Almost there... Not now, I now have a Hotwife

I agree, most Hotwives are constantly looking for a newer model! Fresh cock keeps them alert.

any more updates?? i'm hooked!!

Yes Hero69, any news? I got the impression from something I spotted on Tumblr that N has had another black guy.
Peter C

Do tell us more!

Ive not gone anywhere guys, just been busy.

Lots been going on so will try to do an update this week.


Yes Peter, she has had another black guy. Thats 2 now. She had fucked 3 guys before she met me, then 1 while we were on a break. Thats 4 plus me. This last few months (since March when she had her first on this journey) she has had 4 more. Its amazing to think that only in January did we start talking about maybe trying this hotwife/cuckold relationship.

I can relate! Mine is on a similar pace and, like you, I can't help but be amazed how quickly they're capable of changing their behavior. Once they decide they're in, the rate of change can be a little unnerving...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

She's to be commended for her enlarged appetite! It can go one of two ways - she becomes an absolute slut, fucking everything with a cock (do you want that?) or she will settle down with a select number of regular studs. Once in a while there'll be a change of personnel. They like to experience some fresh cock now and then.
Are you getting any involvement at all, or is it all second hand info that you get after she comes back home? What about any cream-pies, does she save you any?
Still loving the posts, but want to hear more, details please!

Things have been moving on fairly steadily over the past few weeks. She has been seeing M every 2-3 weeks plus she met a new guy (C) and has seen him once.

M has been a bit of hard work and, after her meeting C, M got a bit weird making out like she was his and his alone, which pissed me off considerably but let it slide after telling N how I felt. C is very clingy, he constantly texts her, and I mean CONSTANTLY, again, to the point where its really getting on my nerves. I mentioned it to her and she has agreed its too much so has backed off from loads of texts.

Anyway, shes been a bit quiet over the last week regarding her 'Hotwife' status and has shown me a post today she has put on Tumblr, Ill copy it into here...

Hot wife wobble
I don't mean the boobs whilst being fucked wobble. I mean the serious lack of interest or inclination with this lifestyle. This may have something to do with the last 2 guys I've met, ones all "I am man" and the other is all "when are you free next". Both amazing in bed but I feel confused and pulled in too many directions. My home life is and always will be my number 1 priority. Anybody got any words of wisdom?

This is from her tumblr page - The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!

Are there any hotwives (or cucks who can relate) who read this that can offer any help as she reads this thread fairly regularly. She tells me to post on here if Im having a wobble so Im doing the same for her.

It's normal. Wives and husbands go in with certain expectations, and it seldom turns out to be exactly what they expected, usually because of the other guys not being what was imagined. When that happens most people tend to step back... reevaluate... maybe even doubt themselves and their decision to have jumped into the lifestyle (my wife and I hit that ice patch).

I would suggest that first she has an honest discussion with both C and with M. She has to let them know that her home life comes first, and make them understand how they fit in. They need to understand that they're fuckbuddies and that your wife sets the rules. M can be "her man" when they're together. But the rest of the time she's your wife, and he's on call. C needs a similar explanation... that she doesn't want a clingy guy, but rather someone who can rise to the occasion for great sex when she reaches out to him. But she should make it clear that she doesn't have time to be bombarded with texts all day, because she has other duties.

Like they say... she has the pussy... she makes the rules. If C and M can't agree to that, then maybe they need to be turned loose.

Edited: One more thought after reading her blog. It's possible that three men might be too much for her to juggle. We can be demanding! Perhaps she might consider paring it down to just two... her husband and one lover. That would probably eliminate much of the confusion she's feeling from pulled in many directions.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

My wife likes just one steady guy for fucking. It takes some time to find the right peg to fit perfectly in the hole but when she finds her peg life will be better for all concerned.

Thanks for your help guys.

Shes feeling a bit better about things again. Your helpful words and some gentle reassurance from me and she seems to have her mojo back.

It comes and goes, much like everything else in life. My wife goes through the same thing. They can't be full-time sluts 24/7, 365. Sometimes they just wanna be plain ole wives for awhile... and the smart guy let's 'em have all the time they need.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I agree with PCcouple and i122... My wife has one long term lover and me to keep her occupied and satisfied(although he does a better job in the satisfaction dept. lol). Any more than that and it would get too complicated with our otherwise busy hectic lives. Only problem we have is he isn't available as often as we would like-lucky to get together once a month lately-he's married and his wife doesn't know. Pluses and minuses with a married man...

Well hello, it's Mrs Hero here. First of all as you know I read this thread and I enjoy reading your suggestions and feedback, I especially appreciate the support you've given Mr Hero. It's not an easy road that's for sure, a lot of ups and downs and uncertainties, but we're certainly a stronger couple because of it.

I am currently having a serious wobble, to the point where I really can't be arsed meeting anyone, making small talk or even looking on fab. PC I liked your comment about not being able to be a slut 24/7. I do think that the Mr expects me to be a constant ball of wet horniness, which is not possible or realistic. I'm quite happy with the guys I'm currently seeing but just going to theirs (or in Ms case going to his mates who goes out so we can use his flat -weird I know!!!) and is getting a little same same. I'd like to know what scenarios your other halves do or use to give their meets something a bit different? Do they dress up for a meet? Wear sexy underwear (not just bra & knickers)? Go out first for a ***** or food? A night out in bars? Do they have **********? Nights away? Outside sex? HELP anymore? Is there a scenario that you've come across that takes it too far? I think that's it for now but I'm sure I'll have some more questions along the way.

The first stars are dr1nk, and second lot is s1eepovers.

Take it slow, and don't be afraid of a hiatus. He wants but you know when enjoyment becomes a chore. Ups and down are normal. Ride them and live life, day to day.

On what I do to enliven, well I am the Dom/Bull. Most, if not all of my relationships have the female being equal of submissive to me, and her SO being sumissive to her and me.

That is MY way, and cretainly does not match everyone, probably doesn't match most of the people here.

Above all, BE YOU. You are not good to anyone else until you are first good for yourself.

Good luck

hero69 Mrs. Hero... first, I've passed along your message. Hopefully you'll get the reach-out you've asked for.

My two cents FWIW: This lifestyle is a process, and we learn a lot about ourselves through trial and error. We go into it with our own expectations... envisioning that ideal hot stud... how he should look... how each encounter will go... we fantasize about incredible mind-blowing sex, etc. But the reality seldom meets expectations. So it's easy for the excitement to wane, and find oneself wondering "is this all there is to it?"

My wife hit that wall more than once. Then she figured out the problem.

She was doing guys who were "okay"... nice guys, decent looking, alright in bed. But there was no real electricity. For her it's all about chemistry. She's learned that if a guy gets stale, that means the chemistry isn't there. Changing up the location, having sex outside, or sl/eepovers, etc, won't increase the intensity... because the guy just isn't the right one for her.

She doesn't change scenarios. She changes men.

She's learned how much difference that makes, because there have been a couple guys who really swept her off her feet. She was panting to be with them anytime, anywhere. LOL. The sex was hot and stayed hot for months, because that chemistry was there. It didn't matter to her whether they did it in bed or on a ferris wheel. She couldn't get enough.

We call it the TF, or Tingle Factor. Her clit gets a certain tingle when the chemistry is there. So if a guy gives her a high TF she's learned to pursue that guy, and not waste time with the "okay guys". It sounds harsh, but this is about sex. Be honest with yourself (don't worry about Mr. Hero's desires LOL). If a guy doesn't have you daydreaming about him several times a day, you might not be seeing the right guy...

One last thought; my wife needs her down time. Her urge comes and goes, and she needs her share of "vanilla wife" time. Taking breaks recharges her desire. After a few weeks she'll come back horny and ready. But without those breaks she finds herself eventually just going through the motions, or doing it just to please me (ack! I hate that!). So I encourage her to take breaks when needed, and to hold out for "Mr Right". Yeah, it takes more patience (especially on my part). But it's all worth it when she finally finds someone with that high TF, who makes her wet just from texting with him...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Hello. Long time reader here. My fiancé has been with 6 guy since we got together. Four have been on going with one dropping off the radar completely.

We operate under the unknowing cuckold. Every guy assumes she cheating. Only one is aware that she has my permission.

Our rules are she must be safe. She decides who and when. I will provide the condoms. They cant know that I know. Which means she comes across as a cheater and a slut. At first she didn't like that, putting her in a bad light. I'm not budging on that issue, she would cheat on me without my permission. She must tell me within 24 hours of any experience. Otherwise it is cheating, she must let me know of any on going text pics or sexting.

To make thing exciting I've picked out her outfit, dropped her off at a date. Waited outside when her lover was over, been at the foot if the bed when her and her lover face timed a sex session, on the same day I proposed to her of all days.

Three guys have all asked to ***** with her after were married next month and she's said yes. One of her lovers will be back here next week, they're planning a get together soon.

She's had it slow over the last six months with only two meets. We take our relationship as priority one as well as family. Then our sex lives. Those guys can only be viewed as fwbs at most.

Btw she's 40 and white and I'm 41 and white.

She also bought several outfits for her lover, she flew back east and spent a week with him. She wouldn't wear them for me till AFTER she got back. I paid for all her condoms and chose her outfit. When he picked her up she blew him in his truck on the to his home and swallowed. She has done that for five of her guys but never for me.

Mr. and Mrs. Hero, any update? we want to hear about you both!

Me too - hate to think this has gone cold!

Hero, thanks so much for sharing. Your lovely wife and you have a great relationship and enjoying this lifestyle.
Thank you for posting and sharing.
My best to your wife and to you
Meijer

Hi Guys, good to see theres still interest in us.

Ive not checked on here for ages and I didnt/havent got the time to post about everything thats going on.

Just a quick note now to say I will give an update soon.

As of right now N isnt playing away, we have had some life things get in the way as most of you will appreciate, as PC put it...

Update soon folks, and thanks again for your support.

Glad to hear it, thanks for thinking of us.

xoxoxo

Christine

Bump like to read more please.

amazingly sexy series of posts...we are just a little bit behind you in experience..what are your Tumblr blogs?

Hello gang.

I know its been months since I've posted on here, sorry. That doesnt mean we havent been carrying on.

She has been seeing the same black guy for about a year, name of M, mentioned above. Seen him once a month to 6 weeks but its been the same old same old. Using his mates flat for a quick hour. She loves the stretch and length of his 10" cock but its gone a bit stale for her.

She put feelers out again and found about 4 or 5 prospective new fucks.

The opportunity arose tonight of a club meet with one shes been messaging for a while now.

She left at 9pm and is still there now (1.15am). I dont know the details yet but heres a few texts she sent me an hour ago:

N: Holy fuck balls. I squirted WTF!!!! xx
What time you want me home? xx
2 guys at once not in same hole though. xx

P: come home when ready baby x
squirt. tell me more x

N: Apparently there's a round 2. xx

P: ass and pussy or mouth and pussy? x
you want more?? xx
i knew you could squirt x

N: Pussy and mouth. I didn't know if squirted I thought I'd done a bit but sat up at it was sprayed every where. xx

P: instant hard on x

N: You hard? xx

P: butterflys xx

N: You gotta come and watch or join in. xx

P: whos cock made you squirt? x

N: Going upstairs again now. Text in a bit xx

I'm going crazy now, this is the longest shes been out. Shes never cum on another cock other than mine, I think that run might be over tonight though, sounds like shes let go and found a fun group.

Will update soon, unless any of you have any questions...

Cheers

Mine is PWS165
Hers is NCS165

Mine is full of what been going through my mind tonight...

it would be really hot if you could get pics of her when she gets home undressing for you. Love your blog and story!!

I was very pleased to see an update here and it's great that N is still enjoying so much extra cock. I enjoy your Tumblr blogs too!
Peter C