Wife cheat but doesn't tell

what do you do if your wife cheats on you all the times, is blatantly explicit about it but never tell you anything about what she does, where she goes. She only told me who she is with and when she will not come home because she will spend the night with him.

I started this like most here, but I want to be part of it, not only left at home alone

Any advise?

It's sad that she is excluding you from the fun. Try to explain to her that for it to work the both of you need to get something out of it. Tell her to at least send you sextext pic's of her fucking others and to at least come home with her panties wet with his cum draining out of her for you to play in.

she is doing it safe so the wet panties is a sure no.

I've asked her to send me text or even better pics, but she said that when she is out she does not want to get distracted and her lover would not like for her to send any picture.

this is our first time so I'm trying not to ruin it, I've asked her to tell me more, but she is not comfortable yet and tells me very little if anything at all

maybe with time. Do other hotwives behave like mine? How did you overcome this phase?

I think this is more than cuckolding
Droopy and Miss

i122 is correct - you should be getting something out of this as well. otherwise, it's not a true partnership between both of you. she's neither a cuckoldress or hotwife, just a serial cheater.

I agree with everyone here.

I already told here that I need more but she hasn't shared any details, just that they did it multiple times and she had him cum in her mouth at least twice.
She both says he is shy and a vanilla guy who is not comfortable with the situation, and it seems that when she is with him she wants to let things flow naturally.

How should I approach this? any idea from someone who has been there before?

she's just using him as an excuse. i could understand her point about the photos when they're together, but withholding details afterward and not confiding in you is strictly on her. this points to a serious communication issue, and that's never a good sign in a marriage/partnership.

as someone who has been on both ends of the spectrum (bull & husband to a hotwife), i'd give her an ultimatum. otherwise, she'll continue to slowly drift toward him alone, and eventually you'll find yourself holding the bag. you'll not only have been played, you'll have gotten zilch out of the entire experience.

just my $0.02.

This sound more like she's having her fun but couldn't care less about you. If you cannot change things you are probably heading for lots of disappointments, heartbreaks and quite possibly a split apart between you and her. Good luck, but you need to get busy and you need to see results soon or you may have to do it as they do in NYC and just 'forget about it!!'.

I totally agree with Mister E. You need to have a serious conversation with her. I understand why the bull might be picture shy especially if he is married and cheating too. However you must make her understand that you would enjoy the Houwife/cuckold relationship but will not tolerate being disrespected by her selfish cheating. I also know some wives are embarrassed to talk about their sexual activities. So if that is the case and until she gets a regular who has been medically tested and confirmed safe&clean tell her this is what she shall do:

When she goes out on a date she shall text you with her location ie we are at a restaurant, we going to his house, we are going to fuck I'll be off line for ___ hours, I just left him, etc. tell her it is also for her safety as well as keeping you in the game. Now here is the good but kinky part. Because she is smartly playing safe and they are using condoms, each time he cums in a condom she is to remove it from his dick, squeeze the air out of it and tie a knot in the open end trapping all the cum in the tip. Right before she comes home he shall invert the condom(s) in the hole he was fucking when he got a nut leaving just the knotted end sticking out of her. If he fucked her pussy then there should be a cum filled condom sticking out her pussy, if he fucked her ass there should be a cum filled condom sticking out her ass etc. when she gets home she should make you service her orally and remove the condoms from her with your teeth. What you two decide to do with the cum in the condoms is your choice.

Try this and let us know how it worked out for you. If she doesn't agree the tell her to get her cheating ass out of your house!

Ask her to record the sounds of their lovemaking on her phone.

That way the Bull is anonymous but you can at least hear the sounds of your wife cumming on his bigger and better cock.

I think she should carry in fucking him, and his friends, even his other whores to entertain him and his friends, and tell you vey little! This will show you your place!

This would be my dream and torcher is my wife did it to me!

thanks everyone for the support and suggestions.

We have talked again about it and she was surprisingly more open to sharing, she told me how the first kissed and the first time they fucked. They were both romantic and very plain.
She then continued to tell me how it evolved in more rough sex, with him grabbing her head and making her deepthroat him, cumming in her mouth and just manhandling her as he is much stronger and taller than myself.

Last night she did an awesome phonesex session with him as I was on my knees licking her until I/him made her cum. I could hear only what she was saying and at the end she promised him the best sex he's ever had the next time they meet.

I was very excited through the session, but I also had a couple of times when I was feeling deeply hurt inside when she was telling him things she never tells or does with me.

When they hung up she had me licking her for another 30 minutes and had me beg her to make me cum, she then laid me on my back and jerked my cock until I came. She told me she was thinking to ruin it but then changed her mind since I've been so good.
I shot all the way to my neck and then she scooped it all up with her fingers and fed the cum to me all the time looking at me with a very stern look

In the post session time when we went back to cuddling each other she told me she saw I had a very sad face a few times during her phone call but decided to not care because that's what I asked and that's what I'll get, and more of it going forward

I love my wife

That's great Jasper and as good as it was while you were licking her pussy as she talked to her stud wait until it's turn about. I'm sure you will blow a nut without being touched the day she calls you while he is having sex with her.

Jasper, you lucky SOB. Hang In there

I think this is a more realistic outcome more often than not -- mine too apparently likes to play but rarely gives the details - and if she does, she gets mad when I get turned on rather than jealous.

Generally the best I can get out of her a couple times a year is a little bit of light teasing - she'll ask me with a cute smirk what it feels like to be a cuckold or something like that, but I never get any details. She says she doesn't like to feel like she's on display or performing for me.

You might consider as I have, just taking the status quo. Most wives reject the idea of cuckolding out of hand; you've actually got what you want. You ARE a cuckold and no one can take that away from you. Enjoy it, make it your own in your own mind and let her have her fun.
~sissy~

Each couple is unique, but it's imperative that you both get what you need from the relationship to be happy, and each should strive to satisfy the other. For some couples, the wife fucks around and tells him nothing, which hubby prefers. That doesn't make her any less of a Cuckoldress. Other wives (like mine) are very interactive and eagerly share every detail (repeatedly ), and she will even let me watch at times, or sometimes shoot vids and pics if I'm not around. I need that feedback, and she willingly provides it.

A husband and wife need to be on the same page regardless of what level they choose. For one spouse to deliberately ignore the needs of the other is just selfish, whether it's sex or anything else.

It sounds like you and your wife are getting on the same page, which is great. But is she hadn't, my advice would simply have been to remind her that you're giving her tremendous freedom to enjoy sex with someone else. In return, it's not too much to ask that you get the details, etc., that you need to get some pleasure from her escapades. If she had not been willing to do that for you, I wouldn't hesitate to withdraw your consent for her to see the other guy.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I'm glad it's working out for you. Thanks for sharing.