Almost there... Not now, I now have a Hotwife

Great update. Thanks for sharing your journey with us, I look forward to reading more. Could you possibly share your wife's blog address with us? What are your tumblr addresses?

Thanks

Been there... done that! I'm often the same way. It's like I'm SO engrossed in watching... catching every detail... making mental pictures... that I almost forget to be aroused myself. It can seem very surrealistic when it happens, especially after fantasizing for so long. I sometimes feel like I'm dreaming... and so I don't always sport a raging hard-on. But LATER, replaying the mental videotape, it keeps me hard for days!

Going out dr1inking afterward like you did was cool! It's special to be out together after doing something so sexy. You have this private little secret, and nobody around you has any clue that your wife was fucking someone else just an hour ago. My wife and I love doing things like that.

"N" has such a great attitude. Willing to give "S" one more shot... not being discouraged by his lackluster performance... starting her own blog... seeing the positives, such as the stronger marriage, etc. You've got a winner.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Thats right, it was a great feeling. We came down from the room and ordered a taxi, the man on reception asked what room we were in. I know he wont have had a clue that we didnt book the room but it felt naughty anyway.

Same with when the two of them went to the room and left me behind, maybe some people guessed or suspected, maybe not, but I was sat in the bar on my own when a bit earlier there had been 3 of us.

We haven't done the "hotel bar" scene together yet. But I have imagined that exact same scenario... coming in with my wife as a couple... meeting and talking with another guy... then the two of them adjourn to the room together, leaving me alone. How many people would notice? How many would make the connection and surmise what was going on? I envy that you did it first!

A similar scene I would like to play out is at a restaurant. My wife and I meet someone for dinner. She and I sit on one side of the table, with him on the other. After a cocktail and appetizers, she and he slip out to the car in the parking lot for... hmmmm whatever they decide to do. Upon returning she sits beside him, across from me. How many people would notice...? How many would figure out what was happening...?
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Is this the best thing ever or what? I'm so glad she took the plunge and fucked him, even though it sounded like he had 'first night nerves'!
Threesomes are definitely the way to go, at least at first. 'N' likes the reassurance of you being there, watching (her making eye contact as she's being fucked is so important) and encouraging her. You're both pretty cool about the whole thing now, and be assured it will only get better.
Let me know her blog address, I'd like to read her version of events.

I definitely think the threesome made her feel more comfortable, as did the "togetherness" in public after. As she grows, she may not need the threesome, but for now it worked great.

And make me the third that would like her blog address IF you feel you can share. Think of it as cuckolding. We will be with her alone - okay, the debil made me say that.

Wow somehow I missed your 3-some post. That is excellent she is progressing so nicely. I can honestly say that first time nerves can be very detrimental to both the man men and/or woman alike. There is nothing I would like better than hold my wife's legs open for someone to enter. However she says that with more than her lover there it is too busy and she can't concentrate on receiving pleasure. Therefore she likes to date along. I suspect your wife may enjoy some alone time with her new friend now she knows you are totally accepting of her play.

Oh and yes I too would love to read your wife's thoughts in her blog

The more I think about Saturday the more I kick myself as I didnt get in close enough to watch and see better. I wanted to give her some space. I so wish I had seen her pussy spread and taking his cock rather than just seeing her ass from above as he was fucking her doggy. Never mind, the way she is talking there WILL be other times.


Again, thinking about this turns me on now. My wife was upstairs naked with another man while I was sat in the bar and there were lots of people about that would have seen her go up, I even stood up and kissed her before she went!!


We BOTH loved this, it was a bit of downtime to reflect and, I suppose giddily, talk about what had just happened. I just couldnt get enough of her skin and kept kissing her neck and shoulders. It was HOT.





Ill check with her guys, Im sure she'll be fine but just want to make sure shes happy with me telling you all... She knows Ive been on a forum and getting advice but I havent told her where!!

Excellent updates with excellent news!

Made up for you both for having crossed that bridge and unlocking the gates to new adventures

I agree. Based on her attitude, you guys will have more adventures together. You'll learn along the way... tweak things... do this and that differently, etc. Each guy will change the dynamics too, so the experiences are always different.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Of course - you've only taken the first step on a very long and enjoyable journey, enjoy the ride, she will!

Sounds like you really need a strong, Dominant alpha to take charge not the damp shower you've got. Either way I'm very much looking forward to reading more updates. Good luck

Trust me... those are actually more rare than one thinks, and definitely tough to find in real life. Although men in general are the dominant gender, it takes real chutzpa to wade into an existing relationship, assume the dominant role and perform at a high sexual level. It can happen, but definitely not with the ease and regularity that the internet would have you believe... LOL
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

The internet does not present absolute truth in all that appears in it ?????

The debil made me do that.

Been busy this week and weekend, finally got a bit of time off with the bank holidays so had some good quality time with my family.

N and I have been talking a bit about the hotel meet. She has asked why I think I didnt get fully hard, was there anything she could have done to help etc. I suppose I have been analysing it to see what about the situation was bothering me. I think it was a combination of lots of little things, first threesome, first time meeting S, watching another man kissing/fingering/licking/fucking my wife, his neediness and many more.

I have realised I could have been much more easy going and just rolled with it but I was a bit uptight I think! I'm sure I will enjoy the next one much more.

N completely understands as she went through similar thoughts when she met S for the first time the week earlier. We can laugh about the situation with S now. Their texting has slowed this last week, dont know if I have put him off!!

Moving on from S, we had this text exchange a couple of weeks ago -

Her - I've just been on your Tumblr, I really like the idea of a BBC ️xx

Me - You didn't like the idea before! What's changed? Xx

Her - I want my white pussy to get stretched by a black cock!!! xx

Me - Oooh that's hot. That's just given me a hardon. Stretched out by a huge black cock eh? Any thing else to tell me about it?? Xx

Her - Not black like night but milk chocolate. Can't wait!!!😳 ️xx

Me - Can't wait til you get one inside you or can't wait to start looking? Why the 😳 face? Xx

Her - Wide eyed for the stretch and length 😯 uhhh ️xx

Me - You reckon you could take one DEEEP? Xx

Her - I'd love to see how deep I could take it. xx

Then she sent me these pics attached.

Needless to say I was very surprised to see these and learn a bit more thats going on in my very sexy wifes head so Ive encouraged her to pursue the idea. She has found a couple of guys who she has been messaging. One appears a bit more advanced than we are right now so shes just still at messaging stage with him. However another guy, who doesnt live too far from us, has been genuine and nice with her, they have sent pictures and many messages and are getting on well. They have arranged to meet up tonight for a coffee and a 'get to know you' kind of chat.

ALL you guys were right. The more this goes on the easier things get. Im a lot less bothered by the messages (still a bit bothered, but nowhere near before) and am really looking forward to hearing about her next encounter.

We were having sex the other night and she was talking about the meet with the new guy, about how they were just gonna get to know each other and then she threw in that if they really get on then she might have some 'car fun' with him before she comes home. She has since said that it wont happen but in the heat of the moment it was HOT hearing her say it and it almost made me blow that instant!!

Feeling quite lucky right now...

Heres the other one that didnt work first time!!

That nasty debil, makes us do alsorts of things!!

You will. It will become more enjoyable with each time, as you both become more comfortable with it all. There's SO much to sort out when you first start... potential moral conflicts... being intimate with someone new... all the new emotions... monitoring feelings between each other... yada, yada, yada. Once you resolve that stuff then you'll both begin focusing more on the actual sex, and the fireworks will follow.

I'm glad to hear you're getting less concerned about the texting, too. Like I mentioned, you definitely don't want her to feel that she has to walk on eggshells. That will distract her from letting loose, and make her feel that you don't trust her judgement. Letting the butterfly have some space will work out to your benefit... trust me.

The whole BBC things is absolutely mind-blowing!! Most wives who progress to that do so over a period of months or years. Your wife is on the fast track, man. That's incredible... and a very good sign that she's genuinely into this whole thing.

You know what to do. Follow her lead, at her speed. She's gold... pure gold!
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

To put in different words something PCC stated.

Please try to not over analyse things. Sometimes Hell if I know it just did/didn't is the correct answer.

Worry only about major things. Otherwise just go with thrflow.and enjoy.

She is gold and it is working for you both.

Thanks fellas. I know shes pure Gold, its nice to hear from others too though.

Shes out now with him. Ive just got the 'Im here and all OK' text.

Quite horny thinking about what they are talking about!!

And it is great that she knows and cares enough to know you worry.

hero69 Hopefully they'll hit it off and she can stir another guy into the mix. Having a basket of guys to pick from makes it a lot easier when she's ready to play.

I still liked your wife's "car fun" comment though. Personally I love the idea of a quick romp in the backseat of a car that's tucked away in a dark corner of a parking lot! Hell, even a quick blowjob can do wonders to seal the deal. My wife knows that the best way to make sure a guy calls her is to give him a preview of her oral talents.

cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

HOLY **** GUYS. Shes just text saying they are 'Gonna have some fun'.

Wasnt really expecting that, hoping maybe, but not expecting. Im very horny now. This time feels lots better than the last meets shes had.

When she met him there was someone in the hotel bar that he knew so he has taken her to a friends house. I have location turned on her phone so I know exactly where she is!!

They have been chatting for maybe an hour and half and then she text that. Cant believe it, my hearts racing and my cock is rock hard. I so want het to enjoy this one as I think if this one flops then we wont be having many more meets.

hero69 Wow! I can tell that you already appreciate your wife, but I have to tell you that she is WAY ahead of the curve compared to most. The majority of wives tip-toe into this. It's not unusual for months to pass after the first time they do it, as they mull it over and adjust. Your wife hasn't slowed down yet, and she keeps throwing you surprises too. Incredible lady... just incredible.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

You def know your wife best, but I'm not so sure. She seems quite resilient and determined. Even if he doesn't work out I wouldn't count her out.

Don't fret about that though. She's at a "friend's house"... and obviously has the opportunity and the inclination for some playtime. Let's wait and see how it goes. Hopefully as you're typing away on your keyboard, they're busy... well.... you know....

cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Thats fucking hot PC.

I was thinking more like this to start with

I see she's not the only one fired up by the BBC idea... LOL
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

You may be right bud...