just starting with ex

my wife sees her ex boyfriend. Not sure if he is a bull or a fuck. He told her she should send me to garage while they screw in our bed. What do you think or should time be the judge?

give them a brake
let him feel assure to fuck her anytime

It depends on what you want. If you want to be a cuck, and you are alright with it being this guy, then give them some space. If you don't want to be a cuck, or if you want to rule this guy out of bounds, then draw a line.

Either way, you should have some frank conversations with your wife about what you both want and expect, where this is going, and what your limits or rules are.

Good luck to you both!
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

Well of COURSE he wants to be a cuck. Why else do you think he's on this forum?

love this

Look forwarding to hearing more

A dangerous assumption. There are many, many people on this forum and in the world who get off on the fantasy, but would never want it to happen in real life.

Or who aren't ready for it to be real yet. How many stories have we heard on this site over the years from guys who once blew a beautiful cuckold relationship because they just couldn't handle it emotionally, or were too scared and now desperately hope that they'll find a woman who will give them a second chance at living their fantasy?

Fetish is powerful stuff - this one particularly - and clouds judgement. People need to reflect on how far they really are prepared to go and what they are really willing to risk in order to ensure a great ride and avoid instant crash-and-burn. Like any sort of gamble, people will vary in how much risk they are comfortable with at any given time. For some folks, just posting here probably feels scary.

A big part of this fantasy has to do with the risk of ruin and/or oblivion inherent in the scenario. Newbies need to be careful that they don't go like a moth to the flame. Otherwise you may find that you get to the part about paying the consequences too quickly and vulgarly to enjoy the ride.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

Yeah;

I would agree with Terry. From the Bull's perspective, being alone with her and having time to get comfortable just being together in the arrangement is greatly appreicated -- esp if he hasn't been a Bull before. Curious to know how emotionaly close/initmate they were as BF adn GF before, how long since their breakup and if she's made it clear to him whether (1) she would like to reunite with him as a serious BF, with you as a cuck -- or (2) if he thinks this is the beginning of a breakup for you 2, or (3) she just wants him a s a sexual playmate and nothing more.

Seems like you and she need to be clear with him about which of the 3 it is, or somebody will get hurt. If it's true that after committing to you, she realizes that he is more of a man (sexually and in other key respects surrounding her gender ideals); and she wants to behis GF and your wife ina meaningful sense -- then definitely htey need some room to rekindle their relaitonship -- adn for him to get used to being with her as a married woman with a cuck (something most guys dont' anticipaet in a GF -- I know I didn't when it first happened).

Those are my thoughts.

Jsn

Very well put Mrs black , put me in that category .

Thank you bikerboi. Any chance we could convince you to share your experience with the board community?
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

I agree with bikerboi, that's pretty sound advice MrsBlack. The most important thing (to me) is being true to yourself. You can find common ground with your wife and enjoy the things that you want to do together that you will both find sexy and empowering.

And yes, there are tonnes of people here that aren't cuckolds even if they might become them one day. I cane here because I was curious and there really isn't much in the way of resources on the internet. If you want porn that's no problem, but this is a place where people can relate their true selves (mixed in with a good dose of porn of course!)