's all relevant and correct. Like you, I've been in, still am in, the sort of relationship/marriage where I am the dominant person, the Bull if you like. But during that time I've enjoyed my (now ex) wife being fucked by selected guys, and now my long term fuck buddy doing the same. Does that make me a cuckold, or merely a man that has a voyeuristic streak and enjoys seeing his woman being fucked?
I've never considered myself as being a cuckold, yes, I enjoy seeing her getting fucked, but I steer clear of any type of humili@tion towards myself.

At the moment I'm right on the very brink of fucking a very hot wife of one of the members from this site (no names, sorry) He know's who he is, and is both terrified and highly excited, and full of cuckold angst. He's a cuckold!

Hi,
I've that about everything a bit. Now I can even think about sucking bull's cock. But absolutely no hum ili ation. What exactly is cuckold 3? Is here anywhere a list about cuckold phases?

I come here to enjoy stories and watch the short nasty clips on you cuck. I have absolutely NO interest is watching my wife fuck someone else or being a Cuckold. I'm the bull here but I enjoy watching others deal with this fucked up lifestyle.

Sums it up for me really. That said, it was me that first broached the subject and planted the seed with my wife that it would be amazing if she got fucked by someone else, so it was more encouragement on my part than merely tolerating. Of course, she thought it was all pillow talk to start with and that I'd be furious if it actually happened, followed by her wondering what my motives might be in suggesting it.

As I did shifts that caused me to work in the evening alternate weeks, my wife developed something of a social life without me, be it dr1nking with friends or playing for a ladies dart team in local pubs. I had already realised that I was turned on when I caught men eyeing up her legs in short skirts or peering down her cleavage and felt it almost certain that she would be chatted up. In turn, I knew that with a dr1nk or 4 inside her, she would no doubt be flattered by the attention and very likely tempted to stray.

Better to let her do it and tell me than her have to feel guilty doing it behind my back and we found that not only did we enjoy the build-up and anticipation discussing possibilities in bed as part of our love-making, but my wife being unfaithful actually improved our own sex-life as I strived to compete in bed with the younger lovers who succeeded in fucking her. Her being pursued by other men despite the wedding ring on her finger turned us both on and it clearly boosted her ego and self-confidence, especially for a few days after she'd had a new cock. The smile on her face and the spring in her step was there for all to see and I loved knowing why she was so pleased with herself.
Peter C

It was the most natural thing in the world for me. Watching a guy put it to her and seeing her enjoyment is wonderful!
she loves it

Yalltwo I see it similar. It has a slighty touch a masochist but anyway, if she gets it, enjoys it and needs it, why stopping her? As long as your position as life partner is safe to her, go for it.

popeye1
Hot video!

MyWifesCuckboy
You definition and explanation is making me hard as a rock! I also fantasize about sucking her lovers cock and cleanup ..tasting her on him. Does this make me a cuckold?

Yes! It makes me a cuckold also! Many good definitions and explanations by those in this thread. I came to the realization and understanding that I could identify with the feelings of so many different cuckolds here. Each of us must receive and accept some level of emasculation from the experience. Our genitals "shrink" as we realize that those of another man now "grow" inside the cunt of our elated wife! And how happy we are about our entire current situation! We all share the same feeling whenever we see (or fantasize) our woman's adulterous cunt oozing cum of another man! Us cuckolds who accept our unfaithful wife and settle for her conditions, and our resultant flaccid penis, seem to be in two groups. I figure that the majority of us have considered chastity and decided that it isn't for us. We gave it some very serious thought though. I feel that maybe a solid 10% definitely feel great desire and need for purity. They range from trying to figure how to ask their wives to allow them permission for wearing the cage, to those men that feel lost without permanent chastity. I'm guessing that at least 1 or 2% of all cuckolds totally practice and embrace full time celibacy! Any cuckold properly broken in by a smart wife will rejoice in his sexual impotence. He will also enjoy seeing and fantasizing the filth coozing from her cheating cunt!

Let's assume that the majority of cuckolds discover the unfaithful wife after the fact. They might be innocent cucks, but they still must learn how to deal with it as soon as they find out her cheat! Some accept her cheating and choose to enjoy the life of a wittol. Some have to live with her cheating until they can figure an exit strategy. What better woman to cheat with than the wife of a willing cuckold! What better man's wife to cheat with than the cuckold who chooses to live pussy free? The hapless cuckold who sadly learned full knowledge of the cheating wife experience now has an inside track on a wittol's wife! So here you have an innocent loser with a chance to become the winner of the wife of a cuckold who loves to be a willing loser! Think about it! Free balling cuckolds seem to end up servicing wives of the cucks in chastity. I believe this is due to chastity cucks who choose or accept celibacy may tend to think along those lines. They also tend to drift deeper into celibacy and its mindset. Cuckolds that can keep themselves from the chastity scene understand the mind of the cuckold. They also know the thoughts of a cuckoldress. We know precisely how it feels once another man out sexes us and then blasts his load balls deep into our woman. We know what she feels about the scene. Any wife will occasionally remind us lest we should ever forget. Cucky is even more excited than she. We capitalize on this advantage, create a messy vulva, dress and leave at the appropriate time. They stay and deal with any and all issues pertaining to the tryst...

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Not sure I entirely agree with that. A cuckold should be denied ANY sex with any woman. His only sexual involvement should be fluffing or post fuck cleaning up, not enjoying other men's wives, otherwise he's not a true cuckold, he's just swapped his sexual partner.

kennyboy82

You have said that you got off on your ex wife's cheating with selected lovers. You also get off with your current FB doing the same. Nobody is going to say that you are not worthy of pussy! I agree that many cuckolds aren't worthy of pussy. Were you on board with your ex wife's first cheat? Did your current FB check with you before she added other guys into your mix? Not all cuckolds should be pussy free! Just the "deserving" ones. If every cuckold had to become pussy free, there sure wouldn't be much fucking happening in the world! There are so many guys begging for men to satisfy their wife! Guys like that certainly deserve no cunt! Sure, the cucks that you describe are not worthy of pussy. That is why ladies never throw them any. Then again...

A guy goes under the knife for prostate surgery and awakens to everyone behaving too nice to him. Or, a guy is required to take meds for a health condition that take his dick out of play. Another guy is out working his ass off to provide a good life for a wife who enjoys getting her cunt fucked by other men. I've seen more than one man clean up his act only to have his wife walk out on him with her long time lover. There are excellent men and husbands who love all things about women and wives, yet are born intersex, and maybe unable to PIV wifey.
Many knock-out babes marry sissies. I figured ???. Seems like some sissies are ideally compatible with pretty ladies. They love women, are very sincere and understanding, love her for the whole package instead of just trophy sex, can provide excellent guidance in maintaining her beauty, can make an excellent friend and companion and confidante..... It is hard to come between a pretty girl and her sissy. All a sissy sometimes needs is somebody to believe in his own ability to be the man in his wife's bed. I don't laugh. He feels lost. I simply point out the fact that he cannot be lost if he communicates with me because I know where we are. It is easy to point the way home for him. He goes to his wife and becomes the man in his own bed. His wife responds positively to this and they bond. 100% win for the sissy! All the guy needed was the slightest nudge in the right direction. He knew what to do all along! So yeah, plenty of cuckolds who don't deserve pussy off a wife do get rewarded with beaucoup sexual apathy from a wife. However, it is not fair to paint all cuckolds with the same brush.

I know exactly the feelings of a man who suffers under a cheating wife. I didn't look for it but sure had to accept it until I was able to escape. There are countless men who wish for a man to sex his woman. I know how to deliver on the fantasies of all three of us. Top is my position. Yeah. I got fucked. It opened a new world of bottoms that lust to be cuckolded. Me hammer, cuck wife nail, hubby elsewhere being cuck sit or something. Her and I don't really give a flying sh1t about cucky. Just because another man fucks a guys wife, and he enjoys her cheat, doesn't condemn a cuck to sexlessness. Not every cuck chooses to embrace sexlessness. Some cherish the denial as his portion and wouldn't change it for anything. Lots of different people on this planet.
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