Permanent Chastity & Shrinkage

Before we starting "playing" with chastity, I measured 5.9" when hard (I liked to call it 6" which is considered average by one major study ( The hyperlink is visible to registered members only! ). But that was years ago, and now we've gone through almost all the various plastic chastity devices -- with the type of device and duration of lock-up becoming more serious along our journey.

The CB6000s (for "short") was my wife's favorite because it fit so tight was concealable under jeans, and my chastity turned into weeks and sometimes months with only occassional releases. So the "playing" had progressed into true serious dom/sub relationship that including cuckolding.

We've also moved from the plastic CB to a mature metal CB (Queen's Keep), and physical/emotional step has been a huge one for both of us. Instead of looking down and seeing something plastic that could easily be broken off, it is permanent. I can't describe the increase in submissiveness -- almost like now I can't wait to be locked-up, and she can't wait to do so to find a well-endowed lover.

My size started to dwindle too, over a period of 6+ years. What they say is true: Use it or lose it. And without stroking it all the time (wasting orgasms as my wife calls it), shrinkage definitely does occur.Today, it is barely 5.4" when really hard, and 5 1/4" when hard most of the time (she measured it just last night). So now, instead of being in the "average" range, I'm in the bottom 25% of size and my wife loves it more as it gets smaller. She says she's shooting for under 5" hard !

I know that sounds terrible from a male perspective, but it is erotically fulfilling to a submissive. I asked my wife for her thoughts about this shrinkage before I made this post, and She said (actually texted me): “The shrinkage is a tangible reaffirmation for my husband that he cannot adequately satisfy my needs, and he happily searches for a much more endowed man who can properly fulfill me. This satisfies his submissive needs and my dominant sexual ones in one very happy outcome for us both!”

I'm wondering what kind of shrinkage others have experienced, and whether their wife has taken such a positive -or proactive- part in it?
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