Wife said she would do it. But I need help from everyone

So after 8 years wife told me today she would give me what I want and do it because she knows how much I want to share and watch her. These were here requests... clean decease free with proof. A stranger or someone she doesn't know but I must make sure he is safe. She also said a male escort with std checkup is an option. No one night stands and no guys that she's into emotionally and attracted to. She says if I handle all her requests and make her body safe she is willing to be with another. I need help to make the first time a good one and need advice on what is the best way to execute this. Thanks
robo

I know it's going to be difficult to not do all your thinking with your cock when faced with any choices, but try to be rational and impartial about the way you go about this. It's taken 8 years to reach this point so it's very important you show her that you're playing by her rules. Be cautious, be selective, don't rush things, a few weeks in deciding who the lucky Bull will be is neither here nor there compared with your wait so far. Just be aware that although she's said it has to be a stranger with no emotional ties, if he's a regular to her bed, and she's enjoys him fucking her, a bond will develop. Can you handle that?
Assuming those are her photos, she's super Hot, I'd love to fuck her for you. Alas, I'm in Europe!

I personally am very suspicious of husbands who are "screening" guys for their wife. If I can't email/text/chat with her very soon after confirming with him that I'm real and more or less suitable, then I assume he's a fraud and a wannabe.

By far, my best experiences were cases where the wife/GF herself reached out for a bull.

So you need to get her directly involved in the search, IMO. She needs to chat and talk to guys directly. And you also have to realize that she gets hit on constantly and will assume nearly every guy you meet is a liar and a jerk. Because most of them are.

Just my 2 cents.

Thanks for the insight. She is very sub mineed not aggressive at all. She also has few other experiences with men sexualy. Basically she had one sex partner before me. Alot of kissing before me but nothing more so she really told me she wants nothing to do with the setup if that helps any
robo

robotcoupe69
I think you are approaching this logically. The comments above are great advice especially from KB, he has a lot of experience in these matters. I understand her wanting you to find her a fuck buddy, that takes the guilt from her of cheating. That said once you find a possible sperm donor she does need to get involved with him prior to actually meeting to fuck. Also she said a stranger but she did not say he had to be a stranger to the both of you. She may know someone or you may know someone from work or past that might be a possible contact. I would suggest you start by introducing them through a chat room. I know that we use to log onto a site and chat with the occupants. At one point my wife became at ease with a couple gentlemen, which led to video chatting, which led to video sex, which led to....well you see where this is going. Meeting online and allowing her to develop a relationship first may put her at ease for when they do actually meet in the flesh.

Oh and to completely put her at ease you should get them a hotel room and let them have their privacy the first time. You can reclaim her in the hotel bed she was fucked in after he leaves but let them be together the first time.

What about an escort service anyone done this? Saftey? Cost? Issues?
robo

could you do your research based on her needs and what she likes in a man,submit a series of men with a bio and picture and allow her to choose what she likes?

I know exactly what she likes so that's the easy part. Finding it may be difficult. She definitely doesn't like stripper looking guys. she trusts me to find the right guy on my own. She doesn't want to get involved in selecting anyone. Chat rooms and pictures online don't really make her excited so that's why it's difficult. She doesn't want to get emotionaly attached so bringin in a person to get to know her may fail. Still unsure
robo

Why not place an ad in AFF and let HER be the one who screens the potential bulls? I know that each time I used that medium we would get a ton of replies and she could be very particular about whom she decided on.