hexim There's actually a scene based on this, called the Blind Date. We've done it. It can involve bondage, but doesn't have to. I'll use the bondage version, and you can skip that part if you choose. First, set a specific time that she's to be ready for her "date".
Your wife then prepares herself as if she's getting ready for a date... bathing... doing her hair, makeup, etc. For women, getting ready is part of the foreplay, so this part is important. Once she's ready, she should put on clothing that allows access to her body for sex. It can be a skirt with no panties and button up blouse, or even lingerie, etc.
She then puts in earplugs, so she can't hear. She lays in the bed, and ties her outstretched ankles to each post at the foot of the bed. She then places ropes on both her wrists, ready for her arms to be bound. Then she puts on a good quality blindfold, lies back and waits.
YOUR goal is to be different in every way. Put on clothing you don't normally wear. Buy something different if you need to. Put on different cologne or after shave. Use a different toothpaste and mouthwash. The idea is to fool her senses. Putting on a cock extender is a perfect toy to complete this scene. Tip: before insertion make sure to warm it completely, so it feels real.
You come into the room at the set time. NEVER say anything. Be completely quiet. Make sure her blindfold is secure. Then take the ropes tied to her wrists and complete the process of binding her in the spread eagle position. She'll feel vulnerable but excited.
At this point you need do everything differently, or even opposite, of what you normally do when you make love to your wife. The idea is to create the illusion that you're another man. Do NOTHING that's familiar to her.
We all have a pattern when we make love. Change it up. Be different. The idea is for her to never know what's coming next. If you're normally gentle, then be rough. If you normally start with kissing and fondling her breasts, then shove her knees apart and jam a couple fingers right into her pussy. Slap her breasts back and forth. Be a little rude. Use her body as a toy. Finger her ass. If she squirms away, become more ********. Pull her hair when you're fucking her. Grab her throat (gently!). Put your hand over her mouth. Pinch and twist her nipples. Lunge hard when fucking her. Make her grunt and scream with your thrusts (be careful though if the extender is long).
Basically do her in a manner that's "unlike you".... strange and different. Part of the excitement for her will be dealing with the unexpected, and the illusion that you're someone else. So the details of what you do, how you do it and how long it lasts is up to you. Just be sure that everything is "unlike you".
After you're finished, have an agreement beforehand that you're to untie her wrists, but she's not to move for another minute or two. Then you quietly leave the room. Say nothing!! Just disappear. Go change clothes, wash off the cologne, etc. Go back to being you.
For a more powerful effect, don't talk about what just happened. You two go about your daily routine. Let it all stew in her mind. She was certainly fantasizing while she was in that bed and "someone else" was on top of her. Let those fantasies percolate a bit. She's just had a taste of what it might be like with another man. Give that seed time to grow in her mind. It could grow, and maybe even lead to more.
If you really want to give her something to think about, after you leave the room get in your car and leave the house. Come back in about an hour and ask her how it went with "Jim"...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker