Did she cheat or cuckold me?

A little background, I have been trying to get my wife into cuckolding me for the last 5 years. She wasn‘t keen on it to begin with but for the last two years she has been toying with the idea and using it in our sex life. We have tried a threesome couple of time and one was a „semi“ cuckold scenario.

Last weekend I didn‘t feel like going out, she went with her girlfriend and I fell a relax in the living room. When I woke up in the morning, between 6 and 7 I was going to move into the bedroom. It was locked and as I tried to open it she and a guy came running out from the room, she was naked, he jumped into his trousers and shirt and ran out.

I was angry, I felt like she cheated on me but she told me she wouldn‘t have done it unless it was my fantasy. That I wanted this... but I didn‘t feel like it was part of a sex adventure for us, I wasn‘t aware but she said, if I would have wanted to cheat on you, I wouldn‘t have brought him home

I need advise here, searious one please. What do you think?
A couple from Iceland looking for some fun ...

You have a wife doing exactly what you wanted...whats the issue. To be a cuck means YOU DO NOT CALL THE SHOTS...she does. Best way to have handled it was to beg to lick her pussy clean after he left. Talk about sending your woman mixed signals!! You need to chill out and go with the flow

You are problaby right, mixed message from me. But i hated the reaction from them, running out and making excuses... and i hate my feelings about it too. When we have been with another man it was not jealousy I felt, excitement and joy watching...
A couple from Iceland looking for some fun ...

Seems to me you are looking for a certain type of swinging and putting the name "cuckolding" on your desires in error. I think she just demonstrated to you that you have it all wrong. This particular confusion of terms happens here all the time.

THAT is quite hilarious! Unless your wife wants to leave you, there's no reamister you shouldn't get over your anger. Take a few metaphorical breaths and assess what you want in your relationship and if this one will work for you. I mean, sneaking past you in the same house is hardly trying to hide something.

I appreciate your comments. It is a strange feeling... my fantasy life has been about cuckolding for the last few years, five years since I introduce it to my wife. I should just feel lucky she is getting involved? Would like to hear a women's point of view on the subject. Not saying I would not wan't more opinion from fellow cucks and Bulls...
A couple from Iceland looking for some fun ...

You are surprised it didn't go the way you imagined it. But, you've been cucked. She should be in the drivers seat when it comes to who, when, where etc., but she should always return as your wife. Talk to her about how they met, how she felt and how he makes her feel. She'll probably want to know how you feel. Be her supporting husband and just enjoy!
fender

Thank you fender. Good point. Does anybody know about any good books about cuckolding that me and my wife could read to get more into the lifestyle. Not talking about sexual stories about cuckolding (Have been reading a lot of them)...
A couple from Iceland looking for some fun ...

The proper thing to do is apologize for your behavior and tell her next time your reward, or punishment, will be to lick her pussy clean after he fucks her. That is the job of a cuck. You are her pussy cleaner now..and pussy luber if she allows you before a real cock fucks her

You brought this onto yourself and now want to play games? I mean cmon, did you honestlt believe you would write the script and direct everything according to your twisted fantasy. As an adult you should know by now that life doesn't always go according to plan. Like the famous slogan says "Shit Happens."

I'm in the same boat. Me and my wife have a few cuckold scenerios be play out during sex. If it happens I know its not going to go down exactly how I want it. Plus my wife is a thrill seeker, she is more likely to cheat behind my back and have me find out that way then me just handing her to another man.

Br greatful for this opportunity and apologize to her. Tell her that you love her and support her new lifestyle and that it turns you on so much that she is getting pleasure elsewhere. Offer to do whatever it is she wants of you. You're a cuckold now and many on here envy your new life.
Ronald Curry

There is a blog called, I play, he waits. it hasn't been updated on a while but the info on there is great.
fender

Thanks fender, good site. Sending the url to my wifes email
A couple from Iceland looking for some fun ...

If you encourage your wife to cuck you and she gets into the idea and does what you've repeatedly told her is your fantasy, then don't dare criticise her when she does what you've bugged her to do for five years.

You asked her to fuck other guys so she gets to decide who and when and where and how. Do you get to watch? Depends on her mood at that point of that evening. One time she might let you see and other times not. With your track record of yelling at her for doing what you begged her to do for five flipping years I'd be surprised if she ever let you participate.

Apologise and tell her she can have whomever she wants whenever she wants. You can ASK her if she will tell you about it before or after she does it but don't demand disclosure. Especially after your outburst she might well want to play and not tell since you might freak out. Let her do whatever she's comfortable with doing.