She's roaring back in 2014 (& 15) taking things to a much higher level

PC, I can't believe your wife has so much trouble finding a decent looking guy to make sensible conversation with, and then to fuck, even if it is on the second date! The way you're described her she's one good looking mature girl, curves in all the right places, and once her button's pressed, she's insatiable!
Wish I lived a whole lot nearer to you, could be I could ring her bell - I'd have a damn good try!

Kenny, she doesn't have trouble finding guys... she has trouble finding guys that meet her standards. As you know, our path evolved to where it is over a number of years. In the early stages I tended to push too much and that caused some friction. So I've learned to put up with her picky nature (even though she IS much too picky IMO). I have to be more patient between guys... but she appreciates it, and I get a Hotwife with a better attitude if I just let her do things her way.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

There's a lesson for us all there - don't push too hard, let it happen at her pace, and the rewards will come, and the rewards are worth it! Hang in there PC, you'll just have to keep nursing that hard-on you've developed!

The wife has a date lined up tomorrow night. It's a guy she met for dri/nks back in the spring of this year. She liked him okay, but he fessed up that he was married and about to get divorced. She told him that she doesn't see married guys and that he should call her if he does get divorced. Well, he called back and said he and his wife are splitting up.

Now... it could be complete BS, which my wife has acknowledged. But she's willing to meet him again and get the whole story. They'll be meeting at a local bar and (here's the cool part) she said if his story makes sense then she wants him to follow her to our place. On the way back home she's going to call me and let me know. She wants me to leave the house and go to that same bar, have a few beers alone and wait while they fuck. Then she's going to text me when they're done and let me know it's okay to come back to the house. I thought that sounded pretty cool.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Looks like it's on... she's making the bed, vacuuming and getting the bedroom ready for tonight. They're meeting at 7:00.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Hope everything clicked and you were sent away for a few hours as they enjoyed each other.
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cuckold4one Well..... it did happen, but it wasn't very good.

She went to meet him for drin/nks at 7:30. As soon as she left I got ready, and about 8:30 she sent me a text, "Hey. Clear out". I was out of the house in two minutes! LOL

I drove to the bar, found a stool with a view of a big screen TV and settled in to watch a playoff game, having no idea how long I would be waiting alone. I chatted with a few folks on and off, but it was hard to concentrate knowing that my wife could be in my bed at that very moment, with her feet pointing at the ceiling!

I milked my way through three beers and was on my 4th when she texted me, less than an hour after I got there. "Where are you?".

I replied that I was sitting at the bar. She texted back that "Stay there. His dick was a disappointment. I need a dri/nk."

You know... one thing about being a cuck is that we TRULY want our wives to have great experiences. It's important to us that she gets that sexual fulfillment she wants. So, as soon as I got that text, I instantly felt bad for her. She spent two hours getting ready for this guy, and she was looking hot as hell, dressed in a low-cut blouse, short black skirt and knee high black boots. The hair, makeup, everything was done to the max. She had high expectations for this guy.

The bar was hopping, so when she arrived we were able to lean in and talk. She said things went well talking and dri/nking, so he followed her back to our place. When they got there they did the obligatory walk through tour, ending in the master bedroom. She said he was doing everything but humping her leg by that point, so she sat down on the bed and undid the last few buttons on her blouse. He leaned in immediately and they started making out.

After the usual kissing, groping and pawing it was time to shed their clothes. When he dropped his pants and underwear she realized something was amiss. They had already swapped the typical pics, including several pics of his "package". She even showed me his pics on her cell phone while we were sitting at the bar. The guy looked well hung. Several pics were of a woman sucking what was at least a nice, 8" dick.

But she said what he was packing was NOTHING like the pics he sent her. He had big balls, but he was no more than 6", decently thick at the base but tapering down to pointy, thin tip. Not only was the size very different, the shape of his dick was totally different from the pics he sent. So she felt deceived by the whole thing.

I hate liars more than anything. So if I had been present I would have put an end to things then and there. However, she's a sweet, southern gal, and she felt obligated to go through with it because she invited him over. So she let him fuck her. He lasted about ten minutes, and spent the whole time telling her how gorgeous she was, and wallowing in her big tits, before pulling out and shooting on her stomach. She never had an orgasm. When it was over she told him that she didn't want to keep me waiting at the bar too long, and they got dressed and he left.

I felt horrible. She puts a lot of effort into these encounters. It pisses me off when the guy turns out to be a liar or a jerk, or whatever.

But we turned it into fun time anyway, and spent the rest of the evening downing beers and coming up with corny, hilarious excuses for her to use when he wants to get together again. Then we went back home and I gave her four orgasms as a consolation prize, before snuggling up and letting her fall asleep in my arms.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

We've had that happen to us before and stopped the action right then and there.
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cuckold4one Yep... she's enjoying this phase we're in, where she meets guys 1-on-1 without me. But that also means she's going to have to handle situations on her own. This guy got away with pulling a sneaky trick. Now that she's had time to reflect on things I believe she'll be better prepared to deal with it, should that ever happen again.

It's a live-and-learn journey, which is why I keep this thread going... just posting the lessons we learn along the way...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Friday night I asked my wife if we could do something "fun" tonight (our code phrase for adult stuff). She was up for it, but I couldn't arrange anything for tonight with everyone doing holiday stuff.

So she got dolled up and went out to a local bar tonight on her own. That was a couple hours ago. It's definitely hit or miss on nights like this, and I don't have my hopes up. Her meeting a suitable guy at a bar is a long-shot. But it's still exciting to have her walk out the door looking like a million bucks, knowing that she's receptive to something fun if it comes along.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

It's always exciting when ones wife is on the hunt for some new cock. I hope she found some hot stud to bring home.
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Life is fraught with many disappointments, but we keep trying to find that elusive guy to fuck our wives the way they deserve. There's an awful lot of pretenders out there, I can understand your (joint) disappointment. I just hope for both your sakes she finds 'that' guy soon, and he really fills her needs, sexually. I know you do PC on an emotional level.

Thanks guys. She and I definitely fulfill each others needs intellectually, and if we chose to we could revert to a monogamous relationship and be fulfilled, too. I can screw her to three... four... sometimes five orgasms.

However, as you guys know, the cuck-Hotwife lifestyle is SOOOO much more intense and addictive, and we prefer it. As part of that decision I deliberately cut back on the frequency of intercourse with her. When we do fuck I make sure it's relatively brief and try not to make her cum. I want her left unsatisfied. This helps keep her motivated to seek someone who will fuck her rough and hard, the way she prefers.

In fact she and I have actually talked specifically about that very thing. Even though she does get frustrated at times, she also understands the logic behind my strategy. When we fuck I focus more on talking about her and others. I'll ask who she's talking to online... throw out sexual ideas for her to do with them, etc. I'll also ask her if she wished I was another guy inside her at that moment. Meanwhile I'm grinding slowly, refraining from plunging in too deeply (one good thrust can sometimes push her over the edge to orgasm).

On more than one occasion she's said things like "Don't make me cum. I want to wait for someone else"... and she's even told me to "Hurry up and cum. I'm getting close". So she understands why I do what I do, and she's into the strategy just as much as I am, even if it does leave her a bit grumpy when I withdraw.

Unfortunately there was 'No joy' last night though. She got home about 12:30 and said there weren't too many folks out, which is kinda normal for a pre-holiday weekend I think. Oh well. She tried. That's all I can ask. As a consolation prize I slid under the covers, planted my mouth on her pussy and got her off in just a couple of minutes. A good Hotwife needs to be rewarded for her efforts, even if she's not successful!
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

You're doing the right thing PC. To the point of self sacrifice almost. Constantly 'edging' her without making her cum is the best way to ensure she's Hot and eager to seek extra marital cock, even if it means going that extra mile to find it. I like your selfless attitude when you eat her to an orgasm without allowing yourself to cum - good man!

I guess she's in that place where you have to kiss an awful lot of frogs before you find your Prince! When she does find him let's hope he's a keeper, a regular fuck buddy. She'll be ecstatic, and she'll glow with sexual satisfaction.

kennyboy82 That's the plan. We had a good talk in bed the other night about her selection process. Women instinctively look at men based on their "mate potential", and I've been trying to get her to understand that she should use a different standard. She already has a mate, so she just needs to choose men strictly as sexual partners. That's been part of the hangup. When she sizes up a guy she considers attraction, demeanor, chemistry... the whole package. But all she really needs is a man with a good package and the ability to use it well!
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

My 2 cents SheDatesHeWaits - men and women have different psyches. And besides the nature part, all their lives the nurture has been a part of their upbringing. I think you are only adding to your frustration, and I am not talking about the good type of frustration, by trying to get her to think "like a man." IMHO, no matter how much she looks at the bulge in the jeans, there will always be a part, a significant part, that will consist of attraction, demeanor, and chemistry. It is a part of enjoying them in bed as well. No matter if the cock is just right unless her mind is saying yes to the person, she will not enjoy it.

The mind, after all, is the number one erogenous zones.

FantMstr Well, the problem is that she's been doing that, and it hasn't worked well. She sets the bar so high that very few men meet her standards. She definitely acknowledges that women are programmed by society, religion, etc. that monogamy is the only way for a woman to be happy, and so they're trained to judge men as potential husbands.

I sent her an interesting study on female sexuality. One of the conclusions was that a women sizes up a man within the first 10-15 seconds as to whether or not he is sexually compatible. Then she spends the next 90 seconds sizing up his "mate potential". For most women a man must pass both tests in order for her to sl/eep with him.

I'm trying to get my wife to consider going with that first 15 second gut reaction, and fight the instinct to assess guys as mate material, because that's irrelevant. She already has a mate. She just needs someone that's good in bed. Will it make a difference? I have no idea. But she's the first one to admit that she needs to change something in her approach, so I'll see if she makes any adjustments.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I agree with your assessment both of the need to change the way she is assessing and also your need to modify it.
I only wanted to point out that it may not be completely possible. I only wanted to stress that any plan can up with or together needs to take into account that programing. Having her part of the planning process to change her assessment method might not be a bad idea.

Good luck.

Time for a bump on this thread and see if there's been any new action with your wife and lovers.
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SheDatesHeWaits,

It's been several months since you posted any new reports about your wife and her lovers. Have things slowed down?
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Yep, they have. The wife has been out of sorts since late last year when we became empty nesters. I was looking forward to nekkid-everything once our teen moved away to college. It hasn't worked out that way. Instead it's stressed out Momma...

I've been patient and understanding so far, but my frustration factor has been building. It may be time for a kick in the butt...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

SheDatesHeWaits,

I can relate to where you're coming from. My wife has had a big slow down since her mid-life woman issues kicked in. All us guys can do is hang in there and wait things out.
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