Why do some cucks agree to wear a cage?

Whilst I can fully understand the sexual arousal a cuck can get when is wife is with a potent well endowed bull, I fail to understand the reamister why some cucks wear a cage. Why do they wish to be deprived of the decision to enjoy sexual relief, or in some cases, deprived of it altogether. I would be interested to know what prompts this choice and whether or not any control is retained by the cage wearer.

The cuck wants to be completely emasculated by his wife. He seeks for her to be completely dominate in his life controlling even when he receives sexual relief. He is completely turned on by being totally inadequate beside his wife's lover who has a penis 4 inches longer and 2 inches thicker than his own. He craves to hear his wife make sounds during love making that he's never heard before, and doing things to her lover that she never does for him because she's in such a state of ecstacy. If everything goes just right for him, his wife will derive such pleasure from her new lover and his huge cock, she will no longer be sexually interested in him at all. He may only be relegated to cleaning her house, and serving her and her lover in other ways. Why? I ask why not?

How would you feel if your wife were out with another man being intimate? Would your heart race? Would you be humilated as she reports how much bigger his cock is than yours, and how she loved the feeling of being filled up like never before, and how she came vaginally like she's never done with you? Would you be angry, or would your cock stiffen like never before? ...or both.

As a cuck who does play with a cage, it's a powerful thing to give someone control of that most intimate and permisteral of things: your ability to sexually satisfy yourself.

While we don't play 24/7 with our cage, we do use it for our scenes. I'm free for the vast majority of the time, but anywhere from 3-7 days before my wife has a play date with a lover, I submit to being locked up. So for sometimes 7 days, I'm still providing my wife with her nightly orgasm (at least one, sometimes more as the mood strikes), yet not able to partake myself. By the seventh day, when her bull comes over, my head is about ready to explode from being so horny.

Then I get to either watch or listen as she cums again and again, and (if he's one of our safe partners) as he lets loose inside her.

At around that point, I'd be willing to do just about anything to be able to cum, and my wife knows it. So does her lover.

It's an amazing place to be in.

There's also the offense aspect. One of my wife's lovers is one of my coworkers, and he knows about the whole situation. When she has a date with him, she always goes the full 7 days with me in the cage, so I have the whole time knowing he knows. Quite the trip.

As far as control - we always, ALWAYS play with a safeword. Any of the participants can call off any or all parts of a scene at any time. If there's something wrong, I can call the safeword and get out of the cage.

Judging from what I read here, I'm into the whole offense, subservience, I'm-a-worthless-excuse-for-a-man thing far less than the majority of Cuckolds. But I still find the idea of getting locked up in a cock cage to be exciting and intriguing, though I've never actually done it.

Perhaps it's because I'm getting older, and I have more anxiety and disappointment from being unable to get erect when I want to than I do from having a small dick. I imagine that if I were locked up and unable to jerk off even when my own willpower gives out, I'd be hornier and more easily aroused when my Hotwife finally did let me out. Maybe I'd even be unable to *not* get erect; that's the way it was when I was younger. I want to still be able to show her how crazy she drives me all the ways she used to see & enjoy it.

I still go crazy with hornyness and frustration and jealousy when I know that my slutty little Cuckoldress of a wife is off enjoying someone else's huge Cock, but sometimes my own equipment just lays there limp. Maybe if it were locked up I'd feel less anxiety about that, and I'd be more able to spring to attention if/when she let me out.
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Natura rewards, giving pleasure, those who collaborate in the process of procreation. Women are rewarded for lending his body for make babies; alpha males, for providing the semen; no-alpha males, by facilitating his wife to be impregnated by the better male, which help the preservation of the species.

This explains not only the use of cages, but the cuckold phenomenon generally (cage is one of the many ways in which the non-alpha male facilitate the "preservation of the species", then Natura rewards him with pleasure).
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It demonstrates my total subsurvience to my Cuckoldress and her lovers. Allowing them to conrol by sexual release. Withholding my pleasure while they engage in their passion. My frustration ever increasing as my poor excuse tries to grow and get hard but totally restrained to the point of pain. Watching them the precum starts to leak and i am powerless to stop the increasing pain watching their natural like pleasures taking place right before my sissy eyes.
And these feelings are only compounded when they choose to dress me in my frilly sissy outfit and pimp me out for their amusement and to make money.

I am not sure most men actually 'agree' to wear a cage. AFAIK, most cages are desired and purchased by men. It seems to be more difficult to convince a wife or gf to understand his need to wear one and agree to allow him to lock his sex.

A cuckold who is very comfortable in chastity is much more agreeable to have around! He knows his place, has the proper attitude and is obviously NOT the second rooster in the henhouse!

Voluntary chastity is a perfect way to demonstrate that his wife wears the pants. Similar to the way that eating his wife's creampie after her lover fills her, sincerely shows his approval of her cheating!

It is not easy to cock block anybody from behind a chastity cage! Things can run pretty smoothly when hubby isn't making everybody trip over his loose dick!
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The best cage is a full penectomy

This is exactly the attitude my primary slut's husband displays. he know's where he stands, and he wants to serve her and me. He's locked away long term, gets let out for hygiene reasons and occasional 'milking' by his wife, that's it.

Even if you are not naturally submissive, most guys have given in to the wishes of their girlfriend, and
if married most have definitely given into their wives. Why, you may ask? To steal a line from
Eddie Murphy, because they have the pussy, and it's good. As a passive guy, my ex-wife was the
first woman to become dominant over me. At first it was little demands, always followed by sex.

After about a year of this, it was clear that we were in a Dom/sub relationship. She dug the power,
and I dug her control. And there you have it. Giving up control. Hell, alot of times I felt I was just
there for the ride. I had little say in any matter. She made all the decisions. When we were in
this phase, I was blissed out in subspace most of the time. I would do anything for her.

We didn't know about cock cages back then, but if she had brought one home, I would have willingly
put it on. She did make me give up orgasms, tho. Said I had to earn them. When she would go to
work, I would do my chores and then be very tempted to jerk off. When she got home, she would
caress my dick. She could tell 90% of the time if I had cum already by how quickly I got hard.

For me it was in this order: Sex as a reward, then demands followed by sex, then demands followed
by the promise of sex, giving in gradually and then completely to her control, then wanting to please
her whether sex was involved or not, then giving up sexual release (most of the time). At this point
I would have gladly gone into chastity for her.

In the end, dominant women are far and few between. Most want to be dominated, and most cucks
know exactly why.

Good summary lilmikey!
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Exactly, which is why most real cuckold relationships don't really have the "dominant, bitch wife" role that the fantasies portray. In our relationship we maintain the natural male-Dom dynamic because it doesn't conflict with basic instincts. Women may have the pussy... but they're also naturally programmed to willingly give it to men. They don't see it as a reward. In fact, they know if they don't give it up, then they risk their man getting it elsewhere. So we use denial sparingly (for a few days at most) and we don't have a cock cage. She thinks they look ridiculous and I would never agree to wear one.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

SheDatesHeWaits

I am certain things run that way in your relationship. It may be slightly different for some other guys.

Generally I have found that a wife with a lover on the side may tend to be a tad "dominant bitch".

Women have the pussy. They give it to men that displease them by not giving it. She does not care about another woman's pussy. She has decreed no pussy for hubby. If hubby is foolish enough to touch another woman, there will be hell to pay. Ladies have been known to reward men they are happy with by lavishing him in hot, wet pussy. I have heard that some ladies punish their wayward husbands by denying their pussy. "No pussy for you tonight wise guy!".

Right now a cock cage has negative connotations for many people. I see potential for them to become very popular male genital jewelry. They can tidy a male crotch and adorn it. Men can express themselves with ornamental cages. A man can wear a cage simply because it makes him look and feel good. I am guessing that the future might contain many new, happy, mainstream cage wearers.
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Women have always had the pussy. However, women have also always been primarily submissive to men.

You're absolutely right... it's definitely different for some guys. There are some who choose to flip things contrary to nature's programming, and play submissive. But they're in the minority. Most women want men who act like men. For that reason I doubt cock cages will ever become jewelry for men.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Lol, PC you are right. Sometimes I don't even remember that I'm wearing a cage, and other times
it pinches and stings like a *** of a bitch. These adornments will never become popular, but for some
of us, jewelry is in the eye of the keyholder. Do you like how I spun that?

Agree and agree.... my wife is the one in charge in our relationship, and she find the metal-cage very useful in getting her in control in our marriage. Every time she get angry for somethings, she take out the lock, and its lock-up time.
It can be for small mistakes, like she find out that I get a female request for Facebook-friend... and its lock-up for a week or two... or if I smile to a girl in public, its 3 weeks lock-up, or if I ask her where she is going tonight... thats at least 3 months lock-up time....

genesia, I'd like to meet your wife, she's certainly got you under control. I liked the nice red ass, and the extra small and tight cage showing off your swollen balls to perfection, not forgetting that butt plug. I think you're getting everything you deserve.

lilmikey

Cages are already very popular. Many men prefer the chastity and the pain of the device rather than the pleasures of being balls deep in pussy. They willingly "enjoy" the sacrifice and pain. Nobody twists their arm to wear one. Women are beginning to understand the benefits of training their man into chastity. Eventually some popular male sports figure or pers0nality will come out and declare his love of chastity and the cage. Then cages will start flying off the shelves and securing the junk in male crotches.

Of course the majority of men and their wives will shun the device. I believe a sizeable minority of couples will embrace the concept once they understand the values of chaste living. It is certainly not for everybody.
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I see cages going hand in hand with male submis/sion, since it's an extension of the control that a husband gives to his wife. That's probably why it doesn't appeal to us, or to couples where the wife remains the more submissive in the relationship. My wife wants her man to be a man. She finds male submis/sion unattractive.

However, we have played with the whole denial/chastity thing, and we actually enjoy mutual abstinence a few days before she has a planned "date". It can heighten the sexual tension, and make her orgasms with "him" much more intense. But anything longer than a few days and we both get grumpy. For us, regular releases together as a couple helps us stay bonded as a couple... even though the vast majority of our releases together involve hot pillow talk about someone else fucking her!

cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

SheDatesHeWaits

Cages certainly do go hand in hand with male submissi0n! Most posts on this site deal with the husband's lusts revolving around and focused in his wife's sexual satisfaction from other males. The whole recreational cuckold scene is based a cuckold's enjoyment of his wife's sex pleasure; delivered by a more capable lover than he. Chastity and denial are just a couple more ways of deference to wifey's sexual superiority!

Many men love chastity for many good reas0ns. The number one reas0n is the fact that they actually get pleasure and satisfaction from owning a chaste crotch. Regardless of the hassles of the device.
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I have no interest ever in being in a cage. That being said if the cucks want up wear them godspeed and enjoy yourselves.
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My wife and I started out with mutual swinging. We did some light BDSM with her usually taking on the submissive role (but occasional switching). However, for some reason both she and I have slowly began to enjoy the cuckold fantasy more over the years. We started playing with a cage about 10 years back and she loves it. We cannot handle it 24/7... tried many devices but mentally and especially physically it does not work for us. Still, on occasion it is an awesome act of **********. My wife (and more than one girlfriend) also likes to be tied up and "raped" on occasion, but she is not really my slave and does not really want to be raped! If a cage works, go for it! If not, don't!

The vast majority of men wholeheartedly agree with your first sentence. Unfortunately, most folk do not understand why a cuck, or any man desires and enjoys chastity. Most people never will. Yet chastity device sales and wear has steadily increased over the last few years. It can potentially be an ideal marital aid for the right husband and wife! Couples are discovering how chastity can help enable them to deal with a myriad of problems, both personal and relationship, and even solve some of them!

Difficulties range from: The people's "Why would a guy want to lock his dick in a cage?" to the wife's "What is this clown trying to sell me now? Why? What's in it for me?" to hubby's "Yeah, I'm interested but I sure in hell ain't no sissy!".

A guy might want the cage to help him control excessive masturbation, intense thrills of self pun1shment and denial, or anything in between! Couples quickly learn how chastity can help establish a solid fem-dom relationship and create a better behaved, attentive, loving husband.

I believe that the main issue with chastity is the perception. Sissies jumped on chastity as THE accoutrement of choice and it is widely accepted as such. A CB on a pantied sissy is appropriate and cute.

Non-sissies wishing chastity not only have to deal with all of the negative issues of the kink. They also must accept the cold fact that caged sissies in panties, all aflutter about chastity, cast a pejorative pall over it. This causes many str8 guys to shun chastity because they aren't gay. The guy lets others nail his wife as he jerks off excitedly, maybe even eats the pie, yet won't embrace chastity because he's no sissy. Hmmmm.

Any penis, no matter how small and pathetic, looks pretty decent cloaked in a chastity device! Nobody knows what is in your pants but your wife. If she is happy with a husband in chastity, go for it! Sissies have their own agenda. Take a condom for example. Some use it to avoid pregnancy. Others use it to prevent disease or to give safe oral. Condoms can store a bull's load for a hungry cuck to enjoy later. Homosexuals have been reported to use them during anal intercourse................ So, would you refuse to wear a rubber because homos do? Gay or sissy use has nothing to do with a hetero couple's experiences in chastity. Who is to know if you don't tell?

There are many good aspects of chastity (only for certain people) that can make cage wear very worthwhile!
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