What hurts most for cuckolds to watch? It's kissing for me!

I was simply curious to find out how other cucks feel watching their wives kissing? Watching my girlfriend fucking is exciting. Watching her giving a sexy blow job is a little more emotionally painful. But watching her kissing and stroking his body with her desire plain to see, that's the killer for me. Nothing males my cock harder in its cage than seeing this intimacy. I love it.
Please let me know your thoughts.
Think you.

What hurts the most for me is the little things she does with him. Like the little peck of affection as she is leaving with him, or the gentle touch on his arm as they talk and ignore me. All the little things she used to do with me, but no longer does with me but with him instead. She acts like she loves him more than me, even after one date. But then, I guess being one of the little dicks, means it is as it should be. I hurt and she loves.

I agree Kittikat. It's all those little things. The way she stares in his eyes and smiles for him. The way there is always a point of contact with her boyfriend. It really hurts but that just makes her do it all the more. I love being a cuckold!

I am sure kissing hurts the cuckold. I have never been in an expressly "cuckold" relationship - but many of my swinging encounters - including especially the regular/repeat meetings - actually were cuckold based, when I look back at it. There were several couples where the husband did not participate and I had sex with his wife - and mine, every time. I really liked watching both women sucking my cock while he just sat there looking or jerking off. Alas, my wife grew tired of sharing me........and one of the wives started calling me on her own. My wife was not into that......the end.

It's looking at a sink full of dirty dishes, no food in the refrigerator and no dinner prepared, knowing she is at his house fixing him a nice meal then doing his dishes, then before leaving doing him!

I refuse to be hurt by anything and if I did I think that I would end my wife cuckolding me. We have a very honest relationship, my wife just enjoys fucking other men and loves cock, she just doesn't get any enjoyment from mine, simple.
I must, however, admit to a feeling of slight annoyance when she confides in me that 'so and so might not like this lingerie' when all I want to do is pull her panties off to one side and slide my cock in !

For some of us, we need the honesty, but for some of us, Like bumnote said, the pain we experence just adds to the pleasure of the whole experence. This is how it is with me. I do not want my wife to have sex with other men, as that hurts, but at the same time, I so enjoy watching a big cock pounding her wet pussy and the sight of her pussy full of his cum turns me on. Not to mention, sloppy seconds and clean up, and all the other things that go on when your wife has lovers.

for me it when she lets him fuck her ass, it turns me on but i have never been allowed to have a go myself so to speak, but i am torn because i love to clean her ass after hes finished, so whats the worst thing is also the best what a bummer

For me it's when She cums, crying out His name. my pathetic, useless penis won't get erect anymore, and is worthless to Her. She constantly reminds me of those facts, and it turns me on so bad. She constantly mind f ucks me, and I have a permanent hard on in my brain. It feels so f ucking good!

Have you tried a hollow strap-on ? I have no problems getting erect but this is the only way I'm allowed to fuck my wife. Very sexy and frustrating

She bought me a cock gag/dildo... now I am allowed to fuck Her with my face. SO close... yet SO far!

BumNote

When things get hot and heavy, I love to be on top, my chest pressed against hers, kissing deeply as I plunge my big cock deep down, again and again, searching for those hidden, sensitive places deep inside her body. Looking over at him as I discover that "right there! spot, savoring his envy. Then hitting it again and again with my hard cock head. Knowing chills of desire and jealousy are running up and down his spite as his wife starts making subtle grunts and feral noises, her orgasm building towards towards climax, is an incredible turn-on.

And my favorite cuckolds are the "five minute" types. I'm naturally long-lasting so taking her in five or six positions, for a good hour or more, until the pulsating room reeks of hot, dirty fucking is thrilling.

Finally, calling him over while she's riding me. Making him lick my balls so he can literally feel my cock bucking and pulsating as I pump my seed deep where his dicklet can never reach.

tiny tom

When I first arrive I love to kiss the wife, holding her tight, and whisper all the nasty, hot things I want us to share. I love it that the cuck doesn't know what I'm saying, but knows it's hot and dirty by her reaction, especially if she reacts verbally, saying things like "Oh, God, yes", "Fuck yeah," "I need that sooo bad" etc.

Getting the wife to openly display her lustful nature and him knowing that he can't satisfy her deep, potent carnal needs sends shivers up and down my spine.

When her bull is pounding her good and deep as I sit next to them on the side of the bed and hold my wife's hand and caress her head, she sometimes manages to give me this certain look that just sends me into orbit. It is hard to describe but her face has sort of the look of almost total "I can't help it" innocence, as she looks at me and puckers up her lips and throws me a kiss then I can read her lips saying 'Thank you, I love you'! My cock is rock hard and there are a million butterflies dancing in my stomach as I wish I could just lick her body until she just passes out at that very moment, so I do about the only thing I can at the moment by sucking on her fingers or her toes, letting her know that I am always there for her, loving her completely no matter what. I try very hard to not interfere with the bull's actions or bother him in any way. I am just appreciative that he has allowed me to be present. She's definitely my queen and I could watch her like that forever, enjoying her sexuality to the max. My pleasure comes from seeing her pleasure! It just hurts so good!! Although I feel a certain jealousy of the bull's power over us, I respect him and I feel very fortunate that there are guys like him who are willing to do this for us. They may feel sorry for us cuckolds, but we are o.k., honestly! Just like there is a circle of life, this is the circle of sexual fulfillment. They do the fucking, we do the enjoying.

JUANITO
Very well explained.

I THINK FOR MY HUBS IT IS INTIMACY, MY B/F IS A GOOD KISSER,AND GREAT LOVER.HE ALSO IS ALLOWED TO BE BAREBACK.AND I REALLY GET INTO IT WITH HIM,AND HAVE GREAT ORGASMS , SO I THINK ALL OF THE ABOVE MAKE HUBS,FEEL HURT AND JEALOUS AT TIMES.

Sybil279

I envy the lucky cuck that has been fortunate enough to get you as the Bull for his wife - what you describe is the core essence of cuckolding: a Bull with a huge cock and the skills to fuck the wife deep and extensively, a Bull with the full comprehension that fucking another man's wife is a form of art involving a lot more than just penetrating an eager pussy - mind fucking the cuckold husband like you describe really sets you apart from most wannabe Bulls!

I agree with tiny tom - thank you for sharing with us and making all of us go nuts imagening how an expert Bull performs.

For me it's rimming. She never rims me but rims all of Her lovers and clients.

Herpleezer, that must really hot to watch!

I like missionary for a lot of reasons, but especially because the cuck can watch me and his wife kiss passionately while I'm slamming my cock deep into her body again and again.

I had a cuck tell me "no kissing" and his wife laughed in his face. We made a point of kissing just as she came while I was on top, banging her nice and deep the way she needs it. He objected and she told him to sit down and shut up. Which he did, being an obedient little sissy.

Most rules originate out of insecurities, so they're more common with those new to the lifestyle. But as a couple gets more experience the rules tend to fade away. We're done with rules altogether. It's not a "sissy" thing, since I'm an Alpha cuck. I just wouldn't want to limit her ability to try or enjoy anything she wants to do.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

This couple did have real limits, but his prohibition on kissing was just part of the scene; it allowed her to dominate him and was part of the play. Sort of like a sub begging his Mistress not to spank him when, of course, he's craving exactly that.

I love texting the cuck before and after, taunting and teasing him about how I'm going to shamelessly enjoy his wife, or reminding him of how thrilling it was to feel and hear his sexy wife cumming beneath me as I pounded her nice and deep.

And perhaps my favorite moment is greeting her after we haven't been together for a long time. The cuck seeing the eager anticipation in her eyes as my hands wander over her body. I love to tell him how hot his wife is, show him the bulge in my pants, spin her around so she's facing him as I fondle her tits and grind my hips into her ass. The cuck watching his wife give herself up to another man, to a superior lover. It's mind-blowing.

Sybil279
Your awesome!

I'm in the throes of messaging a would-be cuck from this site in the build up to my fucking his wife. We both know it's going to happen, I just like reminding him in detail of all the things she and I will do, while he watches if we allow him to. The more you push a cuck, the better he responds usually.

My wife typically communicates directly with the Alpha male. Their texts, emails, etc. are private, although she sometimes shares some juicy ones with me. I've never had the other guy text or communicate with me. I would probably enjoy that.

It's actually smart for the Alpha male to do that, too. The cuck can provide a lot of valuable insight about the wife, and if you think about it the Alpha male and cuck have the same goal. Working as a team, and communicating with each other, to make sure the wife gets exactly what she needs is actually in everyone's best interest!
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

My husband loves to see me in the arms of another man. I kiss my lover, he penetrates me. I fully belong to him. My husband is happy.

That is exactly it, Happycpl. Such a feeling in the pit of your stomach when you see the together like that. My wife has even done that with strangers.

I've never felt real "hurt". In private, I can't think of anything that bugs me. The affection and kissing is no problem.

However, if we were in a public setting (bar, party, etc.) I could see the possibility. For instance, if my wife were to get a little tipsy, forgot about me and start hanging all over another guy, with others knowing she was my wife, that would probably sting.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Well today I was knelt by the front door, naked and in chastity as I always am at home. I was waiting to answer the door for Pablo who is my wife's lover. I had spent the last 2—3 hours helping my wife get ready and I knew she was very excited. I opened the door when I heard his footsteps on the drive. He walked straight past me and ignored me and sat down in the lounge while fetched him a beer I know he likes. I left the room to inform my mistress, she smiled at me, most unusual, and said 'I hope you're ready to cry for me.' The cruel look on her face told me something unusual was about to happen.
She walked past me and clicked her fingers to make me follow in trepidation. As she walked in the room her boyfriend started telling how sexy she looks, and she does look stunning, and saying how proud he is to have a girlfriend so beautiful. Needless to say I am excited thrilled and humiliated all the same time. He stood up approached and started to kiss her. I knelt there transfixed and being as still and quiet as possible. I watched her melt in to him and felt that familiar twistng pain in my stomach. None of this is unusual so far but it took my surprise when Pablo said, 'I love you!
What?!? Where's this come from? I just knelt there and accepted it like a good cuckold.
Then came her reply, 'I love you too.'

There next kiss was so intense I thought I was going to collapse. After several minutes they broke the kiss and smiled looking in each other's eyes. I was told to crawl closer and I did to the sound of 'good Cuck' and giggles. I as got there I kissed my mistress's shoe. I was told to look up watch her kiss the man she loves. I did and I thought my heart was breaking as cock tried to burst out of its cage. She smiled down at me and demanded, 'kiss the feet of the man I love.' She could see i was start to tear up and she said 'wait, I want to see your tears in your face.'
They turned to each other and gazed at him again and once more said, 'I love you, my special man.'

So, I thought kissing hurt the most emotionally but I have been proved wrong. They have gone out for a romantic meal and are returning later. I to present when they make love later so my tears make my wife even hornier. I'm both extremely excited and very anxious.