MWM,
First let me say that (from my experience, reading, research) about 80% of the men 'cucking' , started where you are now. Their (woman) partner NEVER EVEN THOUGHT about what you are thinking about all the time! So you must introduce the topic, BEFORE you ask her to open wide and let some stranger fuck her, so you can get a twisted* sexual thrill. Be smart, there is much reward for both of you, if subject approached as mutually beneficial. Some didn't pursue and never made it. Like most other things, amount of desire usually determines the result.
Your 'problem' simply is available , single men. Everything you desire will come naturally in the right environment (maybe tweaked a little by you). When you both are ready, scout out a nice hotel bar Anycity,USA
You ARE NOT going to do 'anything' tonight...so relax. You are there to see the clientele that it caters to. You are there to get comfortable with the scene.You are there to relax with a *****. and a great friend. You are there to get feed back (from partner) on what they are attracted to). And importantly -If both of you think it's a very exciting part of the journey, that is a good sign that you are on the same page, you have come a long way. By no means, are you 'there' yet .
email :
[email protected] if interested in next few steps of the journey- good luck regardless.
*Not my opinion ...but probably hers. Not her fault , she is defensive because she is ignorant of the lifestyle.