It may finally happen

I have been a lurker here from time to time, but have never posted anything. I have fantasized about my women being with other guys for as long as I can remember. I have also fantasized about it being a cuckold arrangement where they were free to enjoy the men of their choice, but I was expected to be faithful. I had pretty much given up on this ever happening, but that may all be about to change.

A little background is in order. My wife Lynn and I are in our late fifties. We both still look pretty good for our age, especially Lynn, though we could stand to lose some weight, especially me. We have been married for about 9 years. This is my second marriage and Lynn's third. My kids have left the house and Lynn's youngest still lives here but, since he is in college, he is rarely around. Our sex life while we were dating and for the first few years of the marriage was great. We have since hit a couple of snags. Lynn went through menopause and for a couple of years her libido was almost non-existent. As her body adjusted to that change, her sex drive returned. Unfortunately, I am now dealing with erectile dysfunction. We are affectionate with each other and get along otherwise, but there has not been much bed-shaking excitement in the bedroom.

Over the years I have told Lynn from time to time about my cuckold fantasy, though I have never used that term. I just told her how arousing I would find it if she had lovers while I stayed faithful to her. The first few times I mentioned it, she was repelled. After a while she was OK with it as a fantasy, but always insisted that it would never happen. I had come to accept that the best I could hope for was some dirty role play talk in the bedroom on occasion.

Things started to change a few months ago. We started hanging out with a group of friends which included some singles. A couple of the single guys lightly flirted with Lynn and I could tell she enjoyed it. Her attitudes changed. She was much more confident. She was much more playful in bed which was great. A couple of months ago she surprised me. She told me that she knew our sex life wasn't the greatest and she would be OK with me having a discreet affair. I was stunned. I wanted to tell her "No, I want you to have affairs while I am faithful!" but I kept that thought to myself. I figured that it was a step in the right direction that she was opening up to the idea of other people in our relationship.

Tonight, I was in for another surprise. She was telling me about the lunch she had with one of the new single guy friends. She told me that he 'confessed' that he was attracted to her even though she was married. Lynn went on to ask me if I really did want her to have other lovers! I assured her that I did. We talked some about how this would work. I told her she could have other men as long as she did not do it behind my back. I know her well enough to know that she will want her privacy, so I told her that all I expect her to tell me is that she is having an affair. Anything beyond that is up to her if she wants to share. She was not sure if she should believe me until I put her hand on my ranging hard cock and told her that it was aroused by the idea of her having a lover. We talked some more and she mentioned that there were a couple of guys that she had in mind. I was really shocked that she was that far down the path of making my fantasy a reality.

After that conversation, I have been having a swarm of conflicting emotions: fear, excitement, jealousy and arousal. I am finding myself feeling more attracted to Lynn than I have been in years. I am hoping that this fantasy will rekindle the sexual energy in our relationship, but I have some fears that I am making a huge mistake.

Comments?

You sound a lot like a majority of us. I can assure you that some of the best sex the wife and I have ever had as "mature" adults was when she had a regular lover on the side. She would tell me that she never had an orgasm with him but he was good foreplay for her main attraction waiting for her at home, which was me. As soon as they broke it off her sex drive went to hell again.

hotmetalman:

It sounds like you'll soon earn your horns.

I hope all goes well and she gets the best fucking of her life from a young stud. With any luck, she'll bring you a nice fresh creampie to savor.
Cuck who loves a creampie.

Anticipation, for you and your wife will be a big turn-on in your own sex life. Your wife will want the first time with another guy to be perfect so she needs to be assured that there will be no interference from you when she takes that first step. For the first time when she is getting bedded with someone else, you WILL feel jealousy (is he better than me, etc.) and wonder if you both have made the right decision. However, for your part, your hard arousal will temporarily put that jealousy aside. It may arise again if your wife continues to bed the same guy over and over and you discover that your sex life with her has declined. I would suggest that it would be very mutually beneficial for you and her if she were to take on different partners so that only sex is presented, and not growing caring emotions for a a lover take over. In time, with a variety of different partners, I'm sure she will want you to be in the same room to watch, and perhaps even take part in a threesome.

Good luck to you both, and keep us posted on her progress.

wippersnapper
You are so right about her probably wanting to have her lover in private at least for the first few times. As for having multiple partners kinda like a catch & release program, some women like the familiarity of having only one or two trusted regulars. It is true that they have to work hard at main tending a FWB relationship. The downfall of my wife's last Fuck buddy was he started getting to possessive. The up side to having a trusted long time fuck buddy is the ability to fuck bare. It such a turn-on to peel her cum soaked panties off her red swollen distended cum drenched pussy. Oh by the way yes it would always be fresh because he lived just down the road. Otherwise condoms are recommended but it's still fun receiving sextext pic 's of their affair.

Thanks for all the comments. At this end, life has gotten in the way of Lynn and her friend from being able to spend quality time together. Not sure when their schedules will sync up. This has probably been a good thing for us since it has given us time to have lots of pillow talk about this situation. Both sharing of steamy fantasies that has led to some of the best sex in years and more thoughtful dicussions of our feelings. Most of the time I am excited for her not get laid. They had a window of a couple hours where they could have gotten together and I was disappointed that they didn't grab it. The comment that Lynn will want there first time to be special made sense. Being more objective, of course she wouldn't want her first time to be rushed.

There are times, though, when I am filled with jealousy and just plain sadness. You Head feelings aren't he exception and pass fairly quickly.

I will keep you informed, but it looks like the waiting game for right now.

Sorry for the typos - writing on phone.

To be clear, I am excited for her to get laid.

To speed things up you could possibly do a little roll playing the next couple times you have sex. In fact we did this and it seemed to help the wife relax a little bit and may also help your wife too.

As we fucked I would tell her how hot it would be if she were fucking someone else. I would have her repeat back to me that she wished someone else other than her husband was fucking her. We would go into third person so to speak, like I would say things like, " does his dick feel good in you, do you want him to fuck you harder, after he cums in your pretty little married pussy do you want me to lick it out?" I would grab one of her dildos and 69 her while fucking her with the dildo telling her it was some other guy fucking her while she sucked my dick. We kept this roll play pillow talk up for quite some time until she was really getting into it. I knew she was ready one night when we were fucking and she was riding me Cowboy mode. After I shot an especially large wad up in her she slowly slid up my chest and planted her wet cum filled pussy on my face and told me to eat his cum out of her.

Shortly after that she started going to our female off springs house to bbabysit quite regular. I also noticed that she always jumped in the shower as soon as she got home. I also noticed that each time she came home late I would find a folded piece of tissue in the trash can that had her pussy imprint and a lot of creamy vagina discharge in the gusset. Funny thing was that she normally wanted to fuck after she got out of the shower but for some reason she always felt so loose and wet. We wonder why?

hotmetalman
So it's the weekend do you think they will have an opportunity to hook up? Tell her that you and a couple buddies are going to the local sports bar to watch the games, give her some spending money (cost of a local hotel room) and tell her to call one of her friends and do lunch with them. Then give her a wink, pat on her pussy and as you leave tell her to have fun and to not expect to see you back for at least 6 hours.