Very excited about new girlfriend, she is a virgin too

I am dating a new girl and I am pretty excited about this relationship so far. She is EXTREMELY shy, very nerdy, dorky, never really had a real relationship, and there are two things about her so far that are a huge plus for me. She is a virgin, and I told her about a fantasy I have of her relaxing with another guy, and she is open to it!

I just wanted to share this info with you guys as this is the only place I can talk about such things. I have talked to her more about her relaxing with another guy but she gets a bit upset and says that is for later, first the relationship is about us.

What do you guys think?

Im happy for you man and good luck getting her into the lifestyle. Her being a virgin could make it a little more difficult but then again maybe not. Either way...enjoy.

would you be willing to let another guy be her first...?
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

I think it will be difficult but she might come around who knows. I would definitely love to have another guy be her first. I'd even love to discuss that with her but I'm afraid if I bring it up it might scare her off...

hi lava
firstly show your love to her by committing to just her, spend time on her, use your tongue to make her come, but don't penetrate her with your cock, then gradually explain that you are not the best man for her first time but you feel she needs a better man to do that and that you will love her forever. once she understands that you care for her she will be more open to the idea that she needs this more experienced man to take her
make sure she also understands that he must be bareback so she can feel him inside her and of course that will make a nice little present for you as she tells you all about it
just take your time

Steves that's not a bad bad idea, but I am not sure I will be able to withhold myself that long from having her hehe. She is sending me mixed replies because at first when I told her about my fantasy through email she responded pretty positive and was surprised. Then afterwards I told her it would be cool if she made a profile on a site like Plenty of Fish just to see what messages guys send her and that she can chat with them if she wants. She got a little mad and told me that we are barely into our relationship and that she wants to focus on us and not other guys.

After I let the subject cool for a bit, and then I asked her what she thought of my fantasy when I first told her, and she said it bought a smile to her face. She said she is open to doing it but down the line.

Problem with me is I'm impatient, haha, I would want it to happen soon :P

Yesterday was the first time I did anything sexual with my gf. We were cuddling watching a movie and I got to finger her. She was wearing tight black leggings and I was rubbing her pussy through them. After I got my hand inside and managed to slip my finger in. She was very wet. She also has big lips and a decent sized clit. All I kept thinking about is a big cock stretching her...

I have never heard of a virgin cuckolding her boyfriend or husband when it's her first time...it seems like that would be such a special time for you two to bond, even though she may be aware of your fantasies...it is still about the two of you, with the outside guy being there only for the lust part of it. Maybe you should consider braking her cherry with a life-like dildo and you being the operator...in that manner her first will always be associated with you, or something which you controlled. Anyways, just a thought since there is a possibility your natural equipment may not be long enough to brake her cherry...at least you can use artificial means (the dildo). Later you guys could even make a little shrine for it!! Just some thoughts!! Good luck and hope everything works out for you. Every good cuckold deserves a good, sexy woman who supports him and makes him complete!!

We were texting today and I told her I was a cuckold. She is at work right now but she said we will talk about it later. Feels like a big weight is off my chest...

my .02

You should be the first. Don't bring it up again until several months after you first time. She knows... The seed is planted. Don't rush... You will scare her away.

Don't turn her into a slut. No girl wants her first time to be like that. Treat her like a princess and let it work itself out.
HIT1969

^ I agree with you hit, I will be her first for sure and I am not talking much on the subject.

On a side note, is there a good guide or article explaining cuckolding and why someone would want a relationship like that? Pro's of a cuckolding type relationship. Or even send her a link of a very good video that has a cuckold type scenario.

I can only dream of having my wife cuckold me. I am 32 and she is 30. But I bet she wouldnt go for it at all.

There are several well written articles on cuckolding, but I think most try to argue the benefits to the woman of cuckolding, not really why the men are truely into it. Honest is the best policy. Talk to her and let it come from the heart about why you would like this. Even if it is as simple as "I dont really know why, it just turns me on" is better in my opinion than trying to convince her of the benefits or finding some psycho-analytical educated guess dribble about the drive that makes men want this. Women respond well when you are honest and assertive. Just search around in google. Keyholder, chastity, cuckolding, hotwife... There are some keywords for ya. I think there is a cuckoldmarriage.info website, or something like it that has some good info too.

Honestly tho, I feel most of those sites are wankfodder for the wannabes.

I thought my girlfriend was a virgin. After I married her, I found out she had fucked at least 35 guys before me. It made me jealous then but I love that she had much more experience than me

Yea for now I am not going to show her anything, and I agree, most of the content is jerk fodder for us cuckolds, nothing more.

I made some exciting progress with her though. I wrote her a from the heart email describing one of my fantasies. The email was about her making an online profile on a site like PoF, and chatting with guys etc, eventually meeting one up. The fantasy was very soft, where they would text and flirt over the phone, and then eventually meet up for a simple date just to see a movie.

She said she liked the fantasy email, and I asked her what the best parts of it were for her, and she said the parts with me after she comes back from her date etc.

I also told her there is another version of that fantasy, which involves her and a friend of mine. This seemed to peak her interest. She asked me through a very cute text "So in your friend fantasy, do I get to choose one of your friends or do you? Or do we both pick?". This was so hot to have her actually display curiousity and interest. So far so good :P

Thanks arthur

My girlfriend took it upon herself to write me a fantasy story of her own. It was about her being bored one night, and having me go clubbing with her, but not in the sense we would be seen together, just that I would be watching from a distance while she would be flirting and dancing with other guys.

The other day I sent her another fantasy story of my own and she really liked it. I won't get into details but later on I told her it would be so hot if she invited a guy over and told me to wait in the other room or leave. She said that yea it would be hot, and that she would tell me to leave, and maybe or maybe not she would have sex with him.

She is starting to open up Which is awesome, and at this point I can be very honest about myself with her.

This an interesting thread. I wonder if the introduction of some chastity play could spark an idea in her head. Maybe suggest buying a device, to give her the power of when and where she would loose her viginity then try and engage in some sexual activity but with you locked up. That way she introduces the scenario of sex, with you, but not actually with you. Make it all about her enjoyment, her introduction to sex. Bring up the cuckolding as part of the fantasy, introduce her to that idea in a sexual atmosphere and maintain the power is always with her. Hopefully the two ideas will merge and she will come to trust the situation. Who knows, it may be an easy, fun and exciting road. Good luck.