luckydude307
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Hello all,
I am new to this site, and new to cuckolding. I have never been cuckolded before, but it has always been a fantasy of mine. It has really consumed my thoughts quite a bit recently, and I would very much like to get into the lifestyle with my girlfriend. We have great sex, very frequently, but I just can't get the thought of her taking another mans cock in her out of my head! It drives me crazy! She is fairly experienced in your normal one-on-one sex with a partner, and she's great at it I might add! She hasn't really done anything on the more kinky side of things before though, but I'm almost positive it's something that she would be into if she thinks about it for a while.
What I would like to know, is what is the best way to bring up the fact that I would like to watch her have sex with another man? I feel like just straight up coming out and saying it might not exactly be the best idea. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated!
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HotWifeHunter
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Introduce the idea when you are in bed and having sex and talking about fantasies. And then see and feel how she reacts. Don´t use the word cuckolding... say, what about a 3some with you, me and another guy?
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Hawaii 5 O
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My wife and I started with Swinging, then to MFM 3somes as HotWifeHunter discribed. While in the MFM, I'd let the other male and her "play" while I'd photograph them
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briantoronto
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My wife and I had our first "talk" after a guy was hitting on her at the bar in a local casino. It opened all the lines of communication between my wife and I. Soon after I set up a similar situation to have a guy hit on her again, this time she was more comfortable and went a little further, while I watched from a distance. After having "the talk" again, she was ready for a real date. That's how we got started.
It all starts with the talk and letting her get comfortable with the idea !
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luckydude307
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Thanks!
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brainbox1
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#6 · Edited by: brainbox1
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Agreed - communication and sharing the thrill and excitment of the situation is the key. Gently and slow, and not full on (softcore not hardcore) is an approach I recommend.
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DarsLangly
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the swinging scene is by far the most 'natural' route to real-world experiences like this. There are a variety of low-pressure ways to get introduced to swinging culture (e.g., nude couples resorts, which are about half swingers and half not), and swingers are generally totally savy to the cuckold idea.
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