How to show the advantage of cuckolding to wife?

Hi everybody.
I want to involve my wife into cuckolding but do know how to start it right. So I need your advice.

I strongly believe in the cuckold-style family. But we are happy with my wife in the bed and outside for now.
So she has some basic knowledge what cuckold marriage is andshe has some wishes and fantasies about it as well. But she just has no stimulus to involve things like STEADY boyfriend, denial and so on in our marriage. Because the marriage is good enough now and “why should it be changed?!”

But looking back on our experience I believe cuckold marriage will suite us well and will make us much better!
So I want to involve little by little some elements. Smoothly. I want to MAKE HER WANT having a steady boyfriend, to have a marriage like many people in this branch do have.
I need advices, I need Ideas, how I should be acting to make her think in the right direction?
Here on in private - you are welcome!

P.S.: Don’t suggest avoiding the sex or similar. It’s very obvious tactics. I think I need something more sophisticated here.

Have her read the material at The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!

I'll second the recommendation for the cuckoldmarriage website.

Yeah, I know this site and I gave her some of the materials written there.
I think I just need to push her a little in this direction...

There is some decent advice in the "What is a good technique to get wife into the lifestyle" thread a little further down on this forum. It might be a little less scary to her if you did not emphasize the "steady boyfriend" thing, she might be more amenable to flings. That's how my wife likes it.
Old Enough to know better...but I don't!

I agree with my husband, if your wife had a 'steady' bull who could also give her everything you do why would she need/want you? I as a slutty wife perfer multiple men who each bring something different to my pussy......

You know, what really made the biggest push in moving my wife in this direction was her and I meeting another (cuckold) lifestyle couple for takes in an unassuming location (we met them in a jazz club). They were very much like us - kids, jobs, other interests, etc. This helped 'normalize' it all for my wife somewhat. It definitely helped us round the corner.

HopeToBeCucked, thanks for advice! To meet a real couple is a good option I should think about it.

LadyLisa, It seems I just wrote my thoughts in not so clear way.
The main thing wife gets from the lover is sex. As much sex as they both want. Besides, he can involve some romantic moments like cinema, dinner in the restaurant or so.
But he will always stay a.... can I say so, a Man for a bed.

He can't actually replace me, because I'm the closest permister to my wife and my love, I'm with her (like we say in our country) in sickness and in health, I LIVE MY LIFE with her and he couples with her sometimes.

I don't know if I described the difference clear but I think this is how the things should be.

He can't actually replace me

norwegian I see you are on the LadyLisa's side ))))
That's not bad, I really understand I should be careful here despite of the fact my wife loves me very much now.

Tell me then, how would you describe the long-term relationships between the three of the partners? What should they look like?
I mean, many couples here have such kind of love triangle for years. Is there any secret knowledge that I'm missing which helps them to success?