Date Tomorrow = Cock Tease Night Tonight

I am encouraging my wife to tease and deny me as much as possible on the night before she has a date. We obviously can't have sex, because I don't want her to be sore. I will limit myself to just licking her pussy and maybe a finger or two to let her orgasm. Before that, I will rub her back a long time. We're also going to pick out her outfit she will wear for him.

Do you have any pre-date night rituals?

We normally abstain from sex for several days (3-4 maybe) before my wife has a date. That builds the sexual tension for us both, and makes sure that she's extra horny for "him". We do touch and tease and rub... with a ton of affection, etc. But no actual sex, and definitely no orgasms.

As far as clothing, I would have her dressed like a hooker. But we have a teen at home and my wife is sensitive about her appearance when she goes out. So when it comes to her outfits she prefers picking that out herself to avoid my pushing her to wear the slutty stuff!
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Yes abstinence before her date is imperative so she is fresh and clean for him. As PCC said touching is acceptable and encouraged. We don't prevent each other from oral orgasms but I would never ejaculate in her before she dates. Well that is not exactly true. She had one lover that she wanted to cuckold and she wanted me to fuck her prior to her going over to his house with her pussy full of my cum. It was sorta weird and they didn't last long but it was fun knowing that he was getting my sloppy seconds before I got sloppy thirds.

If you're using chastity, I highly recommend it for 24 hours before and 24 hours after the date. This puts you in the right mood leading up to the date and keeps you in the right mood to please her afterward.

We haven't gotten into chastity devices yet. I could definitely see using it the 24 hours prior. But I couldn't make it through the 24 hrs afterward. We usually have wild crazy sex after our encounters anyway.

goodtimes618 We're the same. None of that chastity stuff here. For us, the incredible sex is the goal that motivates us. We both enjoy holding off before a date, but it's reconnecting during the "After Date Date" that makes it all worthwhile. If we're not going to have sex before her date... and not going to have sex after her date... then like my wife said... why even bother? We can stay home, watch TV every night and not have sex. LOL.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

A good thing to do is have her pull out some of the potential outfits, shoes and lingerie she intends to wear for "him" and have you dress her in them the night before. This gets you both worked up and horny but it does not progress from there. You see her as "he" is going to see her and use her and its just a great way to get the juices flowing. You may also think about taking a few pics of her posing in her outfit, just so you can look at them while she's out getting fucked out of her brains. We're not into the chastity thing either, never saw the fun in that personally, although I do think she should be dressed as slutty as possible for him, that really is a "must" in my book - good luck

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I'm having trouble getting her into the teasing and denial thing. The problem is that any messing around makes her horny, and she really wants to have sex, thus tempting us to break our promise to not do so.

goodtimes618 We had the same problem. We'd fantasize and tease, which would lead straight to sex. The trick is to start off short and then go longer and longer each time. Tease each other for a few minutes... then have sex a little later. Then tease more and more each week... and try to extend the amount of time before you have sex. It takes a little discipline, but it's like anything else. You can build up to it. Now, these guys who go months or even a year without getting off... pfft... they can have that! We like sex! LOL
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

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We have a few rituals that we both enjoy as 'date night' approaches.

1. Certainly no sex for me.

2. If time allows, I will go and buy lingerie a few days before.

3. My wife will then model her new underwear for me and will always ask 'Do you think he'll like it?' Oddly, I really get a kick out of this as I'm the first to see her in it

4. Usually the night before but sometimes in the afternoon, I will shave her pussy.

5. After a shower my wife will then put on her underwear and will always say 'Look at what you won't be getting!'

6. I will always go through a little 'checklist' (in my head) with her 'Have you got everything, phone, money, condoms etc' She goes bareback with a regular but with a new b/f she will use a condom.

7. Last but not least, I always say to her 'Make sure you enjoy yourself' For me this is very important, as her happiness is the main reason that I 'allow' her to explore her slutty side.

I will ask her if she wants me to wear one of my cock cages but seeing as this is more for my enjoyment she isn't too bothered one way or the other.

Nothing too exciting or drastic but just the little things that we do. I think it helps bond us closer together and certainly lets my wife know that I fully support her in anything that she does.

It's perfect for you two, and that's what matters. We don't have a formal ritual per se, but often touch on many of the things you described (except the cock cage... not our thing).

It always tickles me when I hear or read about married couples having "Date night". That term has a very different meaning for those of us in this crowd
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Thanks SheDatesHeWaits. Yes, the cock cage thing! I now own 2 a cb6000 and a metal one.
I only bought one to show her that when we have sex i'm happy to wear it while using my tongue and then a large dildo on her. I'm happy for her not to have to concern herself with my very average sized penis (that she's seen everyday for 22 years).
I've ended up hoping that she'll start 'ordering' me to wear it (my sub side, I guess) but in fairness, it does nothing for her

My wife has expressed no interest in it, either, and I'm not submissive. So a cage is not for us.

However, we do enjoy dabbling lightly in the denial thing for a few days here and there, usually for several days preceding her dates. In those instances we prefer the element of self-discipline to refrain from the temptation to fuck, and we both enjoy seeing and feeling my frequent erections as we approach "date night". If my cock was in a cage she wouldn't get the satisfaction of knowing how aroused I was... and she really gets off on that.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker