Almost there... Not now, I now have a Hotwife

hero69 Just think back to that night she went over the Running Guy's house. They didn't go all the way, but they did play around... and that night went fine. She came home. It brought you closer together. The Internet Guy is just the next step of your journey.

Trust her to make the right decision. They may not hit it off. If not, be upbeat and supportive when she gets home. If she likes the guy enough to move forward and go to the room, then be happy for her. She's worked hard to make you happy doing all of this. Part of her reward is the enjoyment of having wonderful sexual experiences.

It will be a tough couple of hours for you, because you're blind and have no control. There's only one way to say it... you gotta man up! Be tough. Remind yourself that you put this in motion, and be strong enough to handle those few hours alone. You'll probably want to keep texting her, but try to resist that. You'll come across as being needy and insecure, plus you'll distract them. Give her some space and freedom, and trust her...

It will seem like an eternity. Keep your mind occupied. When my wife is gone I often write her a letter, telling her what I'm feeling. Then I'll email it to her. She reads that later, knowing that as she was in bed getting fucked I was at home, thinking of her. She enjoys it because it helps her understand me better, and she also likes knowing I'm at home... waiting... obsessing over her... and every woman loves that!

She'll be home. Everything will be fine. If they use that room reservation then everything will be even better. Hopefully you'll see...

cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Hang in there fella!

See how tonight goes, ride the waves you are having, and will have.

Let her have some reign, she needs that trust from you now more than ever now shes out with him. Cannot wait to hear how things go!

We discussed earlier that she wanted to ring me as she was walking into the bar si she could hear my voice and that I could be with her as she looks for him. She rang me 40 mins ago, she walked in the bar and must have spotted him straight away, I asked 'have you seen him?' she replied 'Mmm Hmm', I asked if he was like his pic to which she replied 'Mmm Hmm'. Then told me she loved me and we hung up.

I sent her the attached pic on her drive to the hotel. I have sent it to her before but on her way out the house she asked me to find it and send it again.

I so appreciate that you guys are on hand to help. I'm fairly calm now, Im trusting her. She has said on numerous occasions that it is a big turn on and I have said that I am 100% behind her in whatever she chooses to do tonight.


I've thought about that already (when she told me that its a steep learning curve and we are both going through things) so Im going to absolutely listen and NOT judge anything she tells me. If she has doubts Im here for her.

Im not hugely turned on at the mo but I thought I would be. Is that the first night nerves? I have been leading up to tonight but not right now!!
As this guy knows about me I have asked for some pics, whatever they are comfortable with. She has said she would mention it if they go up to the room.

Just gonna say it again, HUGE thanks to all of you who have commented and supported. You are all fucking ace!

Cheers

That's typical. Again, fantasy land and the real world don't always align. Thinking about her in that hotel room in the future will keep you hard for hours. But when it's game time the emotional turmoil can displace horniness. Odd, ain't it?

Don't worry. Once she's back home, all of the uncertainty is behind you, and you're holding her in your arms again your erection will be back in full f0rce. "Wife reclaiming" is the 8th Wonder of the World...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

hope you made it through her date without suffering from cuckold angst too much and that you were able to find some way to get your enjoyment too... would love to know how the date went... did they go up to the room after? did she stay the night? love reading your story as it develops...

Yes I can't wait to learn of her outcume

The key word here is reassurance. Once the deed is done, it's possible you both need to reassure each other that you're fine with the way things are going. You won't be the first couple in that situation, nor the last.

Looks like it was a major step for her, at last. I'm counting on you for a fully detailed report on how it went down, including you going down on her when she came home, eventually.

And I for one will patient on that report. I am sure, whatever happened, that when she got home they had other more pressing things to do than report here. So take your time on a "report" to us, reassure, enjoy, or whatever you to need a couple.

Been difficult to get the time to post today guys.

So, shes now officially a Hotwife.

She had sex with him. They did it in a few positions but she wasnt that impressed! Apparently when they were kissing he kept seeking reassurance from her asking if he was a good kisser. Then when she was riding him a bit later he went soft a couple of times but kept going on about it which basically put her right off.
She didnt cum.
She did feel bad near the end that neither of them had cum, so she sucked him and wanked him til he did!

She said parts of it were enjoyable but not as good as the thought of it!! Possibly because he was so needy.

She rang me on her way home and told me bits about it but said she would tell all when we were together. I could tell straight away that she was pissed off.
When she got in we were all over each other but I could tell deep down she had had enough for the night and just wasnt going to cum as she was annoyed.

It wasnt anywhere near as much of a turnon hearing that she was dissappointed rather than hungry for more...

I dont really feel great today as it was such a let down last night. Not sure how I should feel but didnt think it would be like this!

Need to go, will try to post more later...

It happens. Life is not all lollipops and unicorns. She did it, and is down because he needed reassurance, not because she is a "bad woman/wife." Time and reassurance my friend.

To mis-attribute a fairy tail - You have to kiss a lot a frogs before you find your handsome prince.

I know I am proud of her. You are proud of her. And I don't think we are alone.

Damn! I hate that it didn't go better. Not only can it put a damper on her view of the whole lifestyle, it can potentially affect her confidence.

Try to make her understand that it was his problem, NOT hers. Unfortunately there are needy, clingly, wimpy guys out there. She just happened to pick one of those losers.

Try to focus on the positives though... she was confident enough to meet him alone... she was courageous enough to take things to the room... it was still exciting to try it with someone new... and YOU LOVE HER EVEN MORE for giving it a shot. Dote on her... show her tons of affection and positive reinforcement. Do that, and she'll still associate the experience with a positive outcome because it brings you two closer.

Your first experience isn't all that unusual though. They seldom go perfectly, and many don't go well at all.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Congrats to you becoming a cuckold and kudos for your hot wife. It'll surely get better as more times pass
Win some...
Lose some...
Few are rained out

I agree PCC. I feel I should add that you are so happy and proud of her for giving it a shot, please don't pressure her to try again at this time.

That does happen occasionally. I remember one of the first guys my wife tried to fuck right after we were married. He was a body-builder type and possibly on Steroids. Anyway all he wanted her to do was give him head and then go soft too. Like your wife mine was pissed too. She wanted pounded into orgasm and he couldn't or wouldn't deliver. Soon though she moved on and found what she wanted and needed.

Not an auspicious start all in all, I'm sorry about that, but please don't either of you be put off by it. He sounds self obsessed, and not what she's looking for. But, the plus side is she took that first step, that's a positive. Now it's your cue to reassure her that she did nothing wrong, and she needs to keep looking, her perfect stud's out there! I hope this has brought the two of you closer together, enjoy her as you look for a fresh partner.

The keyword here is reassurance. Whilst your wife may be pissed off that this first experience wasn't as good as you were both hoping and expecting, she may also go through some misgivings like my wife did. Your relationship has changed. As it stands, you are not the last man to have had sex with your wife and she may feel guilty that she is no longer the faithful partner she was until recently. I never used the term "unfaithful" or "cheating" with my wife. I told her that she was neither, because it was my idea in the first place and as it was all done with my knowledge and my full approval, how could she be cheating on me? My wife was only ever "naughty", sometimes "very naughty" or just "busy".

As kennyboy82 has said, you need to reassure her that she has done nothing wrong, quite the opposite in fact. Tell her how proud you are of her and how much you love her. She did exceptionally well going to meet this guy and going to his room to have sex with him, it's just a shame he wasn't man enough for the job. She may even look for a change in you now she's not your faithful wife, so just give her lots of loving hugs and cuddles. Make love only when she's ready to have her pussy reclaimed by her husband. I bet she will be really complimentary when you do. She'll feel extra comfortable doing it again with you, like putting on a familiar, old pair of shoes after a new pair!

Perhaps she should confess to The Runner that she's been "naughty" and met a guy off the internet for sex behind your back. She could tell him how disappointed she was with the guy's performance and tell him how she wished it had been him instead, someone she knew and had played with before. He might oblige!
Peter C

Sound advice Peter C. Hope you're taking this all in, hero69

Last night was the arranged meet with Running Man. After Weds we were both unsure whether to go through with it. She said that she would like to in the end so we agreed that she would go and see how she felt when she got there.

I got a text from her at 10 saying she was there then heard nothing for 2 hours. Dont know why her seeing him was different but I was quite turned on while she was there thinking about what they were getting up to. Much more than Wednesday anyway.

Midnight I get a text saying shes just leaving, then these...

Me: Give me a clue??? Fucked or not? x

Her: I don't think this is for us ️xx

Me: I'm here for you always. See you in a mo xxx

Her: Not feeling great ️xx

Me: Understood. We'll have a good chat when you get in xxx 😍😍😍

These were while she was on her way home. When she got in we cuddled for a bit then she said she wanted a shower. I asked if she was ok and if it had gone to far or he had done things she didnt want to, which she assured me he hadnt she just wanted to 'wash him off her'.

He went down on her for a bit which she said he was **** at and then they fucked which she enjoyed at first but then he changed position and she was less impressed. He came and she didnt. She very soon after got up to leave.

All the fantasies that we have been sharing over the last 2 months have been much better that the reality.
We are going to see how we feel over this next week as we still have the threesome set up for 28th with Internet Guy which she is still fairly keen on doing as she REALLY wants me involved if there is a next time. Im not sure I want to see this guy though because he bit my wife. I know it was in the heat of the moment and she enjoyed it to a degree but to see a bite shaped bruise on the back of MY wifes neck makes me want to chin the fucker!!

One of the biggest turnons for her was the reclaiming fuck. Wednesday was average, we did have sex but she wasnt that into it because of the disappointment of the meet. And then last night she just wanted a shower and then get in bed and snuggle close!! So, turns out the reclamation fucks havent been all that this week!!

Anyways, we have agreed to enjoy this weekend and see how we feel early next week. This gives us time to cancel 28th if we want.

Internet guy is a bit smitten with her, he has just sent her this:

Hi and good afternoon hope ur having a good day?ha! Well I'm chilling today ha! How's the neck? These scratch marks on my back are still there! A very fond memory xx just thought I would ask but would u like to meet again say wed night? I've got my stamina back I hope!!!! I would like to see u again if that's ok? How's the cake baking? I bet ur out riding ur bike today? XXXX

Its funny how things turn out, eh?

All this sounds a bit down and negative but I just wanted to write down whats been going on and see if you guys have any advice? I know my job is to be her rock and not judge or push ANYTHING. We can just see how things turn out as time passes a bit.

hero69 As you know, my wife and I are way ahead of you on the learning curve, and I promise that your experiences really aren't that uncommon. Cuck sites are filled with endless stories of God-like studs with 10-inch cocks who fuck wives a dozen times a night... yada, yada, yada. But real life is very different.

It's TOUGH to find quality guys! Your wife's first two experiences have bombed... but again, it's because the guys didn't do their job. It's definitely no reflection on her. Constantly reassure of that, and push the fact that the guys dropped the ball. She's absolutely to be commended. Your wife is a damn trooper. Her first experience wasn't great, but she got right back on the horse and tried again. Women like that are rare!

Advice? You already nailed it. Let things simmer. Talk a lot. Stay close. Lots of affection and intimacy. Show her you appreciate all her efforts. Share the disappointment together, so she sees that she's not alone in that.

You've got a week to decide on the Internet Guy threesome... so I see no rush on that decision. I would keep in touch with him, but not commit. Give her the better part of the week to get her head together while you prop up her ego and cushion the recent disappointments.

By the way... the threesome is probably a good idea, even if you let the two of them do most of the playing. My wife loves threesomes a lot, and I once asked her why. Her answer: "Because sometimes I just want you there". So, that may be the smart way to go on the next encounter.

But give it the week, see how she feels, then decide...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

By the way, on stuff like that, learn to take your wife's clue. If it doesn't bother her, don't let it bother you.

My wife has big boobs (38DD/DDD). Guys can get carried away with them. She's had some light bruises now and then, and I've been ready to open a can 'o whoop ass. But she just smiled and said no... she didn't mind it one bit.

Guys don't always treat our wives like the delicate flower we see them as. However, our wives sometimes like that. For some women, part of the appeal is that the "other guy" treats them a little rougher than sweet hubby.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

hero69 - you two are doing fine. I will only add to all the sage advice PCC is giving you, that given it all you two and your relationship is still strong and firing on all cylinders.

I couldn't put it better myself. It could be that your wife does feel bad, maybe a bit dirty. She has had sex with two new men in a matter of days, so things have changed and she can never be your faithful wife again. She may be worried that it will affect your marriage and be watching for signs that you disapprove. That's where your reassurance comes in. What PCC says is spot-on.

That said, I am impressed that your wife fucked Running Man so soon after the disappointing session with the Internet Guy. It's also great that she is still keen to involve you and have the threesome, so I think she is still very much hotwife material. My wife's first three lovers were not as good as she expected, but the fourth was excellent so it is worth perservering and hopefully your wife will.


My wife went with an ex-workmate of mine who was very different from me. He was stocky and heavily tattooed. He had a much smaller penis than me, which is maybe why he fucked her much rougher than I would. She didn't complain though, she liked that it was different, so don't go getting all protective if/when you meet the guy. Let your wife decide if he's allowed to bite her. Also, don't forget you also now have to face The Runner. No doubt he will be even more sheepish now he's licked her out and actually fucked your wife, but you have to act normal towards him and play the poor unsuspecting husband. It's up to your wife of course, but he may improve in bed from regular sessions with her as they get to know each other sexually. You may not have been all that the first time you fucked her!
Peter C

I think this shows that she is feeling a bit bad about herself. In less than a week she has increased the number of men she has slept with by 2 and what I assume to be the first time since you got married. I think this her version of the "cuckold angst" we discussed before. You got cold feet - so did she, hence why she got you to text that captioned picture to her on the way to meet Internet Guy - "don't back out". Now she's wondering if she's done the right things having sex with two new men so quickly, one of which you are both going to see around.

You both need reassuring and this cooling-off period will do you good to assess where you both are and where you want this to go. Lots of kisses, cuddles and affection for each other. You may both decide to call it a day now, but I hope not. She sounds as if she's still up for that threesome, so once the dust settles and you can both see no harm's been done to your relationship - it may well have enhanced it - I see no reason why she won't be enjoying extra-marital sex on a regular basis.
Peter C

Reassurance is important now, as is staying close to her, showing her you love her just as much. The threesome thing may well work for you two, and it's an easy way for her to get back in the saddle, knowing you're right there, watching and encouraging, before she branches out on her own again. Stick in there, it will get good.

Have you had the talk with her. You know the one where you assure her the next time will be better and how proud of her you are for trying.

Sorry for no updates this week, been busy etc.

Heres a brief one...

The threesome is ON for tonight. We have had a good few days to talk and digest last weeks goings on. She was VERY disappointed with Friday night with Running Man which was the reason she text 'maybe this isnt for us'.
She is now well turned on again at the thought of the threesome, mainly because I will be there, she is wanting me to be involved more.

She has been reading Literotica more and looking on Tumblr to get herself worked up and it seems to be working.

We havent gone down the no sex rule this week as it didnt really work for her last time. We had amazing sex last night where she came twice. I didnt cum as I wanted to save myself for tonight.

Ill update more after.

Cheers guys

That sounds wonderful. Make sure she has a couple orgasms tonight and the experience will be most pleasant for her which means she will want to do it again. Also try to let the other guy cum first then dive in for the grand finality. Just like at the fireworks show. Enjoy and have fun. Oh and one other thing they like, it's to hold their legs open for the other guy to enter her. It's the ultimate in giving her permission to enjoy him fucking her.

I couldn't agree more, like i122 says, it's the ultimate green light that you totally approve with what the two of you are doing. Hold them open from round the back of her, she will feel how hard you are and you get a brilliant view of him penetrating her. Whisper encouragement in her ear as she's fucking her new man. Take your time, make sure her stud fucks her first, then you, and make her cum, she'll never feel more wanted or feminine and sexy.

Hopefully that made the difference this time! Where's our update, buddy...???
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Update...

We went out a bit earlier on Saturday because (lets call her) N thought that having a few more dr1nks would make her relax better and hopefully remove a few more inhibitions.

We met (lets call him) S in the hotel bar where he had booked the room. We sat and chatted for maybe an hour. S was just a bit normal probably just average. Not dom, not sub, not amazing looking but not a moose!! Neither sizzling entertainment nor boring as ****, just normal.

They left to go up to the room as me and N had discussed earlier, I wanted her to be as relaxed as possible and she said to achieve that she would like to go on her own first and was to let myself in after about half an hour.

That half hour DRAGGED LIKE MAD!!! Allsorts of images going through my head.

When I let myself in the room she was lying on the bed, S was above her kissing her with his fingers buried in MY WIFES pussy. I really didnt know how I would feel. When I first witnessed it it was quite hot but not knock my socks off, rock hard cock hot!

I enjoyed listening to her moan and also enjoyed watching her suck his cock shortly after I had entered the room. He came pretty quick and she swallowed it all. She looked at me as he was coming which was fucking hot but she also had that "did he really cum that quick?" look on her face.

There was a bit of downtime where they were lay on the bed, I joined in at this point kissing and licking her body and pussy. He was kissing her face. She defo liked being the centre of attention. She really likes having her tits squeezed hard and so I was kneeling next to her squeezing one really hard and telling S to suck her nipple, which he did but he needed direction. He was also very needy with wanting to know what to do and how to do it. I understand he was prob a bit nervous and wanted to know what he was doing was enjoyable but it was a bit too needy and not a great turn on.

At one point I went back and sat down to watch them. He started fucking her from behind and she called me over so she could suck my cock. This was an amazing view and feeling. Having a different view of MY wifes ass as she got fucked doggy was fantastic as was the BJ she was giving me, BUT I must have had something subconscious going on about it all so couldnt get totally hard.

The second time he ended up cumming over her tits which was again pretty hot.

I didnt cum and she didnt get an orgasm either. We both did Sunday morning though.

When he had finished the second time me and N got dressed and left. The k1ds were at grandparents for the night and we were in the city so we went to a nice bar and carried on ********. This was pretty cool as we never really get to go out so making the most of it gave us time to chat and think about what had just happened. This was when I got more turned on, I kissed her chest in the bar where only 30 mins before another mans cum had been, she enjoyed it very much knowing that I would kiss her anywhere regardless of whats happened.

I think she wants to see S once more on her own just to see if she can really let go with him, but if not then its game over for him. He has lost his hardon more than a couple of times with her, and she doesnt want to be teaching him how to make her cum as its not an invested in relationship, if he cant make her cum on his own, then its adios amigo.

I think its maybe because he was a bit wet/wimpy/needy that I didnt get as turned on as I thought I would (all these hotwife/threesome captions have maybe warped my mind!!!).

In summary, it was hot but not what I imagined. Its not put us off doing anything further, just what and when can be decided in time. N got one of her fantasies fulfilled by getting fucked and sucking cock at the same time so shes happy.

N has become much more open and honest since all this came out, shes started reading sex stories and is always on Tumblr looking at things. She started her own blog and is amazed she has got loads of followers already. She has also just posted this in the last half hour...


Edited...

This makes me understand Ive definitely got a keeper here...