Should I stay or should I go?

Hello everyone, this is my first post here on this site. I joined up specifically to ask for a little help, and this seemed to be the best forum to ask in.

My girlfriend and I have been together a year and a half. I've had this cuckold fetish for a little but I've been way to jealous to ever let it come to be. When I'm horny I'm all for it, but after I come down from the orgasm, I want no part. So far we've never actually had this take place, just used to talk about it. Although, a few nights ago it was brought up and there is someone who she likes and wants to go through it with him and myself watching. Permisterally I don't know what to do. If I go through with it, I might like it, but also I might hate it and I know it's not something I could deal with if I hated it. I'm thinking I should give it a shot, and see how it goes but I'm at a big crossroads. Does anyone have any suggestions for me?

If she is already wanting to, then she is going to do it. Therefore, you can either go along and hope it works out, or try and go on with her knowing that she has this desire and probably isn't going to be happy unless she quenches her desire.

I sort of agree with mickey6423. Will she agree not to and then resent you or decide to and not tell you? Maybe she's not taking it that seriously and everything will work out. It still isn't a solution though is it ken_theI sort of agree with mickey6423. Will she agree not to and then resent you or decide to and not tell you? Maybe she's not taking it that seriously and everything will work out. It still isn't a solution though is it ken_thecurious?

Let's work on a solution.

Cuckolding isn't just about giving up a girlfriend to another man. That�s a form of swinging. Cuckolding involves at least a bit more and you are asking advice on a cuckold community so let me offer some from that point of view.

You say, ��after [you] come down from the orgasm� you start to get jealous. Well I have good news and bad news. It�s called denial. Don�t cum. In fact she should put you in chastity like mine does or tie you to a chair with your hands behind your back beside the bed. I mean, if you�re going to share her, get kinky with it. Doing this also includes you in an off hand sort of way (pun not intended). It takes energy to tie you to a chair and/or put you in chastity. It takes energy to include you in cuckolding when she could simply go off and get fucked.

Another thing that might help is �aftercare�. There is something called aftercare when couples are new to play. It�s a moment they spend alone together, communicating and checking in with each other, letting one another know they are both still on the same page. This should be done within 24 hours of the play experience and is a great time to be released from chastity and get an orgasm from that wonderful woman you love.

An orgasm delayed a long time later while she tells you how much she appreciates the freedom you gave her is so much nicer than simply letting go during their embrace, (most times long before they are finished).

Good luck, I hope it all works out.
curious?

Let's work on a solution.

Cuckolding isn't just about giving up a girlfriend to another man.
Vancouver BC, Canada

It sounds to me that you planted this in her head, to some degree at least. I mean everyone finds the opposit sex attractive (everyone straight that is) but not everyone allows themselves to indulge in those ideas enough to open up when they are in a committed relationship with someone they care about. You basically gave her encouragement to explore that attraction to someone else, at least on a sexual level.

Depending on what stage the relationship is in, how committed you are to each other, how much trust you have in her, how committed she is to you, your relationship might be tested. Is she young? Does she love you more than just being in love with you, is she a mature permister, a compassionate permister? Also, is this a guy you know? Is it someone who is going to be in both or one of your lives for a while? Because that's something to consider if your just trying this out, how you might handle the possible fallout...

Whatever the answer is, I'd go through with it unless there's a chance you might be permisterally humiliated, because my guess is that if this is your fetish it's going to stick with you until you scratch it and since you've already opened "pandora's box" with her, you might as well see what the reality's impact is on you so if this does damage your relationship to the point of no return you have something to go on when you get into another relationship with a woman who is really special to you.

Hi Ken,

You sound exactly like I was a few months ago. Now, I'm watching my wife suck off well hung black guys and enjoying it.

For years, I was a closet cuckold wannabe but after I came from jacking off and thinking about it, I was totally NOT interested. But I found a woman who expressed a desire to swing and have a swing relationship together so I told her of my cuck desires.

This is how we did it.

We started out slowly and I'm not allowed to cum until after the guy leaves and I have sex with her.

The first few guys she just did a hand job to. I watches and got semi hard and then when the guy left, we had sex. After a few times, she started licking his cock and then going more and more until she's sucking them off now. The trick is to NOT cum while the guy is there, save it for later.

Am I jealous? Hell now, I love it.

Try it, don't complicate it.