When is the first time you realized you had a small cock?

I started having sex in highschool. No girls ever complained. I never put 2 and 2 together but EVERY girl broke up with me right after we had sex. And after highschool they either broke up or started cheating on me. When I was about 19 I was a waiter and this 40 year old MILF picked me up. We went to her place and had sex. Afterwards when I was leaving I aked if I could come over again. She told me flat out "No, you have a pretty small cock, a lot smaller than most guys and I do not have time for small cocks" SO I left a bit confused and started looking into it. I had really never seen a male hardon except porn. I found out my 4.5 incher was very very small compared to the average guy. That is also when I realized why all the girls broke up with me or cheated. My first wife left me for a guy with a bigger cock and my wife know cucks me like crazy.

So I guess when i was 19 and that MILF told me my cock was small was when I really figured it out

I was always aware as a boy that i was smaller then the others boys. What really made me realize how tiny i was happened when my girlfriend of 3 years dumped me when i was 21. She told everyone i couldn't satisfy her, it was so embarrassing even my mum got to hear

I had always thought that I was about average size until I joined the armed services when I was 18. I returned one evening from the showers with just a towel around me. As I took off the towel I realised I had a 'semi' on and, a little embarrassed, turned away so the other guys woudn't see. One of the guys said "Thank goodness for that. We all thought you didn't have one at all". This caused quite a bit of laughter and one guy dropped his trousers to show his own, very impressive manhood and and said "You need something like this if you are going to satisfy a woman". I was too embarrassed to really look, but even soft his equipment must have measured 2 inches more than mine did when hard.

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WantingIt
I don't know why you say that about this thread. I myself have had very similar experiences. My first clue I had a small cock was comments from other boys at the school locker room. Then later l couldn't satisfy women. I finally decided to make the best of it and get off on my pathetic equipment. Encouraging my wife to break our wedding vows followed. ultimately other men began enjoying her pussy instead of me.
Faggot Pussy

Very similar experiences here. I also began having sex at a young age and had no problem getting pussy, but what I noticed was few repeat customers. I would close the deal and get the girl to fuck but afterwards very few layed there satisfied. Not to mention a problem with limp dick. Eventually I got really good at eating pussy just to stay competitive.At 17 I started dating the girl who eventually would become responsible for my fetish into cucking. She cheated on me throughout our entire relationship. But we always seemed to get back together and we fucked all the time. I had thought I was big, then realized I was average at best. Eventually we broke up and after a few months another relationship developed with a woman a few years older. I was 21 she 25. I will never forget following the first time we had sex she said "I thought you would be way bigger. I've been with guys that are hung like a horse" Despite that comment, we stayed commited for 2 years. Yet, she never initiated sex with me. Even my wife today, she never initiates sex. I get maybe one blowjob or session per year that I don't have to initiate. If I don't go after it, there won't be any sex. So like yourself I put all these variables together and the startling conclusion is that I have a small penis. Not on the extreme small side but on that average/below average mold. Today my wife seems to have several male friends she communicated with and god knows what's happening while I'm not around.
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Jeanne and girlfriend Jess
well did you get locked up ?

when we had a foursome with our bestman and his wife - first was the couple of comment from them that i was smaller than they expected (i'm over 6' tall with a 4 3/4" dick he was similar height but 7" and thick) and i witness the difference in my wifes reaction to being fucked by him as opposed to me- we never had another foursome as his wife was not that impressed with my performance, but he carried on fucking my wife regularly for quite a while

I didn't realize for years that I was bigger than average.

The irony, of course, is that I don't have the attitude to go with it. I'd rather be female.

xoxoxo

Christine (a sissy m)

I posted this on a similar thread a couple years ago:


i had a sense in grade school i was smaller than my classmates. while changing for gym it was obvious even guys much smaller than me in stature had a bigger package than i did.

in jr.high i met my best buddy, ron. his dad had a pool, a pool table and a rarely locked cabinet pull of porn mags, i never wanted to leave! over time we got totally comfortable with each other and explored the magazines (lots of oui, club, penthouse and weird european stuff) and jacked off in front of each other.

i was always very aware of our size difference; me at a slim 5 (which is now more like 4.25 - 4.5) and him at a huge, and uncut, 8+. even tough we both understood he was unusually large it really reinpowerd my suspicion and fear that i was quite small. ron and i talked about my size and he started a running joke about how small i was. it wasn't mean, or meant to be humiliating. i think he was trying to make me feel better by making my worries seem a little silly (this is exactly what my wife does regularly).

in any case, ron started making little wisecracks about me being small. i remember lots of these, now that i'm really thinking about it. once we jumped in the pool on a very cold morning and he said his cock really shrank from the cold. then he looked at me and asked me if mine had shrunk enough to make me a girl. HaHa. lots of times the comments came while we were jacking off, describing what we would do with this or that hot model. i'd say, "oh i'd fuck that one all night." and ron would say, waving his big dick, "she's mine. maybe you can do her LITTLE sister."

the ones that really stand out were the ones done in front of people. we'd be ordering lunch, and he'd correct me saying something like, "my friend only wants a SMALL coke." he often called me his "little buddy," which people were curious about since i was a little taller than ron. i told ron to knock it off a few times but eventually i gave in and acted like it didn't bother me. sometimes i tried a comeback about him being way too big, but these sounded lame even to me. mostly i just felt embarrassed and a strange sort of comfort i struggled to understand. ok, i'm small, i told myself. i can stop wondering if i am or not, at least. i'm embarrassed about it but ron didn't really hold it against me, so maybe i could find girls that didn't mind either.

and then there was the attention. all those comments meant ron was thinking about my dick. as a young guy any attention felt better than none. it also seemed like it balanced things out between us a bit, making me feel a little less weird about being so fascinated with his amazing dick.

so, by 7th grade i knew i was small and i started the proess of enjoying it.
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I'd always known i had a small cock, but it didn't really hit home until my first wife went around telling everyone the reamister she'd left me was because i couldn't satisfy her. Even my lady got to hear and told me that she was ashamed of me, and that she wished i'd been born a girl. shortly after i began wearing panties in secret, and stockings and suspenders quickly followed after

boarding school 16...you cannot hide anything there.

worst still try getting a fuck when all the girls know about it as no true women wants it public knowledge her BF has a small dick before they even go a first date.

On the same topic, it took me awhile to put 2 and 2 together before I found out that I have a thick and good cock.

Women who I have had sex with, would occasionally stop by for more even after we broke up. For a long time I thought women just did that because, well they already knew me and it was easy to do it again.

Later I noticed that basically every woman I had sex with, was open for more. Even right now at this moment I could call up two who are married now and get some action. But I am happily married.

Then with the advent of internet porn etc I noticed a lot of guys look thinner than me.

It just happens that my cock is bigger and thicker than average, and I have good red flow so it gets extremely hard (never half mast). So when I am with a woman once I can count on a lifelong free invitation to return. Does wonders for my confidence level.

The irony of it for me is that I'm not small.

I just wish that I weren't a guy.

xoxoxo

Christine

I'm average, so none of it bothered me until I went into the sevice and saw some real woppers.

my wife says im not that big

When I was in grade school. I was standing at the trough pissing and I noticed my friend was clearly thicker and longer. It took until about 5 years ago for me to accept it. Accepting my small dick is one of the better decisions I've made. I no longer have problems staying hard because my brain isn't worried about being inadequate. My wife loves my dick and she love big dicks. We've worked it into our dirty talk. Dildos are very helpful too!
fender

This sums it up...

I'm bi, and I realized that I had a small cock during my first experience in high school with another guy. He was my best friend, but we had never seen each other nude before.

We were both tipsy and talking about things. He'd just come out to me as gay a couple weeks prior, and being pretty close to takes, we made a bet. Our bet was that we'd measure, and the one with the smallest cock would suck off the guy with the biggest.

When the pants came down, there wasn't any need to measure, and my friend had to stifle a bit of a giggle. He told me that he couldn't help it, he thought I'd at least be close.

We did measure, though, and he was just shy of twice my length. I ended up as the bottom many times over the years as we remained (and still remain) fuck buddies.

Mmm, very nice!

xoxoxo

Christine

When my girlfriend (now wife) told me she needs AT LEAST 2 more inches inside her to be fully satisfied... and then promptly got two more inches cheating on me a few weeks later.

She still reminds me I'm inadequate for her... but refuses to cuckold me now that we married... sigh. Would LOVE to see her full-FILLED with a monster cock, which I know for a fact she prefers.
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For me it was not until we started this life style. I was married before and my wife said I was the biggest she had. Now after meeting with our second bull I could see the light. I am around 7", but pretty thick. This guy is almost 11" and doubles me in girth.

Now I don't know if I have a small dick, but compared to our bulls I do, and what there dick does for my wife I cannot make happen.

About 20 years ago when my wife told me that the guy she was currently fucking had a cock that she could feel inside her.

In the college showers after sports. Looking around it was obvious I was smaller than any other guy by quite a bit. My dick still looked like a boys (it didn't hang at all as it was short it just sat on top of my balls). All the other guys cocks hung down. Some were average, some were really quite large.

It was not until my first real girlfriend cheated on me with a guy on my course who had a huge cock did I realise my little dick was not enough for a woman.

Junior high (they call it middle school now LOL). That was my first experience in changing clothes in a boys locker room with a bunch of other guys. At the time nobody noticed that mine was a lot smaller, but I quickly noticed that everyone else's was bigger. Every cock I saw was 1.5-2 inches long soft, which was right about where I was when erect. Several of the guys popped boners from being naked in front of other people and took great pride in strutting around showing off their erections. I didn't need to see mine compared to theirs to know that even then they were about 2x-3x my length.
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I love to be humilated over my little 3 inch dick.
I watch you bareback her then I clean up.

I’ve known I was small since I first stating dating and I think ultimately it is what took me down the cuckold relationship road. My cock is about 4.5” erect but it’s really, really tiny flaccid. Maybe an inch at best. Like other posts here I never had many repeat customers when first dating.

I remember the first time I fucked this woman. Afterwards I came out of the bathroom from cleaning myself up, she was laid on the bed. She looked down at my cock as I walked past and said, wow it’s tiny, while holding her thumb and forefinger up. I would end up marrying this woman.

Over time I have learned to make the most of a small cock. I have been able to create situations where I have been able to “legally” expose myself to women. I love their reactions and how they don’t see me as any kind of threat. One time I had a massage by a Thai girl. I was wearing a small towel across my crotch and as she was going through the massage, she was continually repositioning the small towel to keep my cock covered. I said that I have no problem being naked. She took the towel off me and I saw her struggle to hold in a laugh when she saw my 1 inch cock. Half way through she went out of the room to get hot towels. I heard her talking in her native tongue to a work colleague and, judging by the laughs, assumed they were talking about me. About 20 mins or so later her work colleague “accidentally” walked in to our massage room. She was apologetic in broken English but didn’t make an attempt to leave. She stayed for a couple of mins talking to her friend in Thai, who was massaging me, both of them giggling all the time while I was laid there with a tiny 1 inch penis.

But the best time was when my wife and I had an unexpected 4some. We got really takes while we were on vacation in the Caribbean. We got back to the hotel room and were all making out. My wife suggested us 2 men stand next to each other while they knelt in front of us giving us a blow job. My wife pulled down T’s shorts and boxers and out sprang a thick 8 inch uncut hard cock. The look on my wife’s face said it all, she was gasping in amazement, and she said, oh wow – it’s been a while since I had one of these. Then T’s wife disrobed me. I knew I was in for some comments because, due to the large amounts of holy water, I wasn’t even hard. When she pulled my shorts down T’s wife had a look of confusion on her face as she was faced with a tiny 1 inch dick. Then T spontaneously said ”I see what you mean”. This caused huge amounts of laughter among all of us. To cut a long story short, T’s wife tried to work with my cock but was going nowhere. They swapped places and my wife had a go, but it was futile. The night ended with T fucking my wife and his wife while I tugged away at my penis. I will never forget that night.

At school, when after games lesmisters finished and it was shower time. The rest of the lads called me "half-incher" and i realised why very quickly. I became paranoid about it, but now just accept it and actually like being naked and being caged and ridiculed....

Great question.

I proably was not out and out told it was small until my first wife had a heart to heart to me. I never knew of the term of a cuckold.....but that was my journey after that chat and has always been since that day.

But it explained a lot reactions from earlier girl friends. Back then women did not have the confidence to talk that straight. I was just great to get a women to relax with you.

I know believe very strongly in your sexual world...whether gay, bisexual, cuckold...the size of your cock decides your position.

Not in carreer but sex life.

I'm not huge, but not exactly small by any standards...just over 7"....the length, however has nothing to do with me wanting to be a cuckold...I discovered quite by accident, that I derive awesome pleasure from watching or imagining a nice stiff cock (other than my own) entering into my wife's pussy and fucking her brains out... preferably while I watch and masturbate or encourage her by whispering into her ear or sucking on her toes. Although a lot of the small penis guys say their cuckoldry was pre-determined destiny, I think it just has a lot to do with how our brains are wired...we can't help it!! I went from being a super-jealous idiot in the early days, to actively seeking other men to fuck my wife with my blessings. It was how my brain was wired and had nothing to do with the size of my dick, but with what turns me on...nothing I can do to change that, so I just have accepted it!!

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