Introducing conservative girlfriend

Hey everyone!

I'm currently dating a girl that is extremely shy and conservative. She is 29 and never really had a relationship, the last guy she was with was 6 years ago.

I would love to introduce her to the concept of her relaxing with other men, but I have no clue how or where to start with someone that is this plain/conservative at the moment.

I'm also afraid of freaking her out, I'm very sexual and have many kinks/fetishes, and I've never discussed anything like that with her yet.

Anyone have any experience approaching women like this? What should I do?

No one?

My wife was just like her... I would mention it during sex and feel her pussy get SUPPERRRR juicy... Try that... just ask her, " if you could fuck anyone right now other than me who would it be?"

I would start out very light. During sex, or even over a couple takes, ask her about her fantasies. See where they lead you. Be careful when mentioning this to her, many women first think that if you want her to fuck other guys, that you will want to be with other women. Or might come back at you with "aren't I good enough for you?" You will need to be clear with your answers to her questions.

Make sure you have a way out of the conversation if it starts to get heated. Good luck.

I agree with Allen. Conversations where you both reveal what turns you on is the best way forward. Mutual vulnerability builds intimacy, trust, and comfort in a relationship. Until you now her a bit more that way, you are always going to be on eggshells about this.

One useful tactic might be to find an outside conversation starter to get the topic going - a news report or a movie, for instance, or a book. If some element of your fantasy is part of the story, it gives you the opening to try to get a chat going on the topic in the abstract, which often feels safer for your partner and gives you deniability if you want it. Of course a more direct version of this is when the film, book, etc. is porn. Watching a porno that includes a fetish almost makes talking about what they think of it unavoidable. But I'm not sure what you mean by shy and conservative, so it may be that viewing porn at all would be as bog a deal for her as the cuckolding fetish.

Anyway, good luck to you!
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Thanks for the replies guys. I guess the first and easiest step will be to talk about fantasies and turn on's, and see where the conversation goes. Viewing porn right now would be a big no, as she doesn't even know I watch porn, and if she found out I don't know how she would react. She seems very proper and conservative, although when we first made out, she did stuff that suprised me quite a bit

Will post back with an update, but it might take a while...