She's roaring back in 2014 (& 15) taking things to a much higher level

The SLS account is a "couple" account, not a single female account. So it doesn't really work for the Hotwife angle. Thus the need for an AFF account.

She did tell me last night that she's trying to rustle up someone to meet for a cocktail this weekend. I sent her one decent ad from Craigslist (ugh, the quality of Craigs has plummeted lately!).

Maybe she'll respond to that ad. Or maybe she'll just head out to a local bar. I really don't know. One disadvantage of this evolution is that I'm in the dark about everything. In the past I coordinated meeting new friends. Under our "new deal" she's totally on her own. I'm clueless whether or not she's talking, emailing or texting someone ... and what might be in the works. It sounds titillating guys, but it can be damn frustrating too...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

She met someone tonight. She got dressed up and left home late this afternoon. I texted her after a couple of hours and asked if we would be doing anything tonight, or if she would be "busy". She texted me back and said "My date has ended. I will tell you about it later and will be home soon unless I find something better. Be ready in case I want to go somewhere".

I decided to go along and play my role. I texted "Yes ma'am". LOL. She said "That's what I want to hear".

It was still early enough to go out for cocktails and dinner when she got here, and we did. She was already pretty tipsy when she walked in. We got home from dinner a little before 11:00 and she passed out immediately. Ten minutes later she got a text on her phone from a number I do not recognize.

Her policy used to be that she preferred to meet someone for a cocktail first. Then, if the chemistry is there, she meets again to play. Dinner was busy and we never had time to talk about her date, so I don't know what she thought about him. I should find out tomorrow. But the fact that she gave him her phone number is a pretty good indication that she liked him. Saturday night could be interesting!
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

That's GREAT!! I hope she has a hot encounter to share with you later.
Cuck who loves a creampie.

UGH! Life and kids are getting in the way. Still haven't had a chance to ask her about last night, and now she's taking a nap. On the chance that she might move forward tonight with whoever she met last night, I just sent her a few caps to set the mood. She seems to like the caps, and will respond with a comment to some of them.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

And these...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Well damn! I finally got the recap of last night's meeting with this guy. Turns out he was a complete liar. In his ad he stated that he was single. When she met him he was very nervous, so she kept digging and he eventually told her he was married. She HATES liars!. He wanted her to meet him at his house during the day, when his wife was at work and his kids were at school. On top of that, physically he was sort of prissy, and she prefers masculine, dominant guys. So she wasn't attracted.

It also turns out that she had given him her phone number before they ever met, so they could text the exact time and place to meet. He has been texting her since yesterday, trying to persuade her to meet him again. But it's not going to happen. She's not interested.

Oh well... unlike all the stories you read of Hotwives fucking a dozen guys every week, the reality is that the path to being a real life Cuck is definitely not straight or easy! <sigh.......>
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

It's good that she's picky with her lovers.
Guys are a dime a dozen......
Cuck who loves a creampie.

Both the quality and the message contained in the caps you're sending her are absolutely outstanding, they must produce results, surely?
As for her being picky, that's a good thing, surely. She's not just fucking any old cock for the sake of the sex, she's ultra choosy, looks for the right guy, both physically and mentally, to satisfy her. The fact that you don't get to hear all about it until it suits her to tell you (if at all) only adds to the frisson of excitement you're experiencing. And yes, there's a lot of fucking idiots out there who will stop at nothing to get into some wife's panties, if she's wearing any of course!

She seldom wears panties. It's not a sexual thing... she says going commando is more comfortable. Ironically she chose to wear panties more often when she was seeing someone. It was usually a matching black bra/panties combo, allowing her to transition thru that phase when she was undressing. She's a tall, pretty, very busty (38DD) blond. When she's stripped down to nice lace panties and bra she's quite the vision, and she knows it...

As far as her being selective, that's probably the one area where she and I had the most disagreements in the past. Like most hubbies I was impatient for her to find someone and get naked with them. On the other hand she has her pick of guys, so the bar is set pretty high. We've argued about it before. I felt like she should just look for a good fuck. He doesn't need to be husband material. However, she refuses to lower her standards. For her, attraction is necessary on several levels, or she won't go to bed with them. True... guys are a dime a dozen, and some are still overpriced at that!

This time there will be no arguments from me, though. I've agreed to relinquish control. She's in charge. If she doesn't find someone worthy of her pussy, then I'm prepared to accept that and remain patient. She'll find someone... or two, as she says... and I can wait.

My caps are created based on where we are in this process. They tend to reflect things she and I discussed most recently, and are meant to be positive reinforcement of sorts. They're fun, and she likes them. She told me that she liked Cap #2 above, and was hoping to send me a text and pic similar to that one after she met that guy last Friday night. Too bad he turned out to be a schmuck! Ugh...

She's actually come up with a couple of interesting twists herself too. I didn't suggest these, she did, which I found very encouraging.

1) Cap #2 is based partly on something she had said last week... that if she finds the right guy (trustworthy) she may give him my cell # and let him send me a text with a POV shot of her as he fucks her from behind. She liked the idea of me getting a text from a strange cell phone while I'm home alone (I'm pretty okay with it, too. LOL)

2) She said if she finds someone she trusts to go au natural, then things might reach a point where she could want me to wear a condom whenever I screw her, and only he will be allowed to go bareback. We were screwing when she brought that up, and she bucked pretty vigorously and had a great orgasm.

I think I'll create some caps along those lines, for more positive reinforcement.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

She's a little under the weather today, but after she feels better in the next day or so I will send her these four caps...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Things may be about to perk up. She told me tonight that she's meeting someone new tomorrow evening (Saturday) for cocktails at a bar/restaurant a few miles up the road. She did find out that his place is about 8 miles from the restaurant. I'm sure she wanted to know just in case they get along and things go well. Crossing my fingers for a fun Saturday night!
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I like it that she's brought up the possibility of making you be the one wearing the rubber when you fuck her, while her lovers are allowed unimpeded access to her greedy little cunt, she's ratcheting it up a notch, fucking Hot!

Your physical description of her is exciting, she's one ultra sexy Milf, no wonder she can pick and choose.

Hope Saturday goes really well for both of you, let me know.

kennyboy82 Yeah... I don't know where she got that from, either. I've seen caps to that effect here on CP. But she's not much of one for surfing adult sites, especially Cuck-type sites. So I have no idea where she may have come up with the idea of having me wear a condom if she finds that "boyfriend". It was an intriguing thought... and I'm encouraged to see her coming up with such creative thoughts.

She has mentioned similar ideas along the way, like me not being able to watch if "he" doesn't want that... or limiting my having sex with her if "he" wants her exclusively, etc. So she seems to be having thoughts about shifting control from me to "him", once she finds him. Hey, bring it on! I'll give it a try.

Right now I'm focused on tonight. She's taking a nap as I type this. The guy she's meeting is 13 years younger, and she said she needs her beauty s/leep. I'm leaving her alone. I want her well rested when she leaves.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Last night was a bust. He canceled on her at the last minute because he wanted to catch a football game, which was totally rude and immature. Like I've always said, most single men are still single for good reasons...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Jesus! The guy has no fucking idea has he! She's worth a lot more than a time waster like that, it's easy to understand why she's so 'picky' faced with situations like that.
I'm still liking the gradual shift of power that's going on within your marriage, she's definitely taking control. Aren't strong minded women fucking sexy!

Typical AFF ... At least he told her in advance ... We've had a few that never showed up .. And that's after texting and saying they're on their way. Once I think the guy was actually in the bar but chickened out - I seriously doubt he didn't think my wife was attractive - since she's extremely hot with a great body. The way she looks at it is you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince. It's not impossible though to meet someone nice on AFF ... We've met at least four or five great guys - a few she had pretty long affairs with ... One is now a good friend that she makes love to occasionally - she calls him her second husband - they met over three years ago.
She definitely is picky though - needs to have the attraction - chemistry and he needs to be available. Course if the guys extremely hot - she may just do him for the fun of it ... She's met a few of those on AFF as well.

Yep, some single guys can be real dicks!

This one time we hooked up with a guy from SLS, meet him at the local pub and planed on coming back to our house to play. Half way home, the jerk changed his mind and turned off with out ever giving an apology, message or call.
Cuck who loves a creampie.

There's a lot of so-called 'studs' or 'bulls' that when push comes to shove totally lack the balls to actually go through with it. Trouble is, they fuck things up for the genuine guys out there, we do exist!

It's good to know that we're not the only ones who've had to deal with single guys who act that way. Since this is our second go round, we've seen some of this crap before. The real wrinkle was that after canceling their 8:00 meet he started texting her about 9:30 later that night. He said the game was over and he was ready to meet her, expecting my wife to drop what she was doing and go see him. She didn't even bother to respond.

I was a little concerned this might throw some cold water on things, but she blew it off and has already started talking to another guy. Like she said, there are plenty to choose from. It's all good.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Good response on her part, on both counts. The girl know's what she wants and doesn't take any prisoners!

Glad to hear you're not giving up - there's some great guys out there and it's definitely worth weeding out the fakes and jerks.

She's meeting one guy Wednesday, and another Friday. I married a trooper...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Keep me posted! So much potential.

The guy from the other night sure does have some nerve, thinking she would drop everything and run to him.
Hope she keeps him on the outs, maybe it will help bring him back into touch.

On another note....... like the others said, glad she's back on the game and ready for more cock.
Cuck who loves a creampie.

cuckold4one He's already history. She's dealt with single guys before, and she will write them off in a heartbeat if they disrespect her. She's meeting Prospect #2 tomorrow evening for a cocktail and #3 on Friday. Hopefully one of them won't be a total dumbass... LOL

For those following this thread, this is what it's REALLY like to try and live the Cuck/Hotwife lifestyle. Getting three people together who are all looking for the same thing is a challenge. After many years my wife has come around and is eagerly willing to take a lover, or two, and even be open to other men as opportunities come along in the coming months. She's hunting hard online, and she's been going out alone.

But finding that third male who "gets it"... and is local and somewhat available regularly... and shows up... and is reasonably attractive... confident and at least slightly dominant... and who is decently hung with no performance issues... well, finding that guy is tougher than you think.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

This is exactly why I'm following this thread, it shows the lifestyle in its truest form. It's not all fucking endless sluts every night, there's a lot of selective work going on behind the scenes in order to achieve your aims. I've enjoyed, or perhaps endured, exactly what you're going through, but I've enjoyed the Bull's side of things too, still am, but even that's hard work sometimes, finding the right couple that don't get 'cold feet' at the last minute, or are total time-wasters. Please keep posting.

I'll keep updating. It will give me something to do while she's out alone. LOL

Much of the Cuck content on the web would lead you to believe that getting your wife to fuck other men is simple... but it's not. My wife is actually very open minded. She's bi, we've done some swinging, and even been to Hedo. But it's still taken YEARS to get her to this level. After our fair share of fussing and arguing, she's finally (and somewhat surprisingly) come around to my way of thinking. It's her suggestion now, and she's doing all of the footwork to find a guy or two.

It CAN happen but it's not quick, easy or painless. You have to be patient, respectful, communicate constantly and keep nudging her forward one baby step at a time.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I sent her some caps this morning, to set the mood for her "First date" tonight...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I love it. I sent her the caps and thanked her for not giving up after that first guy dissed her. She just wrote me back:

"Oh I'm not giving up ;) unless you mean my pussy, which I am going to give up... a lot. Love you!"

cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Don't lose this woman, she's special for sure.

The caps you sent her definitely had the exact message you wanted to convey. I'm convinced they will work, just as long as the new stud(s) fits the bill.