The Cuckolding Fetish When Your Wifes Cheating Turns You On

Some husbands like to watch their wives cheat. Welcome to cuckolding, a taboo fetish that is far more common than you might think.

Imagine hearing your wife whisper in your ear, telling you all the naughty things she did with a coworker in the backseat of your car. Instead of getting jealous, it turns you on. Maybe you enjoy the idea of how desirable your wife is. Or maybe you want to watch while she cheats on you, taunting you, powering you to get involved in humiliating ways. Welcome to cuckolding, a taboo fetish that is far more common than you might think.

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Cuckolding is a very permisteral thing. To those that don't do it, they can't understand the attraction. To those that do, they've realised there's no finer lifestyle! I've been involved for over twenty years, both sides of the coin, best twenty years of my life!

During my early days of marriage no one could have convinced me that I would become a willing cuckold and that I would love the experience and love my wife for providing it to me. Once I was in it and found quite by accident that I was loving it, a whole new world of sexual pleasure opened up to me. Maybe cuckolding is not for everyone, but the old saying 'don't knock it til you try it' sure holds true for this lifestyle. I would have called anyone crazy who would have tried to convince me that I would love it, and here I am now always on the hunt for new bulls to pleasure my wife! I would never want to go back to my old stupid jealous ways. Now I say to other virile well endowed hot reded men who would do my wife properly 'bring it on, big guy...she and I both love it'. Just go figure!!

Juanito - Absolutely!

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Same here Juanito. I could not of conceived the thought of not only allowing my wife to fuck other in the early days but to actually encouraging her too these days. I guess that is maturing and getting past the early jealous ways of our youth.

I think we are programmed totally wrong by out parents...we are told to look for 'nice girls' and hopefully those which have saved themselves as virgins for their future husband...nothing true about this...in retrospect, when I think back on how much time I actually wasted seeking the traditional one man one woman couple true to each other, I say that kind of thinking was total bull crap. Instead of looking for the 'nice girl' I should have instead married the local whore who fucked most of the guys in high school with no strings attached. She would have made me a lot happier a lot quicker, and would have saved me a lot of wasted time on traditional roles. Lucky for me my once 'nice girl' finally later came around and turned into a very hot wife for me, but just as easily I could have been left as a lot of wannabe cuckolds who can only dream about their wife doing another guy for them. Thankfully it works out for some of us, but I honestly feel bad for the guys who crave it and cannot accomplish it. They are left frustrated and wishing things could be different in their marriage. The best day in my marriage was when I came to the realization that I wanted my wife to fuck other men and learned that she was willing to try, and once she did she loved it.

I lived with a gal back in my late teens that would go out and cheat on me once or twice during the month. Back then with all the machismo that comes with youth, I would be so angry and hurt when she'd get home at 3 in the morning. But the positive side of that was that she was always still horny when she'd get home. She'd always be so apologetic about it, then she'd take my head in her hands, and would guide me down between her legs. It would always be so painfully obvious that another man had come inside of her, yet at the same time I would be more turned on that words could describe. I would eat her until I would feel her hands on the back of my head while she held me in place while she would orgasm into my face. I rarely ever got to penetrate her after performing oral on her because I'd usually come on the sheets while eating her. She never asked me why I would eat her like that, it was just understood that if she got home late, I was going to do that. It's still some of the hottest memories I have. My wife now won't even consider it. And yes, I have asked her.

The first notion that I had that cuckolding, or I should say a willing cuckold hubby even existed was when I was much younger and thought I was a regular Casanova. I was working at a large hotel kitchen and had the hots for a pretty waitress that worked in one of the dining rooms. To make a long story short, I finally was able to take her out one night after work and got my share of fingering her, a BJ in the car, etc. She then when I brought her back to her car, which was still parked at work, suggested I follow her home. I did and once there she told me to wait in the car for a moment as she had to go inside for a moment and prepare him to meet me. Prepare who? I was totally puzzled!! Her man? She then confessed to me that she was in fact married to a guy 18 years her senior, a gentleman who allowed her to go out with other men! She sometimes could bring the guy home so hubby could watch them together and play with himself. I was horrified and totally scared that the husband would shoot me in the back, later claiming it happened in a fit of jealousy, so I declined. It was my first hint at such a lifestyle, but in those days I could not ever have imagined me allowing such behavior from a wife. Now I see things from the other side! These facts of life should have been explained to us in school...much better use of learning time than learning how to dissect a frog!!!

My wife admitted to having an affair about a year ago. Since then I can't stop thinking about her and him together. I fantasize about it often. She has talked to other guys since and though she denies anything has happened with them I still fantasize that it has. The thought of her being with other men is an incredible turn on. I have brought up the idea of me being ok with her being with other men. Unfortunately she's not open to that kind of arrangement and we are heading for a divorce. Still, the idea that she won't relax with me but is relaxing with other men is so sexy.

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I know your situation. My wife has so far refused to allow me watch her being fucked by someone else. The thought of actually being there up close and permisteral, so close that you can see the wetness forming around her vaginal opening and the smell of their hot sexual activities is extremely dick stiffing. It's too bad that your wife wants a divorce. I guess she hasn't cum to terms with the concept of fucking fun with others and the security of going home to hubby all satisfied. Even if she is sore and tired she should at least sit on your face when she returns and tell you to beat off while licking her used and used tender cum filled cunt. Just my thoughts though.

i122 and Happycpl, I couldn't agree with you guys more. I still find it a huge turn on knowing that when my g/f goes home to her (caged) hubby, she's going to be sitting on his face for a minimum 30 minutes. Sometimes, it's not my cum he's eating!

One of the most intensely arousing sexual times happened the first time my wife went out on a date when we first started...I stayed home babysitting!! My head was pounding with excitement the entire time she was out with the guy. I had to jack off several time while I waited for her. When she got home I could not wait to get her in bed and to start eating that freshly fucked pussy. The orgasm I got from having her sit on my face that night was like no other I had ever had until that time!! I still love having her sit on my face after a night out with a guy. Incredible turn on! This picture shows just the type of moments we live for!!

This has to be the Ultimate bedtime snack!

I have to agree. I don't know which is better though. Sending a wife home with her pussy full of my cum or waiting on the wife to come home to me with her red swollen cum coated pussy lips?

My wife continues to deny that anything is going on now. But I know from her texting history and FaceBook that she is talking to a new guy. She is going out of town this weekend but is refusing to tell me any of the details. I have a feeling she is going with him. I may be home alone this weekend while she is off relaxing with him. I wish she would tell me about it, but for now I'll just be home alone fantasizing about what she's doing.

That is so mean of her! My wife is the same way. She rarely tells me of her future plans. Like this past weekend. Her sister came into town and they bought new swim attire, then headed to the beach. After a couple hours I got a pic of them with the caption,"A couple cougars on the prowl". After that their phones were turned off because I heard nothing from them for the next 24 hours. When I did all she would say was that they had a good time. Oh and for everyone's information the beach they went to is right across from a Navy base.

Now she has shaved her pussy. That's something I've been trying to get her to do for me for years and she never would. Well she has now...but not for me.

She just left to out for the night looking very sexy. She said she won't be home tonight...

That's pretty bold of her especially if she still won't admit she is taking a new man's seed.

My wife and I have an amazingly strong relationship and that allows us to play around with the idea of cuckolding. I know that no matter what my wife will always love me, and so I feel secure enough to encourage her to experiment. She has always been big into roleplay and fantasy, as well as writing. For a few years she has exchanged emails where friends of hers would take turns writing stories and Roleplaying in a purely non sexual fashion. As I began to express an interest in Cuckolding her stories with her friends started to take on more and more of a sexual tone as she became more confident. She eventually told me how much these stories turned her on, and I pushed her further to write more and more. Eventually when one of the friends of ours that wrote with her divorced his wife she pushed things further and even started having sex with him on rare occasions. It was amazingly hot and I got very turned on, but he was not a very aggressive guy, and I being a somewhat larger and scary looking guy I think intimidated him, even though I did everything I could to tell him, No I want you to fuck her and make her scream your name. She wants you to grab and spin her around and push her down, to drop her panties and fuck her and take her in front of me. It helped that he had a nice huge cock, I am average to just a bit below average and her boyfriend before me was Huge. As she has gotten more into cuckolding I have gotten her to admit that she misses the size of his cock and how it filled her, and that she prefers doggy style and I am just not big enough to really fill her in that position. I have told her to imagine him inside her while we fool around. She has had sex with two of our friends now, but both becouse they have known me for years aren't super very... bull like I guess. They are far to polite. I have convinced her to put me in panties, it seems to really turn her on now, and gotten her to call my cock tiny. I can see things shifting in her mentally and she masterbates to cuckold porn now, wich is a huge turn on. She has posted a couple times here using my account and I can't wait to see what happens from here on out. Thank you for letting me vent, putting this kind of thing out there is really new to me as I am usally more of a private kind of guy.

I found that when my wife first started letting herself be fingered, giving guys hand and blow jobs in the car, letting them suck on her tits, etc. she would many times deny that anything sexual had taken place. She would go to lunch with a guy who had been coming on to her, and she would tell me that it was just 'friendship'. (Yeah, RIGHT!) I was very suspicious when she would go to lunch with a co-worker (male co-worker) and return late, sometimes sitting in the parking lot with him for a long time. I wanted her to admit to me that she was in fact having some type of sex with him, but she kept denying it. Much later she admitted to me that her denial was due to the fact that she simply did not want me to astray with another woman. She felt that if I knew she was being intimate with other men I would then feel like I would be justified in having sex with other women. It took a long time to convince her that it was not the case and that she did not have to worry about me playing around with other women, no matter how sexually active she became with other men. Once she fully believed this and understood that I only had HER PLEASURE in mind, she opened up to the things she was doing with those guys. My own pleasure would come from the fact that my woman was being sexually satisfied with my full knowledge and consent. Her finally granting me this cuckold status simply elevated her in my eyes and I fell in love with her more than I ever had before that. She truly became my queen and her pleasure was all that mattered from that time on. I massage her back, her feet, suck on her toes and totally worship her on a daily basis. She knows she owns me totally and is no longer afraid to admit to any of her sexual encounters with others. I totally welcome the idea of other men having her so long as she keeps me in her life always ready and willing to please her in any way I can, regardless of whatever it takes.

when my wife is out prowling for Alpha males,its not uncommon for me to masterbate.....just can't help myself!

There is no more thrilling sensation on earth for me, than meeting a husband and wife in a bar for the first time, and making him move to a table nearby while I take the seat next to her. Assuming we hit it off, then touching her, kissing her neck, whispering sexy things to her and glancing over at hubby with his sad, puppy dog eyes.

I love meeting in a hotel bar. She and I head up to the room alone, first and I give him a keycard for the room and tell him to wait. Then I text him pictures of her hand, with her wedding ring clearly present, stroking me and pleasing my hard cock. Making her call him from the room as I penetrate her sweet pussy for the first time so he can hear her satisfied moans and my ****** grunts.

Then when things are hot and heavy command him to come up to the room. I let him in; I'm naked and rock hard. I smirk as but looks down at my cock and makes an unfavorable mental comparison. Then I tell him to sit in the chair i placed near the bed and go back to work, making his wife cum in ways he can only dream of.

We had been into swinging with other couples for some time when, with my encouragement, my wife started seeing a co-worker for regular fuck sessions. He was unaware of our lifestyle and just thought he had a married "bit on the side".

At some point along the way we decided to start a family and talked about curtailing all extra-marital activities as she wouldn't be on any birth control. One thing I have learned about human desires and emotions is never to expect clean cut breaks to relationships. During the time she was fucking him with my knowledge, we would talk a lot about her experiences. She was somewhat reluctant to talk about how much she loved his cock, though when pressed would describe it as a lot thicker than mine with a big mushroom head. Looking back now I can clearly see why she would be unable to resist his continuing advances, everyone here knows how it works!!

Her confession came during the pregnancy, not the best timing for dealing with such an issue, and we just got through it. The cheating, coupled with the possibility of impregnation, remains a huge turn-on for me almost 25 years later. We never went through anything like that again, though I would have loved to. What a rush.
I still jerk off manually...

Here is a simple way to vividly plant the seed in wifeys mind of another man planting his seed on her cervix. Without looking or sounding like a kook. Without looking like a perv or like you are trying to palm her off on other men for your own kinky pleasure.

You need to be rational, patient, sincere and honest to do it properly. If you are, then here is a potential strategy: See your physician to ask for a Rx of Cilias 20mg. Some weekend that you know both of you will spend together, take one tablet Friday night. You must not jerk off or even get laid that whole weekend to do this right. Think of a guy that you know wifey would consider for a lover (we can call him Joe for the sake of the story). Dont act like you are up to something or she'll see right through you and it just wont work. When your cock is ready, quietly start popping hard ons at will all weekend. Eventually she will notice and say something about it. Act uncomfortable when she asks and without being obvious or overdramatic, subtly and shamefully change the subject. Try to be evasive by awkward silence as she begins to probe you for info. Do not piss her off but act like something is on your mind. Take another pill Saturday and Sunday but you shouldnt need one to get hard if you just don't wank! Her curiosity will magnify each time she notices how hard you get at times. The more she comments about it the more you just keep brushing it off. Finally, let her painfully know how "Jose (a guy she heard of but does'nt know) told me that Joe thinks you are hot and sexy!".

Be ashamed and humiliated as she drags the Joe story out of you. When she finally "breaks" you down admit to her that the thought of her and Joe together turn you on as much as it embarrasses you. Tell her you feel ashamed of yourself especially because Joe is superior in bed than you and you are afraid she would be displeased about your excitement.

She will console you and tell you not to worry but the seed has been planted. A friend who can casually tell Joe that your wife is hot for his body with your OK could help get things started on that end. Nature will take its course and the best thing both wifey and Joe can do to help you is sex each other. When she sees how often you get boners and act nervous and realizes why, she will deal with it in her own way.

Big rush for a lady when she sees you getting hard and anxious over thoughts of her being sexed by a superior male. So long as she knows that you are getting no pleasure out of your hard dick from thoughts of her cheating with a more desirable man, and only suffer because it turns you on so much, she may act on it. If she catches you enjoying, rather than bemoaning your thoughts of her with another man, forget the entire thing!

A stiff, hard cock will easily betray a soft, wimpy husband. He can't get hard for her sex. He gets rock hard thinking of other men getting hard for her sex. Very insulting to any wife. The payback is a Bitch.
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I don't know I_A_S_P, All that may be true when you are first getting her to cuckold you, but once things are rolling and she's enjoying it, things absolutely change. The times I've been allowed to be present during my wife's lovemaking with a bull she goes out of her way to demonstrate to me how much she's enjoying his cock. She will really exaggerate her hip thrusts and her loud moaning and hard breathing. She specially likes to see me turned on by the sights and sounds of her lovemaking with him. She will sometimes glance at me and blow me a kiss so as to rub the whole thing in my face. Of course it totally turns me on to the point that I must start jacking off and she absolutely loves it. Nothing shy about her any more, and the more she rubs my nose in her cuckold ways the better she likes it.

Well said! Once things start rolling they do tend to snowball!
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MY HUMBLE BEGINNINGS: I don't dwell on it, but it really is hard to believe the wife I have now after many cuckold episodes is really the same somewhat shy girl I married. I believe the seeds of cuckoldry were planted into her brain when she went to a coworker girl friend's adult sex toy party sale party. There were nothing but women there and they were offered sexual toys that could be purchased. She ordered a very lifelike dildo (raised veins and all) about 10" long and pretty thick, and wrapped it up for me as a present. She said she had only done it for a joke, but I'm sure it was her way of telling me she was open to its use, although she never came right out and asked. She then put it in the night stand and then I discovered she put some KY jelly next to it. I think it was her way of hinting to me, so I picked up on it and started to introduce the dildo into our lovemaking. She had previously confessed to me about a previous very well hung boy friend she had before we married. She said the size of the dildo reminded her of his cock. His name was Pedro, so she joking around started telling me we should name her new 'boy friend' (the dildo). She said she thought calling it 'Pedro' (the ex boy friend's name!) would be appropriate. She then sometimes started to ask me to get 'Pedro' out for her because she was extra horny. I believe way back then she was setting me up to accept my role as her cuckold. She would masturbate herself with 'Pedro' and guide my head close to her pussy so I could see it going in and out of her. Slowly I started to accept the idea and so she has convinced me that it had been originally my idea to let her be with another man...I think because of how turned on I was watching her doing herself with 'Pedro'. She once in the heat of the moment asked me if I could accept it if he was a real man and I told her 'Yes, of course I could!" The groundwork was laid for me! I think she was planning to cuckold me all along way back when the dildo 'Pedro' first came into our relationship. It was her way of preparing me for the real thing to come. Women can be quite manipulating that way, but instead of resenting her for it, I am grateful that she opened my eyes to a whole new fascinating and enjoyable sexual experience, that of being her consenting cuckold. She has become my queen and her sexual gratification is the most important thing to me, regardless of what it takes to make her sexually fulfilled.