Wife tells a friend

My wife told three of her friends, I've been through a lot of humi liation because of it. It's always present when I am around them, it's how they view me... as a weak man who gets walked over by other men my wife cheats with.
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Before we went public in a big way, back when our lifestyle was tamer, my wife shared with two friends. One did not live close, the other was just unconnected to any of our other friends or life (and not long after she also moved a distance away.)

Frankly, I think it was very helpful to our relationship that she had these two outlets. Many women need to share confidences and get some feedback to help them quell their doubts and be sure of they're decisions. "Girl talk" can be part of women's internal decision making and coping. This lifestyle produces a lot of anxiety about who and what you are for the wives as well as the cucks. Having friends you can have honest talk to about it is important for her mental health and comfort in the lifestyle.

I wouldn't worry about what the friends think. Most men are overly concerned about what women are thinking about them because somewhere subconsciously they are still viewing these women as potential partners. The higher part of your brain knows well that neither of these females was going to fuck their old friend's husband, so just remind yourself of that when you start to panic about what they think of you. The truth is that they probably think you are a swell guy and are envious of your wife. They also probably think you are a bit of a twisted perv, but they have seen as twisted in their time and - if they are grown-ups - they know it isn't really important except to that person's sex partners.

So relax and enjoy. My guess is that the outlet will lead you wife to be ever more comfortable about cucking you and increasingly normalize it as lifestyle for her.

Thank you for sharing your situation. Good luck to you both!
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

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Who knows, it may wake up the curiosity in your wife's friends as to whether they can get their hubbies into it...there are (I am sure!) literally TONS of married men out there who would not even think about the lifestyle on their own until they are suddenly confronted with it and realize they have a super boner as they imagine their wife with another man! My first cuckolding experience happened to me quite by accident and was not pre-planned...I had not anticipated just what a huge turn on it would be to see my wife with another man until I actually caught her cheating on me, and it was only then that I immediately decided that I truly LOVED it, so when I confronted her about her infidelity, I did so in a very positive manner, telling her I was not the least bit upset about it...I went on letting her know how much I enjoyed it and how erotic I felt her cuckolding me was, and how it turned me on like nothing ever before! I gave her full permission to fuck whomever she wanted to so long as she stayed safe and she let me in on it, and I have been a very happy cuckold hubby ever since. Maybe your wife's friends will start something of their own after learning of your wife's luck....your wife planting the seed of cuckolding their hubbies may be just what they need! A little push in the right direction!

I think it is great your wife has found two friends to share her experiences with.
My wife and I are in a half-open relationship, where she can relax around but I stay faithful to her.
She is enjoining this lifestyle very much but often she told me she wished she had some girlfriends to talk to about all this.
Of course we talk a lot but I guess women really like to have girls talk.
I also would love if she shared our lifestyle with some selected friends. I hope I will experience soon what you are going through, the embarrassment, the slight offense of your wife talking about how amazing is to have sex with other men, etc...

Keep us posted

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Love to hear more about what happens. I love being cucked.

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I have overheard my wife on the phone telling her gf how she has cuckolded me. I haven't said anything but it turns me on

That's great. I'd love to hear more. Be sure to keep us updated. I dream of a relationship like the one you are currently enjoying.

How did you start, presumably you introduced it?

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It will be interesting to see how Rosa's friends start treating you the next time they are over or when you both visit them!

This is an exciting theme, and I'd like to hear more...
Utter_Rotter
Writer and decadent

Pretty much all my wifes friends know. She'll hook up with men when they go out together, which is one of the reamisters she tells her friends. Have seen many texts between her and friends talking about men she's slept with. They will also talk openly about it while im present, which obviously is a big thrill.

this is very exciting, i wonder would the friends encourage her to do wilder things

Aside from the friends knowing she has control and fucks other men, the offense of the friends knowing I have a small cock and I'm less of a man than her lover... that would leave me with a constant hardon. I'm sure Rosa has included your cock size as part of the discussion and her friends all know you have a small cock, right?

My wife has told one of her cousins and a few of her friends what size i am and how she did my best friend

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great post!
joguy

Dear Bicouple,

Happy new year.
I hope that Lady Rosa will continue Her journey into cuckolding and that She is becoming steadfastly more dominant towards you to teach you your proper place in Her marriage.

Any updates from Her or Her friends (female as well as bulls)?

Sincerely
Elina
elina

Wife's Friends & Family Know My wife's best girl friends, her sisters, her brother and parents all know that she has fucked other guys, but they don't know specifically that I'm a cuckold.

Her family found out because her 2nd regular lover was the mister of her man's best friend and she fucked him a lot on some family camping trips we went on (and other trips that she went on without me).
Of course when her sisters asked her what was up and why she was fucking him and what did I think about it she told them because "he's an amazing lover and has a huge cock and my husband likes to watch". She even encouraged them to try him out. So while she didn't explicitly tell them I was a cuckold or that I have a smaller dick it probably didn't take much for them to figure it based on the circumstances, etc.

Once the cat was out of the bag with her siblings she would often go out to bars in NYC with her brother and always hit on his younger friends (he is about 8 years younger than her). She also went out with her sister for "girls nights" many times and fooled around with guys they met out at the bars.

After I adjusted to the fact that her family knew it started to turn me on a ton and now I love it when my wife makes comments about other guys around her siblings (or around our friends). They all just give me knowing looks and her brother always gives me a smug smile.

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love these stories!
joguy

Just one of an arsenal of powerful ways a wife has to pay back hubby! Kathy is one of many!

It would be great if Rosa allowed you to sit in on a visit with her friends and share your various views on lovers. BBWs, wine and dirty sex stories go real good together! They would love to hear your bi stories and Rosa will look good in her friend's eyes by your support of her sexual superiority in your relationship.

Good thread!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

Been there....done that...my ex-wife cuckolded me, and her friends knew about it...the interesting thing about listening in was that obviously, she had done and told things that she hadn't told me...so when I was there (and we all agreed that all could be open about it all...my (ex-)wife was a little nervous...but at the same time...very teasing...

I learned things (by reading between the lines in some cases) about my (ex-)wife's infidelity that was very arousing...when I confronted her later, and she confirmed...we had the greatest sex ever...

The first evening we were all together discussing such things, her very close girlfriend said: "you see Frank, me and my boyfriend are swingers, and we did learn about Ann's (my ex-wife - not her real name) dirty little deeds...and your desire...and...well...that weekend we were all going to the seaside and you couldn't come...it was sort of funny..."

And really not much more....but I looked over at my ex-wife...and she was blushing...trying to change the topic of the conversation...

I asked her later if they all had sex together...she confirmed but was still shy about it...

Later, when I was alone one day with her girlfriend (Ann was out for one hour to take care of 'something') I told her girlfriend that Ann had told me all...but that it would be hot to hear her version...and then it came...

"Well...then you know...she stayed with us in our bed the first night...my boyfriend is sort of demanding, so he stayed al the time in Ann's room...you like this...don't you..?" Giggling all the time...

It turned out that it didn't stop there....when Ann visited their house from time to time...her boyfriend used to fuck my ex-wife in front of her girlfriend...in a special sofa in their living room...they started to call the sofa "Ann's place"...and I have told that every time she stayed over...her boyfriend always fucked her "good night" before they went to relax...

I was a consenting cuckold to her long before these guys met...but for some reamister...this story was not for my ears...I again confronted my ex-wife...she told it all...after that, she never had secrets...she finally (I guess) understood my total commitment to her unfaithfulness....

So...my point...sitting with the girls talking about this may be hotter than you would ever expect...girls talk much more openly than they would do with their hubby...at least before they feel totally confident...


A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

Update to my update, turns out Rosa did not tell a certain friend about this.
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